selfish....

[ana massage]

who do you think should be more selfish in a relationship?
should be the woman or the man more selfish.....?


do you think being selfish in a relationship helps or not?



i am sure many will say that the woman is more selfish but i have met few man's also being more selfish then women

[Westsidex]

who do you think should be more selfish in a relationship?
should be the woman or the man more selfish.....?


do you think being selfish in a relationship helps or not?



i am sure many will say that the woman is more selfish but i have met few man's also being more selfish then women

I think both can be equally selfish but the trouble is when its the opposite sex its too vague to understand.

Westside.

[bettercallsaul]

Ideally neither should be more selfish,it's not an ideal world though.

And as for women being more selfish? I would not agree with that.

[ana massage]

I think both can be equally selfish but the trouble is when its the opposite sex its too vague to understand.

Westside.

i do not think it can ever be equally

[Westsidex]

i do not think it can ever be equally

When a woman is looking at the man being selfish it never is equal is it? When a man is looking at the woman being selfish it never is equal is it?

Westside.

[ana massage]

Ideally neither should be more selfish

but most of the cases,it hapens for one of them to be more selfish.....
do you think will be a huge problem in the relationship? maybe even a break up?

[ana massage]

When a woman is looking at the man being selfish it never is equal is it? When a man is looking at the woman being selfish it never is equal is it?

Westside.

right.....

[bettercallsaul]

but most of the cases,it hapens for one of them to be more selfish.....
do you think will be a huge problem in the relationship? maybe even a break up?

I would have thought if one of them is really selfish then forming a relationship (apart from with themselves ) would be as difficult as keeping one.

[namesjack]

I admit, i can be more selfish, i tend to treat them mean to keep them keen…and it works for me..so if its not broken, don't fix it .. But i make it up to the girl at night in the bedroom and give her everything i got, and i got alot to give

[Deven]

who do you think should be more selfish in a relationship?
should be the woman or the man more selfish.....?


do you think being selfish in a relationship helps or not?



i am sure many will say that the woman is more selfish but i have met few man's also being more selfish then women

My lesson of last year is that sometimes you have to be selfish, everyone needs to put themselves first now and then but someone that does it constantly or cannot 'give' with the 'take' are probably best avoided.