Happiness a fickle thing

[Dub Lad]

Maybe I'll never be happy, if I find it I hold onto it but even then I'm still trying to find happiness incase that person goes, it's ridiculous the stuff that goes on in my head like really weird, like why is it that I can give great relationship advice to my friends and see things objectively but when it comes to my own I have this self destruct thing, I have to ruin it, I can never be happy with what I have, what is that about and what's even more fucked up is I recognise my flaws in my character yet! I still can't control my emotions and keep it all in check. The mind and body is a powerful thing, it can be your best friend our your worst own enemy.

I'm off to comfort eat and have ben and jerrys icecream, what flavour? caramel chew with the taste of my bitter sweet tears.

[Westsidex]

Maybe I'll never be happy,

.

You wont if you choose to be ladoooo.

life is all about choice lado,
Westside.

[Dub Lad]

You wont if you choose to be ladoooo.

life is all about choice lado,
Westside.

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

[samlad]

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

That's bad advice.... making Westie think about it, that is.

[Stephanie]

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

Not true xx

Your happiness lies within you. No one can make you happy. Only You can make you happy.

If you look to others to make you happy, you will always be left longing and unfulfilled, disappointed.

Find serenity and fulfillment in your own heart, in your own life, and when you have so much of it that it overflows,

you can share and in giving, bring more happiness upon your self..

Heartbreak is heartbreak : painful and lonesome. It will pass. But it IS a choice to be happy. xxx

..

[Mousey]

It's not things in our environment that causes consequences for us, DubLad, it's our beliefs about them that do. All stress is caused by us trying to change something that has already happened, and can't be changed.

See?

[UKHeather]

I don't like to hear of sadness

If you find ways to be happy with yourself and your life (it may mean making changes) without looking to others for your happiness you will attract more positive people into your life too

[Dub Lad]

Not true xx

Your happiness lies within you. No one can make you happy. Only You can make you happy.

If you look to others to make you happy, you will always be left longing and unfulfilled, disappointed.

Find serenity and fulfillment in your own heart, in your own life, and when you have so much of it that it overflows,

you can share and in giving, bring more happiness upon your self..

Heartbreak is heartbreak : painful and lonesome. It will pass. But it IS a choice to be happy. xxx

..

oh my gosh this, i was walking to work and was.reading this and i actually stopped and caught myself, I do look to others to make me happy its like those people are my security blanket, im always afraid i font matter to people as much as they matter to me. I'll tell you where I am. I want to sleep alot because the more awake i am the more i have to think about this pain i cannot concentrate on anything Ibalways feel like i want justg gas cry, i still call the number even though its discontinued, this thing has consumed me its like i cant breathe

[Curvaceous Kate]

Westie ffs how can I choose to be happy when I have no control over it, your happiness isn't within us it's with other people, they have ALL the power! Think about it!

You should try being a woman for a day. My emotions are like the weather. I can be laughing one minute, crying the next, followed by anger, frustration and happiness again. A couple of days ago my emotions were so haywire I was listening to music as I drove along and 2 tracks made me cry and then I stopped for a loo break to find a text from my son that made me cry with happiness. Go figure!!! A good hug off a friend and a chat seemed to put me back where I needed to be, so yes we do need people, but no one person can stop you smiling for the rest of your life. Something will happen to make the corners of your mouth turn up and before you know it, you'll feel happiness again.
xx

[Westsidex]

You should try being a woman for a day. My emotions are like the weather. I can be laughing one minute, crying the next, followed by anger, frustration and happiness again. A couple of days ago my emotions were so haywire I was listening to music as I drove along and 2 tracks made me cry and then I stopped for a loo break to find a text from my son that made me cry with happiness. Go figure!!! A good hug off a friend and a chat seemed to put me back where I needed to be, so yes we do need people, but no one person can stop you smiling for the rest of your life. Something will happen to make the corners of your mouth turn up and before you know it, you'll feel happiness again.
xx

I want to come back as a womans period in my next life. Seriously, I want to see what the fuss is.

seriously,
Westside.