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    What is the defination of bad sex. In my view its where your partner declines to do things that you would like.

    At least with an escort, her favs are stated.

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    if sex is bad in an early relationship bale out? but when youve been married as long as i have its just the norm ?thats why im posting on here and meeting the most gorgeous escorts and able to just walk away afterwards , so yes good sex keeps your spirits up and bad sex is well bad sex?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lara View Post
    Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

    Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

    What do you think?
    Sex is it the deal breaker I would say No ..... While sex is important yes, it's not love, while sex is wonderful it's not the be all and end all, take this forum for instance many of the punters and posters love there partners but go for sex correct..!!!

    A loving relationship should not be built on sex alone, it is a factor but there's so much more, efection, trust, understanding etc.

    There are many reasons why people don't have sex be they emotional or physical the real relationship needs love, tenderness and trust .......
    Who loves ya baby......!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lara View Post
    Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

    Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

    What do you think?
    Best to have a chat with your partner. Your partner is suppose to be the closest person to u.

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    Yes is very important,a couple need to share the most intimate pleasure,otherwise the relationship don't work.




    Quote Originally Posted by lara View Post
    Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

    Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

    What do you think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lara View Post
    Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

    Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

    What do you think?
    Yes

    for me sex,is 70% of the relashionship,I only will accept date someone if the sex is great,otherwise is not even worth it trying...

    I'm very active sexuality... and the lack of sex(not good) was the main reason I ended mine,the last bf I had...If I wanna someone to bring me for dinner or cinema without sex,I have friends for that...
    Retired for good all together.
    Thank you all the gentlemen I met, who I'll have sweet memories of it.
    Kids, don't do anything that I wouldn't after I'm gone( the good part?) not much left Loll





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    If like me and I guess most of the married men on here we are married to an Irish woman who is riddled and wrecked with shame and grief about sex mostly due to the influence of the church. She cannot let herself go to enjoy it for fear of being labelled a harlot and a slut so they hold them selves back and do the bare minimum in bed. If they think another woman is enjoying sex then she is clearly the devils daughter and to be decried and outcast asap.

    I am married 16 years and have not had sex with my wife for the over 10 years and its not a problem for her. Most of her friends are like that also. I'd reckon about 85% of the married Irish women are frigid and not interested in even discussing it let alone doing it. That's fine by me I just go out and enjoy the company of the other 15%, some are escorts some are not.

    So to answer the question its probably not a deal breaker for most Irish men as crap sex is the norm and if I'm having good sex I know I cant fall asleep afterwards even if I want to as I have to get dressed and go home!

    If it was deal breaker there would be a lot more divorces in Ireland.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy Fernanda View Post
    Yes

    for me sex,is 70% of the relashionship,I only will accept date someone if the sex is great,otherwise is not even worth it trying...

    I'm very active sexuality... and the lack of sex(not good) was the main reason I ended mine,the last bf I had...If I wanna someone to bring me for dinner or cinema without sex,I have friends for that...
    Can't imagine anybody who's dating you not thinking of anything but sex!
    Sorry if that's a little crass, but that last bf must have been nuts!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bogman View Post
    If like me and I guess most of the married men on here we are married to an Irish woman who is riddled and wrecked with shame and grief about sex mostly due to the influence of the church. She cannot let herself go to enjoy it for fear of being labelled a harlot and a slut so they hold them selves back and do the bare minimum in bed. If they think another woman is enjoying sex then she is clearly the devils daughter and to be decried and outcast asap.

    I am married 16 years and have not had sex with my wife for the over 10 years and its not a problem for her. Most of her friends are like that also. I'd reckon about 85% of the married Irish women are frigid and not interested in even discussing it let alone doing it. That's fine by me I just go out and enjoy the company of the other 15%, some are escorts some are not.

    So to answer the question its probably not a deal breaker for most Irish men as crap sex is the norm and if I'm having good sex I know I cant fall asleep afterwards even if I want to as I have to get dressed and go home!

    If it was deal breaker there would be a lot more divorces in Ireland.
    These women you talk of , should be tied to an Andrew's Cross spread eagled , facing out , and pleasured 'til the body overrides

    the crippled , 'church-riddled' mind .. blindfold and gag them ; tease them , stroke them , caress them and lick them til

    they forget their names .

    This procedure should be repeated til they forget 'shame' and 'wickedness' of sexuality , this should be done til shyly ,

    with sly little smirks they start sharing amongst themselves the exquisite joys their bodies can bring them ...

    They be needing teaching I tell ya . And ye on your own cannot be up for the task xx
    I do what I want. I cannot do otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lara View Post
    Is bad sex a good reason to end a relationship?


    Sex isn't supposed to be the be-all and end-all of a relationship, but if it is truly bad can you justify it as a reason to end it and go further afield, or would you try and fix it?

    Is Sex a Deal Breaker?

    What do you think?
    Yes x


    I think there are just basic , base incompatibilities , which is nature's way of dissuading you from procreation .

    Of course we each can learn 'technique' , but there's more to good sex than technique !

    It's about chemistry .

    It's about rhythm , it's about reaching for the right 'parts' at the right time , it's about harmony and symbiosis .

    It's about balance and complimenting each other .

    If you don't have that , yep , it's grounds for parting xx
    I do what I want. I cannot do otherwise.

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