Your Queen

[Clueless]

A friend of mine alwAys referred to his wife as his Queen.

I think this is am endearing term!

Have you got a queen and do you treat her so?

And girls would you like to be referred to as one'e queen ?

Well its something different is it not ?

[slavetoyou]

A friend of mine alwAys referred to his wife as his Queen.

I think this is am endearing term!

Have you got a queen and do you treat her so?

And girls would you like to be referred to as one'e queen ?

Well its something different is it not ?

Every girl/escort wants to be treated as a queen.
It is an obvious choice. For me I have found someone who I think I treat as minimum as a queen but really it's as a total and utter goddess who I would do anything for. This lady I think has no doubt about the level or extreme that I will go too to prove my submission.

I think the term queen can be applied to all types of relationships, but that is a generic term. How the person who speaks this term applies is different. My Queen can mean to one person " I love her but that's it", or to another it could mean " I love her I'll do what suits me once she's happy", or it could mean " I love her and will do what I think pleases her" or it could be taken as " I worship the ground she walks on and will do anything she asks and by that I mean anything I mean anything (which has been tried and tested)
or something along those lines.
For me the term queen is something that I only use when I speak about my mistress. I was lucky enough to find a real life one . For a queen a solider will march, starve, and die for his queen, as a slave I will do all of those things, I will not get a medal, or even thanks, but I will know my mistresses life will be made that little bit easier. This may sound like bullshit to many but when your only life is the one your mistress gives you it is your motto, how does it go "to protect and serve". Fuck that sounds familiar

[Curvaceous Kate]

Every girl/escort wants to be treated as a queen.
It is an obvious choice. For me I have found someone who I think I treat as minimum as a queen but really it's as a total and utter goddess who I would do anything for. This lady I think has no doubt about the level or extreme that I will go too to prove my submission.

I think the term queen can be applied to all types of relationships, but that is a generic term. How the person who speaks this term applies is different. My Queen can mean to one person " I love her but that's it", or to another it could mean " I love her I'll do what suits me once she's happy", or it could mean " I love her and will do what I think pleases her" or it could be taken as " I worship the ground she walks on and will do anything she asks and by that I mean anything I mean anything (which has been tried and tested)
or something along those lines.
For me the term queen is something that I only use when I speak about my mistress. I was lucky enough to find a real life one . For a queen a solider will march, starve, and die for his queen, as a slave I will do all of those things, I will not get a medal, or even thanks, but I will know my mistresses life will be made that little bit easier. This may sound like bullshit to many but when your only life is the one your mistress gives you it is your motto, how does it go "to protect and serve". Fuck that sounds familiar

No I don't, I want to be treated as an equal. We all work to our strengths and should pool those strengths together to make the perfect functioning union where respect and equality is at the top of the list.

I'm afraid a man who needed me to tell him what to do would drive me up the wall and in contrast a man telling me what to do, would not be well received either.

So... no, no man is my King and I am no man's Queen.

[slavetoyou]

No I don't, I want to be treated as an equal. We all work to our strengths and should pool those strengths together to make the perfect functioning union where respect and equality is at the top of the list.

I'm afraid a man who needed me to tell him what to do would drive me up the wall and in contrast a man telling me what to do, would not be well received either.

So... no, no man is my King and I am no man's Queen.

In this life regardless of what you think when it comes to "relationships" no one is equal. One of the couple or of a group is always the more dominant, now I don't mean that in the BDSM sense but in a general way. It does not have to be in a controlling way but usually one would make the final decision (even when all are in agreement). If everyone was equal then nothing would be done as it would require total agreement with everyone which I think would be very hard.
I would agree with being treated as an equal being the best way to exist but we are all controlled one way or the other whether you think so or not. This does not have to be a bad thing once there is respect.
Respect is the key to any union, once that is there then no one will be made do something they do not want and everyone will appear to be equal.
To be treated as a queen is not a bad thing even if you are an independent person. Because you would be the queen you could control how much is done for you. My mistress does not have to burden herself with having to tell me what to do, I know what I have to do make her life easier and I do it without need for instruction.
From your post I get the impression that you think being treated as a queen would be hard work, I think it is the opposite. It does not involve a needy man hanging around you all the time waiting for you to tell him what to do, it is a man who has the utmost respect for the lady in question and just being able to express that respect by making the lady's life easier, it does not involve "smothering" or invading that persons private space.
Really you say you would not want to be treated like a queen if it was done in a way that you didn't even realise it was happening .

