Fm104 topic about a young fella seeing escorts is he sad is he judged

[LaBelleThatcher]

I suppose, a woman going out every weekend, getting drunk and shagging a different man each time is fine, but a woman who has sex for money in a warm comfortable apartment or hotel room, using protection and being very professional is bad.

So there you go Rachel...all you have to do is give ALL THE MONEY BACK...and NEVER take ANY MORE, and you will no longer be a "dirty slu'"...tempting, isn't it?

At first I had no idea how you kept the head, then I realised you must be in clinical shock from realising there actually *ARE* people that ignorant.

The worldview that was coming across from the other callers made me want to throw myself in the Liffey rather than share space with it...

[gamey27]

Hooking for a habbit.............good.......ah sure she has to do it to feed her habbit.....
Escorting for a Euro..............bad........fucking greedy slut tramp...........

Well said, exactly. The contrast between the two views only exposes their underlying closed-mindedness & bias

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hooking for a habbit.............good.......ah sure she has to do it to feed her habbit.....
Escorting for a Euro..............bad........fucking greedy slut tramp...........

Well said, exactly. The contrast between the two views only exposes their underlying closed-mindedness & bias

I don't think they believe 'hooker for habit is 'good'. I think they can allow themselves to feel compassion for it and therefore the feeling of 'pity' makes it acceptable.

Someone needs to ask some of these women if they were disgusted with their partners the first time they asked them for sex and when they had it, did they feel disgusted with themselves? Did they enjoy it and if so, why? Was it purely to do with love, or did their body react to the stimulation? Why do people assume that women having sex for a living can't possibly enjoy it, when our bodies are designed to do so?

Or maybe they have had so many drunken fumbles where their one night stand was rough with them, because he could barely stand up, let alone guide himself round a woman's body has made them think that is what we are getting?

[Bambam1]

They havent a clue! They think all escorts are crack heads and 'riddled' as they said,this is not the case any escort ive seen were clean as a whistle,in fact any girl i met on a night out were sluts who couldnt care if you wore a condom or not

[Rachel Divine]

I haven't read the entire thread but I have listened to the podcast...........

Rachel, you are to be commended on portraying yourself as an intelligent, articulate professional women!!!

I'm no fan of that particular radio show and it has once again affirmed my belief that the general public are ignorant about the profession being discussed, but more particular the general and overall ignorance, stupidity and rudeness of callers to that particular show, including it's presenter......

With all due respect to the ladies and gentlemen of the forum who are listeners, in particular the aforementioned Rachel, I find many of the callers moronic, to say the least.....

A great voice about the misunderstood (including legal) aspects of this business amongst so many idiotic and rude voices, if only the other callers could have articulated themselves as well without resorting to such name calling, shouting, slagging and foul mouthedness

I haven't read the forum much lately so I'm not sure what peoples opinions are of the Irish woman who has been on the radio and television of late talking about her life during and after her time in the business, unfortunately this is the impression people have of the business and that particular woman is doing it no favours.....

I'm not naive enough to think that things are all as nice as Rachel says they are, nor as I going to believe that are as bad as that Irish woman says they are, of course there are going to be good sides and bad sides to it all but what I find to be the strangest part of the whole thing is that people couldn't believe there were women in the business because they actually liked it, or viewed it as just a job, or business, a way to earn money!!!

Apparently there are only 2 types of women in the business, those who are forced into it, or those who are in it to "feed a habbit".......

Point to note, if you are going to get into something illegal, which of course this is not, but if you are getting into something, including and in particular, theft, make sure you form a habbit before you get caught, this in my experience is the very best form of defence, and the easiest for the public to understand.............

Hooking for a habbit.............good.......ah sure she has to do it to feed her habbit.....
Escorting for a Euro..............bad........fucking greedy slut tramp...........

I am sure things are not as nice as I say , for others.

Each one choose the reason to work for, be it whatever, is none of my business and live the life style she choose to.
Some are comfortable with 10 customers a day, others are not.
Some prefer a luxury accommodation, others so not.

Etc.

[JMastodon]

Rachel, I thought you were extremely brave to give your side of the story and you deserve the utmost respect. Listening to the views of the callers and their ignorance, along with Adrian's (the interviewer) ignorance and blatant bias against you, made me embarrassed to be Irish. Once again it's people giving their opinions on a subject they know nothing about. They think they know what's involved in an escort's work but they clearly don't. They think the man comes in the door, does what he wants with the escort and then throws a few 50 Euro notes on the floor and leaves. They've been watching too many movies and believing the lies spread by the Irish media and organisations backed by the Catholic Church. I noticed that 6 callers were against you and only one, Noel the taxi driver, on your side. You handled yourself magnificently Rachel.

[justfrank44]

Rachel, I thought you were extremely brave to give your side of the story and you deserve the utmost respect. Listening to the views of the callers and their ignorance, along with Adrian's (the interviewer) ignorance and blatant bias against you, made me embarrassed to be Irish. Once again it's people giving their opinions on a subject they know nothing about. They think they know what's involved in an escort's work but they clearly don't. They think the man comes in the door, does what he wants with the escort and then throws a few 50 Euro notes on the floor and leaves. They've been watching too many movies and believing the lies spread by the Irish media and organisations backed by the Catholic Church. I noticed that 6 callers were against you and only one, Noel the taxi driver, on your side. You handled yourself magnificently Rachel.

To be fair, before I met my first escort, I was probably thinking like that too. It was only when I started looking at sites like this that my opinion changed. Most people probably just need the right information about how escorts approach their job. That is of course, if they actually want to be properly informed.

[JMastodon]

And the price of cigarettes is discraceful .... It's all about context a taxi driver can make 1000 a day or 50 a day it's down to luck or being clever also some solicitors can charge 500 per hour and they fuck you without asking ....

Ah, that's funny as I actually am a solicitor!

[Clyde]

Ah, that's funny as I actually am a solicitor!

Sorry not the ones here ......

[JMastodon]

Agreed, it's all about respect, tolerance and education. We need to end the bigoted narrowmindedness so prevalent in this country.

To be fair, before I met my first escort, I was probably thinking like that too. It was only when I started looking at sites like this that my opinion changed. Most people probably just need the right information about how escorts approach their job. That is of course, if they actually want to be properly informed.