how did you learn that you had a fetish?

[irdave]

Friends of my parents used to come round for drinks when I was about 12. The wife was probably about 40 and wore a black leather coat. When they were in the living room I used to sneak out and rub my cock against the leather coat hanging on the rack. I was never caught but I had a fantasy that she would come out and catch me and say nothing. I suspect that would have actually happened would have been that I would have been punished and the village would hear about it.

[ddbb]

Haha. Love it. Used to do nearly the same thing to my best friends mother. An absolute fox who was dressed in leather a lot of the time. The days when I'd call in to see my buddy and his folks were out were the best. Sneak up to her room to have a good rummage.

[mrbob]

Personally find myself attracted to female clothing since I was young

[funlover12]

ha forgot I started this thread. I think in some ways its not really helpfull to call something a fetish.
people should just ask "what do you like?" (in the context of talking about sex or whatever) "what turns you on?"
fetish is like a word to group things together which are sexual in their nature to people?
its a bit like a lazy way of saying youre into something which is different from 'the norm'
or if you see say a fetish night/club somewhere you know whats expected....nearly anything!....or something.

as I said in my OP, its a bit like people saying "thats a bit ocd" or being called a hoarder for holding on to a few things, or thats "mad" or "addicted" to something (when its not true addiction just like alot) the list goes on... lots use words out of context and give them new meaning, I think fetish is a victim of this too.
(in a non sexual context) "youre always wearing leather do you have a fetish or something?" "oh I love leather!"
but is that a fetish then? see what I mean?

[Sunday10]

Seeing girls wearing flip flops!