Finding it hard

[WTAT]

If you are having problems getting what you are specifically looking for, pick someone who posts regularly and you know understands English quitE well. Then use the pm system to be very clear what you are hoping to experience and only go ahead if you're happy that was understood, still respecting that certain acts may still be refused but only if your hygiene or attitude are poor, which are things you have control over to a large degree.