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Did you ask her before you handed your cash over if fingering is ok ?
Did you ask her why not when she refused it while at it ?
There are many different reasons why ladies dont offer or refuse fingering .
An important point to consider is the fact that a lot of guys like to play with their member inbetween and then want to finger the pussy !
Hellooooo , thats risky when he is uncovered at that moment ! Especially when little john is leaking , not a far cry from bareback ...
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Stephanie (06-12-12)
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mellors (06-12-12)
As you will know Big J I adore being fingered and regularly get my orgasm this way and yes before you get yours lol. However, there is criteria to this. I expect the client to either shower or have a sink wash (at the very least) before play commences and I always have a nail brush with me when I tour, so that nails can be washed thoroughly. As long as everything looks in order and hands have been washed then this is very much part of the process for me.
With that being said, if someone is clueless as to how to turn a woman on with their fingers and resumes following the same method after being advised on how to do it better then I will change the pattern of play and avoid further contact in that area. This is not just because of potential discomfort, but because it is dangerous for me to have any internal scratches or bleeding. Even though I always use condoms for penetration, I would still feel vunerable if I knew I had a problem below and of course if hurt then it is going to stop me enjoying the next eperience and that would mean cancelling bookings.
The problem is that you just don't know if she had experienced someone like this before you and decided that it would be too uncomfortable to let you do it or if she was close to a period and didn't want to tempt fate or was just feeling senstive below.
I'm sorry you felt bad when you left, but it would have been better to ask via pm if it was the norm for her or if there was a problem. It may have fell on deaf ears, but there is no point blaming yourself without knowing how she was feeling at the time.