Can seeing a Escort help save a relationship?

[Notatwork]

Dont think seeing escorts will save a relationship.......make it more bearable though...yes

[Mature Temptation]

Nope. If you have decided the see an escort, then the relationship is already dead in the water. You just haven't admitted it to yourself yet.

I agree 100% with this statement.

Any prossie/escort/hooker who thinks she is 'helping someone save their marriage' is dillusional no matter how you try to dress it up.

Also agree with this :

I can understand that point of view, but you still have cheated, albeit with "no strings attached". It's just a precursor to the inevitable affair/divorce.

Sorry but I don't know how to put two quotes in the one post.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I agree 100% with this statement.

Any prossie/escort/hooker who thinks she is 'helping someone save their marriage' is dillusional no matter how you try to dress it up.

Also agree with this :

I can understand that point of view, but you still have cheated, albeit with "no strings attached". It's just a precursor to the inevitable affair/divorce.

Sorry but I don't know how to put two quotes in the one post.

I have no problem with a difference of opinion, but I do have a problem with people who have to slate the differing opinion with remarks like 'dillusional'.

I would hate to be so black and white through out life. You believe what you wish, but there is no need to insult!

[Mature Temptation]

I have no problem with a difference of opinion, but I do have a problem with people who have to slate the differing opinion with remarks like 'dillusional'.

I would hate to be so black and white through out life. You believe what you wish, but there is no need to insult!

There is nothing wrong with black and white.

I simply stated my opinion in the same way as you have, if you take that as an insult then that is your problem, not mine.

It doesnt change the situation however.

I will reiterate what wingman said ' If you have decided the see an escort, then the relationship is already dead in the water. You just haven't admitted it to yourself yet.

............ and visiting prossies is not the answer, no matter how dressed up it appears.

[F007]

Just wondering do you think that visiting an escort could save a marriage/relationship?

I know seeing an escort has helped save my relationship, because, if I didn't see escorts, I probably would have left my partner long ago and I don't wish to sound disrespectful. Horses for courses! I'm not proud of what I'm doing, especially behind her back, but hey, if needs must. I don't have any sexual relationship with my partner, if I did, I probably wouldn't be here on the forum writing this post. I was just discussing this this evening with a young lady (escort), that, what I'm doing is helping my relationship, even though my partner doesn't know. Life at home is good! I think money worries for families today contribute to relationships breaking down more so. Needless to say, if my partner found out, I may just pack my bags! Is it wrong what I am doing, what do you suggest I should do? In the mean time, I am so grateful for meeting so many lovely ladies on a professional level, over the last number of years. Without you, I would have gone mad!!! I can't thank you enough...

[errisx]

I have no problem with a difference of opinion, but I do have a problem with people who have to slate the differing opinion with remarks like 'dillusional'.

I would hate to be so black and white through out life. You believe what you wish, but there is no need to insult!

I think ur a smart cookie Kate... Ur comments are always so balanced ...Of course everyone's different in different situations.... all lines (and people) are blurry... i never judge (even peeeps that i think should be judged, i dont judge) and i really dislike being judged... I have my own reasons to be here and am ok with my decisions (right or wrong)