badly addicted/ mid life crisis...or...

[pleasurekerry]

..when i first started visiting escorts about mid 2012 it was on a monthly or 2-3 week basis. Over a period,this became weekly; lately i find myself going twice, sometimes 3 times a week.

I think that after the initial few visits i said to myself-hey, this is easier than i thought in terms of getting away with it,etc, and jeez!does it feel good, and omg! what beautiful sexy women they are, and yes,i can do so many things i only fantasised about for years.

yes, i think i am hopelessly addicted and i am at that age when a "crisis" seemingly occurs....

Could there be other possible reasons? fellas, have any of you had same feelings?

maybe you ladies have a perspective from some of your clients?

[petebriquette]

In general anything that feels good or exciting can become addictive. I , like you, thought that I could be disciplined and plan my meetings to suit both my pleasure and my budget. however it's not that simple, and I find that I am visiting this site more regularly and as a result making more regular appointments than I should.

[mellors]

Yep ..mid life crisis im affraid !
I think it goes through phases, or it has in my case. Ive been punting for two years now and i followed exactly the same pattern as you, getting more and more frequent. Then the 'novelty' wore off a bit, ive become less interested in meeting new escorts,have become far more selective and tend to stick to a few regulars.
I'm back to punting a couple of times a month, unless allmy faves turn up in town at the same time !

[JAMESCORK]

Addictive it is bud...

[anon361]

I can stop anytime I want, I just choose not to

[muster]

yes it is addictive,stick to what you can afford,if you exceed that you have a problem

[Morpheus]

yes it is addictive,stick to what you can afford,if you exceed that you have a problem

Words of wisdom Muster! Agree 100%

If you are spending way more than you can afford - then it is an addiction/ problem!

At least that's the way I gauge when I cross the line between enjoyment and addiction.

[Amy Alison]

I don't see any problem, in fact I'd welcome you all to have the same addiction

Seriously now, I would really advice you to remember what's too much is never good for you.

Try to analyse yourself and what is really missing in your life and based on that, you can see the solution yourself straightaway.

[pleasurekerry]

Many thanks to all- phew! at least i am not alone at this; I think even now things are startig to pan out a bit in that I am also more selective,i go back to a few favorite girls- but, damn! that Brazilian or Spanish new gal in town is a stunnr!

i do not think it is a problem in that i am getting too much;i need everything sexual that i am experiencing right now- to live as many fantasies as posible.

yes, i can see a problem developing;already there is a fair dent in my "rainy day" account; there is the physical exertion and its probably slower i will get shortly! lol

[client101]

Addictive it is bud...

And Boy is it addictive!! but like most addictions i have had in the past, i'm sure this one will pass too!! Gambling was by far the worst one i have had so far, and it wasn't have as much fun