[Curvaceous Kate]

In this life regardless of what you think when it comes to "relationships" no one is equal. One of the couple or of a group is always the more dominant, now I don't mean that in the BDSM sense but in a general way. It does not have to be in a controlling way but usually one would make the final decision (even when all are in agreement). If everyone was equal then nothing would be done as it would require total agreement with everyone which I think would be very hard.
I would agree with being treated as an equal being the best way to exist but we are all controlled one way or the other whether you think so or not. This does not have to be a bad thing once there is respect.
Respect is the key to any union, once that is there then no one will be made do something they do not want and everyone will appear to be equal.
To be treated as a queen is not a bad thing even if you are an independent person. Because you would be the queen you could control how much is done for you. My mistress does not have to burden herself with having to tell me what to do, I know what I have to do make her life easier and I do it without need for instruction.
From your post I get the impression that you think being treated as a queen would be hard work, I think it is the opposite. It does not involve a needy man hanging around you all the time waiting for you to tell him what to do, it is a man who has the utmost respect for the lady in question and just being able to express that respect by making the lady's life easier, it does not involve "smothering" or invading that persons private space.
Really you say you would not want to be treated like a queen if it was done in a way that you didn't even realise it was happening .

I disagree. There is such a thing as compromise. I might care less about the type of car we get than my partner and allow him the final decision, because he may well have more knowledge on cars than I. However I love the colour red, so he may compromise on the colour he wants to appease me and therefore we have happily chosen a car that we both like, but having considered the other person.

Same with all things. I may not like faggots that much, but know that my partner likes them, so now and again I might surprise him with a meal of faggots if I'm off out with the girls that night and eating out. I'm not forcing myself to eat them, but I am acknowledging the pleasure he derives from them.

I really don't meet with this bull that one has to overide the other to make it work and have the final word. Mind you that is one of the reasons that I am single and I will stay single until such a time where I find someone I feel compatible with, so that may well be forever and that suits me fine.

[slavetoyou]

I disagree. There is such a thing as compromise. I might care less about the type of car we get than my partner and allow him the final decision, because he may well have more knowledge on cars than I. However I love the colour red, so he may compromise on the colour he wants to appease me and therefore we have happily chosen a car that we both like, but having considered the other person.

Same with all things. I may not like faggots that much, but know that my partner likes them, so now and again I might surprise him with a meal of faggots if I'm off out with the girls that night and eating out. I'm not forcing myself to eat them, but I am acknowledging the pleasure he derives from them.

I really don't meet with this bull that one has to overide the other to make it work and have the final word. Mind you that is one of the reasons that I am single and I will stay single until such a time where I find someone I feel compatible with, so that may well be forever and that suits me fine.

