Cunnilingus (how to please a woman)

[ladiesman217]

Luna and Monique will you 2 sexy ladies teach me how to do this ? Maybe guide my head in the right direction even tho I haven't done it this year but still I won't say no to learning with yee I bet you girls would laugh at me for been so shy

Mer, I feel it is my duty to warn you that going against those 2 ladies alone could well be hazardous to your health. That is why I am willing to put my life on the line and follow you into the field of..... *cough* battle with these 2 fair maidens!

[mer]

Mer, I feel it is my duty to warn you that going against those 2 ladies alone could well be hazardous to your health. That is why I am willing to put my life on the line and follow you into the field of..... *cough* battle with these 2 fair maidens!

Will be a learning experience for us ehh dude will you hold my hand aswell incase I get scared and shy

[ladiesman217]

Will be a learning experience for us ehh dude will you hold my hand aswell incase I get scared and shy

Well, umm I'll hold your hand till we get into the apartment. Then you're on your own! Not that I don't want to help, but it's only fair that the ladies don't take advantage of you 2 on 1, so I'll 'battle' one so that the odds are more in your favour

[mer]

Well, umm I'll hold your hand till we get into the apartment. Then you're on your own! Not that I don't want to help, but it's only fair that the ladies don't take advantage of you 2 on 1, so I'll 'battle' one so that the odds are more in your favour

Ahh I see your plan no you naughty little man will they make us get in the shower together pick up the soap LDM haha

[ladiesman217]

Ahh I see your plan no you naughty little man will they make us get in the shower together pick up the soap LDM haha

Oh ummm..... geez I just realised, I'm actually washing my hair that night! Bye!!!!!

*LDM runs away*

[mer]

Oh ummm..... geez I just realised, I'm actually washing my hair that night! Bye!!!!!

*LDM runs away*

Ohh no ahh well 4 beautiful diddys for me then

[godeeper]

Very slowly watching in my eyes,while licking up and down,with his very wet tongue.

I have to say that my personal experience is that most women have their heads back and eyes closed during oral sex. I suspect that dreaming of Brad Pitt is somewhat more conducive to sexual excitement for most women than looking at me.
I have read with interest all the advice that this thread has thrown up. There is one piece of advice that I think should be added to the lessons. Men build up to orgasm in a linear progression. Any break in this progression is usually voluntary to prolong the pleasure. Women, in my experience, are different. The road to orgasm is a series of stages. a woman will show signs of excitement and then appear to lose the excitement. There can be many mini peaks and troughs before a woman reaches orgasm. What one is hoping for is that each successive peak of sexual excitement is higher than the one before until the woman reaches a peak which is high enough that she achieves 'escape velocity' into orgasm.
I think that it is important to understand this process as the natural tendency on the part of a man, seeing the woman appear to lose excitement, is to lick/suck harder whereas it is better to ease off a little and rebuild the tempo as the woman climbs the next peak.
It is difficult for guys as women never speak to you during oral sex. I have asked many women beforehand to tell me if they would like it slower/faster, softer/harder etc. but it never happens and it is difficult to learn. obviously, I should have been with you!!!
One other gripe while I am on the subject is that women never tell you that they are 'cumming' except in porn movies. It can be difficult for a guy who is with a woman that he is not familiar with to know when she has achieved orgasm and to ease up on the clitoral stimulation. A small amount of verbal communication is preferable to getting ones head pushed roughly away or yanked by the few hairs that I have left or being crushed like in a vice by strong thighs!! Communication Helps!!!

[Stephanie]

I have to say that my personal experience is that most women have their heads back and eyes closed during oral sex. I suspect that dreaming of Brad Pitt is somewhat more conducive to sexual excitement for most women than looking at me.
I have read with interest all the advice that this thread has thrown up. There is one piece of advice that I think should be added to the lessons. Men build up to orgasm in a linear progression. Any break in this progression is usually voluntary to prolong the pleasure. Women, in my experience, are different. The road to orgasm is a series of stages. a woman will show signs of excitement and then appear to lose the excitement. There can be many mini peaks and troughs before a woman reaches orgasm. What one is hoping for is that each successive peak of sexual excitement is higher than the one before until the woman reaches a peak which is high enough that she achieves 'escape velocity' into orgasm.
I think that it is important to understand this process as the natural tendency on the part of a man, seeing the woman appear to lose excitement, is to lick/suck harder whereas it is better to ease off a little and rebuild the tempo as the woman climbs the next peak.
It is difficult for guys as women never speak to you during oral sex. I have asked many women beforehand to tell me if they would like it slower/faster, softer/harder etc. but it never happens and it is difficult to learn. obviously, I should have been with you!!!
One other gripe while I am on the subject is that women never tell you that they are 'cumming' except in porn movies. It can be difficult for a guy who is with a woman that he is not familiar with to know when she has achieved orgasm and to ease up on the clitoral stimulation. A small amount of verbal communication is preferable to getting ones head pushed roughly away or yanked by the few hairs that I have left or being crushed like in a vice by strong thighs!! Communication Helps!!!

I think I'd like to meet you xx

[Curvaceous Kate]

I know you want the positive, but can I dwell on the negative?

Things not to do, which I think would be universal unless you are told otherwise, as after all I guess we all have our own kinks!

Some men lean all their head weight on to the pelvic bone and then start bunting vigorously. This is really uncomfortable and any pleasure derived from the licking is taken away from the pain of the heavy head, which can also bruise. Please do not rest your head on any part of her body while doing this. It can hurt!

Biting! Please be very very careful if you are going to try to nibble, in fact probably best not to at all unless you are very expert and know what you are doing. Don't forget that you are not likely to be the only sexual experience for the lady you are with that day, which means she may be hyper sensitive or you may make her hyper sensitive for the rest of the day and if you do accidentally hurt her, then she can't work and she is not going to thank you for that. If in doubt, ask!

Don't carry on regardless! Some men don't listen to the ladies body at all and if she asks you to do something else, it is likely because what you are doing she is not enjoying. Take the hint and don't go back to bad habits if you are told something is not working. Other ladies may have told you they love it, but we are all different and that does not follow for the lady you are with.

Fingers! When you go for that shower, make sure your hands are properly washed, as lots of things can be hiding under your nails. If there is a nail brush there, use it!

Nails! Please, please, please make sure they are not too long and no jagged edges and clean. You can do a lot of damage if they are not and sometimes the damage shows up days later, so can not always be detected.

Tip with fingers, although not all the girls will want g-spot stimulation. Instead of putting your finger in straight and moving up and down, put a slight bend in your finger, so the tip acts as a pressure point against the wall of the vagina. Then instead of just going up and down add like a little royal wave to the motion. Start gentle and slowly build it up, but not too firm or you will hurt her. For me this often results in me gushing, but it can also result in the most glorious orgasm.

The technique should work universally, it it the pressure and how fast/deep you move your finger that will differ, as our bodies are not all the same on the inside and we have different levels of sensitivity.

One more thing about the tongue. Use it like a finger, use the muscles in your tongue so that there is some firmness to the touch (note firmness, not aggression) if the tongue is loose and limp, it doesn't really give much feeling and it does help if it wet down there, but not too wet, or that can feel weird.

Now I have my pet hates out he way I can open my legs with confidence! lol

[Larrii]

Grounding / ending:

If it all goes well, I'll sometimes put my hands on each other and push on her pubic area, slowly moving up (towards her tummy).

I often forget this in the heat of the moment. Ladies does it help or not really?