little bit of advise needed

[Escort Sandra]

try ..... you never know unless you try

[garconix]

I'd suggest baby steps. Find somewhere different for lunch, which you'd like to try out, then see if she'd like to tag along. Asking her to go on a date out of the blue is a bit daunting. While you may not consider a 30 minute lunch to be a date it's an opportunity to get to know her better and for you to promote yourself and your good qualities, exactly what you do on a date.

And be careful not to put her on too much of a pedestal, a crush is fine if you're going to keep your distance, but if you treat her like she's better than you it's a bit of a turn off for her. Remember you're good decent bloke in your own right, deserving of a relationship where you'll be respected and loved for who you are. So view her as your equal and the goal at the moment is to find out if your personalities are a good match for each other, not you chasing after her like a lovelorn puppy!

[Cassandra]

Go for it but don't be creepy lol

[TomEA]

Try and chat to her a bit more in work. If things progress nicely, take the leap.

[mer]

I'm in invisible to all the girls in the world maybe I may stop hiding in the bushes

It's hard one I can't give you any advice because I would be terrified to ask anybody out lol never did and never will

I will just retreat back to my bush now ha

[Johnco]

ok i have known this girl for a bout 2 yrs now not very well but like from a distance but in the last 4-5 weeks i have got a major major crush on her i have always liked her but the last few weeks she is all i can think of but im absolutely terrified to ask her out or something lol mainly to the fact we both work very close and c each almost every day and if she turned me down i would probably get so embarrassed every time i see her sometimes she stops and chats other times not but always a smile and a wave hello from her even if she is a good distance away from me when she waves hello maby i am reading the wrong signals but i have never had many relationships and luck over the fact that i am a fairly quite guy

She seems like she could be open to a bit more than a wave and a chat on the street,she may very well be feeling the way you do(a bit shy asking someone out).Ask her out for a coffee or lunch,since you work near each other,see how you get on.
If she knocks back the invitation then you know where you stand,but don't be embarressed about it.
But if she accepts your invitation,now wouldn't that just make your day.

Good luck mate.

[scotty123]

go for mate ask her out, or your head will be recked wondering what if evryday. if she says no well then fuck it
more fish in the sea

[Amanda Babe]

A tough one , but if you don't chance it will you regret it .
Just ask her to go for a drink with you , and take it from there .:doc

I agree 100%

[ladiesman217]

I'm in invisible to all the girls in the world maybe I may stop hiding in the bushes

It's hard one I can't give you any advice because I would be terrified to ask anybody out lol never did and never will

I will just retreat back to my bush now ha

Stop stalking them poor women from the bushes ffs!

[mic1980]

I wouldnt ask her as it sounds like she is just been pleasant when ye meet as she has for the last two yrs. And if your only getting a crush now its probably just a phase you are going through and it will pass. Not worth the hassel i say.

yes a very bit crush she is first thing i think of when i wake up to last thing at night i know i said i known her for about 2 yrs but its only lately like the last 3-4 weeks we have been having little conversations that i have really fallen for her sometimes i really think she is interested but another day she seems distant maby u are right she might only b plesant to me