I think it is impossible for 2 people to be equal, we are all individuals so cannot be the same. Compromise is also respect as I mentioned. You compromise because you respect the "partner". I think that what I'm on about does not involve buying cars or such things. I am on about what Clyde is saying, treating in his case his partner in mine it's my mistress like queens. They are two totally different situations but basically it is a man wanting to make a lady's life that little but easier and more comfortable. Is it bad to want to treat a lady well, you seem to think that it is. I don't mean treat her bad but it's ok to be independent but enjoy some positive attention. I preform different tasks for my mistress many of which are very trivial things but they do make her life that little bit easier.
I going to talk relationships here for a second. If a couple are in love one will probably love one more than the other, they will both love each other but it is impossible to quantify the feeling so it would be impossible to be equal (I see the irony in this comment because if you can't quantify it how can there be more of it on one side) but I think it is true. I'm not on about someone dominating their partner into doing things but there has to a dominant and submissive in a relationship. Those words are too extreme to describe what I mean but it is what they are. We are basically animals in the natural world, all animal pairings have a dominant partner, it's just the way it is.
You spoke about buying a car and you selected a situation which was ideal to say the least. What if your partner wanted something that you did not, this happens in real life, not a lot but it will happen. If you are both equal how does that work, you talk of compromise but in that situation compromise is another word for submitting to the other partners wishes.
There is a saying "what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object" both are equal so what happens?
In relationship the balance of "power" will switch and this is the way the relationship will work but there will be the more dominant one.
Anyway the thread is about treating a lady like a queen, if you do not wish to be treated like on that is fine but if you find someone who wants to treat you like one I suggest you give it a go. I enjoy treating my mistress like a queen, I'm not been taken advantage of, I want to do it, so what's wrong with a lady enjoying it. I cannot understand how someone can say I do not want to be treated like a queen, unless you want to be the one who treats the other like a king or queen. In this life there are two types of people givers and takers.

[slavetoyou]

I am going to ask the question that everyone here is dying of curiosity and is desperate to ask : who is your Queen?

I presume your tongue is firmly planted in your cheek when you ask me that question. As you have previously pointed out I'm always on about it. This thread asked the question I answered. You would not need to Sherlock Holmes to figure out the lady that I worship and will do anything for.

[Clyde]

No I don't, I want to be treated as an equal. We all work to our strengths and should pool those strengths together to make the perfect functioning union where respect and equality is at the top of the list.

I'm afraid a man who needed me to tell him what to do would drive me up the wall and in contrast a man telling me what to do, would not be well received either.

So... no, no man is my King and I am no man's Queen.

Ah that's a pity ya see I don't have a Queen but I like to treat my beautiful girlfriend like a Princess, I love to cook a lovely dinner for her, pour the wine into her glass when it runs low, open and close the car door for her, bring her breakfast in bed on weekends, wash her back in the bath, so on and so forth cos she deserves to be treated like a princess but hey maybe that's not your thing but she loves it and I get plenty back in return.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Ah that's a pity ya see I don't have a Queen but I like to treat my beautiful girlfriend like a Princess, I love to cook a lovely dinner for her, pour the wine into her glass when it runs low, open and close the car door for her, bring her breakfast in bed on weekends, wash her back in the bath, so on and so forth cos she deserves to be treated like a princess but hey maybe that's not your thing but she loves it and I get plenty back in return.

Why could you not do that in an equal relationship? Being equal does not mean you can not show love and tenderness through actions. For instance if one person gets home before the other from work, then the that person cooks dinner and if they want to make it special, then why not? If you're going out for a drink with your partner and only one of you can drive, then the one who drives doesn't get to have a drink, so the other thinks of ways to bridge that gap, as in it might be a candle lit dinner at home sometimes with a nice bottle of wine.

Plus 'I get plenty back in return' suggests one action for another, as in equal.

Treat each other the way you want to be treated. I will do for you, the same as I would do for myself.

Not you do all the cleaning and put the dinner on my table, even though we both work kind of thing, or I'll go to work and you sit at home looking pretty my Princess, don't worry your little head about anything.

That's kind of where I'm coming from.

[Clyde]

Why could you not do that in an equal relationship? Being equal does not mean you can not show love and tenderness through actions. For instance if one person gets home before the other from work, then the that person cooks dinner and if they want to make it special, then why not? If you're going out for a drink with your partner and only one of you can drive, then the one who drives doesn't get to have a drink, so the other thinks of ways to bridge that gap, as in it might be a candle lit dinner at home sometimes with a nice bottle of wine.

Plus 'I get plenty back in return' suggests one action for another, as in equal.

Treat each other the way you want to be treated. I will do for you, the same as I would do for myself.

Not you do all the cleaning and put the dinner on my table, even though we both work kind of thing, or I'll go to work and you sit at home looking pretty my Princess, don't worry your little head about anything.

That's kind of where I'm coming from.

Guess I'm just in love, what can I say she loves it, and I do too she's my Princess you should try it.