Good man I understand when someone says they wont stray if in a relationship but theres so many situations that can happen and the dick takes over, it's up to you if you can deal with the guilt or by seeing an escort you can justify it by saying it's a transaction and see ya later babe it was class ...... but at the end of the day it's cheating but in a controled manner.
Who loves ya baby......!!
i am sure there is some maybe a lot of lad are bastard but that is a reflection of who they are. But as Clyde said "Men are sexual Predators we wake in the morning with a horn" all do this might be a piss horn.so i do think it is in our nature mate that dont make us bastards.
Last edited by kerry lad in town; 05-06-13 at 23:08.
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I wouldn't cheat, I know I wouldn't because the heart is a powerful thing, especially when it comes to people you really love and childhood sweethearts, it just wouldn't come into my mind to cheat, why would I when I have the most amazing person who is my world next to me. But I suppose I'm thinking of just a couple of people but if I was with someone who isn't those people I don't know if I would or not, but then would I cheat as in with an escort? Is seeing an escort actually cheating? Because when you think of cheating it's usually out of passion and love of another woman that you cheat?
Amanda Babe (06-06-13)
It's all a bit pathetic if you ask me..
Life's too short to drink bad wine....
I have to be honest and say that I have never heard of Hugh Jackman but you make an important point. Given the same 'if' scenario that the first poster envisages there are few women who would not do the dirty either. They might do it for different reasons e.g. 'he made me laugh' or with a sly trun-of-phrase 'if x turned up I might...wink wink' or some such weasel-worded nonsense but it amounts to the same thing.
That said I broadly agree with the original post and do not really go with the concept of men 'giving up' escorts or not going to them because they are in a relationship though I am sure many have great intentions. I think the potential is always there just that the circumstances do not always allow. However, to say that it applies to all men is a bit silly as it assumes all men use escorts in the first place which I doubt.
I wouldnt and never did. Would I under what you say? Unlikely but I only go out with someone unless I really like them and not because they just happen to be around. Im not saying Im mr perfect but cheating isnt one of my weak areas.guys who cheat need to stop coming up with excuses to justify their own failings or to make themselves feel better. It is a fact that as you get older all the shit ,good and bad starts catching up on you. Best to just admit you do something rather than try to disguise it by hoping everyone else does the same.
Westside.
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name is buck (06-06-13)