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    Okay so I'm probably going to get a lot of hate for posting this and no doubt a lot of "Wise up and go for it posts" but I'll post it anyway

    So I'm 21 and from Belfast and have wanted to see an escort now for a few years. I'd love to make it a regular thing!

    However, there's too many questions I still need answered:

    I want to visit someone who is 100% local (British or Irish included) and not in any way shape or form trafficked. I've been lurking on AW for a long time and I'm more or less just constantly watching to try and decipher who is actually genuine. I've short listed a few girls (Names ommitted incase it breaks any rules?) but I'm not 100% sure how independent they are, ideally someone who has visited either will be able to help me via PM or on here. My next method of finding local girls is those that have posted on this forum (Kate, Irish Sarah etc but I'm ideally looking someone who lives in or around Belfast all year round)

    My next worry is how safe these places are to visit. Ideally I'd love to have an outcall to my hotel room so I have 100% reassurance everything is okay but I'm no millionaire. Surely the girls that offer incalls at apartments/hotels etc come with a greater degree of risk, surely locals to apartments know what exactly is going on? will a journalist be waiting in a bush with a camera? haha and hotels... is it just a case of walking past reception and up to a room? or is everyone like

    Sorry for what some may consider newbie questions

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    Just pick a girl that's well established with good reviews and you cant go wrong, don't over think it ,just go for it. As for locations, discretion is just as import for escorts as clients, they choose their locations carefully, trust that they know what they're doing

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    Quote Originally Posted by picnicborrow View Post
    Okay so I'm probably going to get a lot of hate for posting this and no doubt a lot of "Wise up and go for it posts" but I'll post it anyway

    So I'm 21 and from Belfast and have wanted to see an escort now for a few years. I'd love to make it a regular thing!

    However, there's too many questions I still need answered:

    I want to visit someone who is 100% local (British or Irish included) and not in any way shape or form trafficked. I've been lurking on AW for a long time and I'm more or less just constantly watching to try and decipher who is actually genuine. I've short listed a few girls (Names ommitted incase it breaks any rules?) but I'm not 100% sure how independent they are, ideally someone who has visited either will be able to help me via PM or on here. My next method of finding local girls is those that have posted on this forum (Kate, Irish Sarah etc but I'm ideally looking someone who lives in or around Belfast all year round)

    My next worry is how safe these places are to visit. Ideally I'd love to have an outcall to my hotel room so I have 100% reassurance everything is okay but I'm no millionaire. Surely the girls that offer incalls at apartments/hotels etc come with a greater degree of risk, surely locals to apartments know what exactly is going on? will a journalist be waiting in a bush with a camera? haha and hotels... is it just a case of walking past reception and up to a room? or is everyone like

    Sorry for what some may consider newbie questions

    You're 21 you've wanted to do this for a few years and and you still have have all these concerns. That seems strange to me. What about treating it as a fun adventure and ignoring all the worries you've been stacking up. There's hundreds of escorts here and thousands of clients and when did you last see one featuring as such in a newspaper?

    If I may, I'd suggest a girlfriend might help ease your fears but if that's not possible or desirable, then read the info on the site for newbies and then pick a profile and make an appointment. It should be fun and if it's not you know it's not for you. One caveat, a good number of escorts won't take an appointment from a 21 year old, so don't be offended or put off!

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    Why not check out the reviews created while in Belfast from those you are interested in and pm one of the clients to ask them about the place they work in and if they think it is suitable or not? I'm sure most would be happy to share their opinion on things like that.

    Personally I prefer to do in calls, because I have more control. However if you want an outcall and have no previous experience, therefore no referral and we've not met before, then I would want a small deposit.

    This may rule me out, but then I am ultra careful and have learned to respect my time where many clients would prefer not to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    Why not check out the reviews created while in Belfast from those you are interested in and pm one of the clients to ask them about the place they work in and if they think it is suitable or not? I'm sure most would be happy to share their opinion on things like that.

    Personally I prefer to do in calls, because I have more control. However if you want an outcall and have no previous experience, therefore no referral and we've not met before, then I would want a small deposit.

    This may rule me out, but then I am ultra careful and have learned to respect my time where many clients would prefer not to.
    Im still such a newbie, i wouldnt have thought its ok to ask about locations like that, to be honest if a guy just joined the site with no posts or reviews and asked me about a girls location i wouldnt give it, no offence to the new guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by picnicborrow View Post
    Okay so I'm probably going to get a lot of hate for posting this and no doubt a lot of "Wise up and go for it posts" but I'll post it anyway

    So I'm 21 and from Belfast and have wanted to see an escort now for a few years. I'd love to make it a regular thing!

    However, there's too many questions I still need answered:

    I want to visit someone who is 100% local (British or Irish included) and not in any way shape or form trafficked. I've been lurking on AW for a long time and I'm more or less just constantly watching to try and decipher who is actually genuine. I've short listed a few girls (Names ommitted incase it breaks any rules?) but I'm not 100% sure how independent they are, ideally someone who has visited either will be able to help me via PM or on here. My next method of finding local girls is those that have posted on this forum (Kate, Irish Sarah etc but I'm ideally looking someone who lives in or around Belfast all year round)

    My next worry is how safe these places are to visit. Ideally I'd love to have an outcall to my hotel room so I have 100% reassurance everything is okay but I'm no millionaire. Surely the girls that offer incalls at apartments/hotels etc come with a greater degree of risk, surely locals to apartments know what exactly is going on? will a journalist be waiting in a bush with a camera? haha and hotels... is it just a case of walking past reception and up to a room? or is everyone like

    Sorry for what some may consider newbie questions
    Sounds to me like you're overthinking the issue.

    I'd say your main problem, as bluefan1 mentioned, is that quite a few ladies may not wish to entertain a 21 year old for various reasons.

    The trafficking issue has been hugely overplayed in the media and by certain parties who have their own agenda -- yes it exists but it represents a tiny minority, and your fear of undercover reporters is amusing but has no basis in fact. And while outcalls have their place, incalls pose very little risk in the vast majority of cases.

    Contact a lady of your choice, have an honest chat with her and arrange an appointment. And stop worrying.
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    2014 in Northern Ireland:

    Number of reported attacks on sex workers 70

    Number of sex trafficking cases ZERO

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    Thanks for the replies!

    I've since spoke to Sarah and as she's returning to Belfast in a few weeks it would be rude not to pop over and pay her a visit

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    Quote Originally Posted by picnicborrow View Post
    Thanks for the replies!

    I've since spoke to Sarah and as she's returning to Belfast in a few weeks it would be rude not to pop over and pay her a visit
    I won't tell you I'm back in a Week then or you'll be getting yourself upset lol.

    Have fun x

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    Quote Originally Posted by picnicborrow View Post

    I've since spoke to Sarah and as she's returning to Belfast in a few weeks it would be rude not to pop over and pay her a visit
    It would be very rude indeed

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