Sugar daddies

[Rachel Divine]

but exhausting.lol

Not at all.

I like to build some sort of relationship with my customer , sex is only a part of it.

Some prefer to stick to only that part , fair enough, I feel different.

Communication , other than you want fk or not etc , is important to me , after all we are human in need of feeling as such.

[Rachel Divine]

So do I.......a lot handier dealing with a couple of men than having too put up with loads.......one every port(town) as they say....hey Rachel

Excuse me for not being a sex machine ..

[Cassandra]

Not at all.

I like to build some sort of relationship with my customer , sex is only a part of it.

Some prefer to stick to only that part , fair enough, I feel different.

Communication , other than you want fk or not etc , is important to me , after all we are human in need of feeling as such.

So true. I just felt dishonest doing it. Escorting I'm not lying to anyone, they know the score. A client escort relationship is so simple and for me, so much enjoyable for it.

Super awesome words nonetheless lady.

[sharkskin]

much less hassle with escorting

I think that, from a punter's point of view, it is much easier to see escorts than to be a sugar daddy.

What is my commitment as a punter? Turn up on time, have the right money and behave myself for some set piece of time. At the end of that time, I get to walk away. If I want to see the lady again, I can phone her. If not, I just ring someone else.

If I would sign up as somebody's sugar daddy she would be expecting me there to top up her funds every month. What if I do not want to?

Not for me.

[Rachel Divine]

I think that, from a punter's point of view, it is much easier to see escorts than to be a sugar daddy.

What is my commitment as a punter? Turn up on time, have the right money and behave myself for some set piece of time. At the end of that time, I get to walk away. If I want to see the lady again, I can phone her. If not, I just ring someone else.

If I would sign up as somebody's sugar daddy she would be expecting me there to top up her funds every month. What if I do not want to?

Not for me.

I think nobody is forcing you to fund a lady if you do not want to. Same if the person advertising is not herself in the pictures, you just walk away.

[Stephanie]

but exhausting.lol

Not if you genuinely like the guy xx

So true. I just felt dishonest doing it. Escorting I'm not lying to anyone, they know the score. A client escort relationship is so simple and for me, so much enjoyable for it.

Super awesome words nonetheless lady.

Why ?

I am with Rachel on this one , though I would not use the term Sugar Daddy -- rather : long term return clients.

In my life it is still very simple and honest : nothing is for free, all loving is for a fee.. -- in a form, even if I fancy the bits off o' em .

It is understood by both parties that this is an arrangement.

As long as the boundaries and commitments are respected by both parties, it can go on.


Boundaries : always keep in mind this is business -- no falling in love please. Not with me. It gets messy and I do not want

the responsibility, nor will I pretend to reciprocate, no matter how fond I may be of the person. Keep it simple and honest xx


Commitments : that's the fine-print -- an ongoing financial commitment from him, and an ongoing time commitment from me.

His responsibility is to reliably deliver on the finances, and my responsibility is to be in good form, though in these type of situations

there is more leeway in allowing more 'humanity' (yes, I can have a bad day, or a cold, or etc. -- occasionally).

In my case I think my guys are reassured with a longer term arrangement, because they know this way that I will be available to them.


If either party reneges, end of 'friendship' . Or if one gets tired of the company, or just grow apart, end of arrangement.. Simple

If/when you see each other fairly regularly for a year or two, you (I) tend to develop some sort of ' relationship' .

Getting familiar, more intimate (I am not referring to sex practices here !) getting less formal,

but it still is a financial transaction, and there should never be any question about it.. Boundaries !!

..in my humble opinion..


Cassandra,

great post btw, and I said this in other posts so many times : all should always stick to their own comfort zone and preferences.

What works for one, doesn't for another..

As you said escorting is just so much simpler and certainly rewarding. Requires less mental/emotional work than doing it the other way .

LOTSO fun

I relish having both xx

[Baxter]

Sugar Daddy -- dreadful term. It would be enough to put me off doing it. I would prefer 'sponsor' !

[Clyde]

Sugar and spice all things nice ......

[Stephanie]

I think that, from a punter's point of view, it is much easier to see escorts than to be a sugar daddy.

What is my commitment as a punter? Turn up on time, have the right money and behave myself for some set piece of time. At the end of that time, I get to walk away. If I want to see the lady again, I can phone her. If not, I just ring someone else.

If I would sign up as somebody's sugar daddy she would be expecting me there to top up her funds every month. What if I do not want to?

Not for me.

I think there lies (some of the) difference.

Men who enter these arrangements fancy seeing that particular lady , and having this arrangement they are

somewhat reassured that she will be available when they wish.

That said, I walk to my own drumbeat, and will have a meeting only when/if I feel like it



I feel it is vital to be very very careful with whom one gets into this kind of situation with. I MUST like the person.

We must have things in common , have similar values etc. How else, can you enjoy each-other's company days on end,

for weeks and further ?

[Stephanie]

Those students need fast money without too much involvement or dedication, better word.

Half hours / hours day after day for whatever time due studies and family is not suitable for them.

As an escort , is down to each one preference to be up to have a sugar daddy or not.

I dont see nothing wrong with getting my rent payed in exchange of an over night once a month.

That's right.

Imo, doing escorting properly, doing it at a high (more financially rewarding) level takes dedication,

and certainly takes more of a time commitment.

I don't think it would be fully compatible w other commitments xx

(but of course escorting can also be done part-time..) !!