I'm afraid you misunderstand my point
Please refer to my previous post about the exquisitely talented ladies. I was not disparaging any service providers,
and I said there is not necessarily a correlation between length of appointment and quality of experience.
My emphasis is on what a person is accustomed to.
If you don't know which fork to use, it's bound to make for a less comfortable dinner at a fancy place.
My ill delivered point is, that if you put yourself in a situation that you are not accustomed to, not comfortable in, then it
will make for an uncomfortable, possibly awkward encounter.