Question for the envious ladies

[Anna23]

When you see that someone else is more successful, why do you prefer to moan about it and run to the mods instead of watching and learning and perhaps copying their idea/business model? Maybe the more creative ladies would even support you in it and together we could create a more collaborative environment rather than one filled with jealousy and competitiveness which are the very reasons for this industry being in the shit it is now.

[samlad]

When you see that someone else is more successful, why do you prefer to moan about it and run to the mods instead of watching and learning and perhaps copying their idea/business model? Maybe the more creative ladies would even support you in it and together we could create a more collaborative environment rather than one filled with jealousy and competitiveness which are the very reasons for this industry being in the shit it is now.

Regarding your last thread, nobody complained, it was just moderated.

[funlover12]

When you see that someone else is more successful, why do you prefer to moan about it and run to the mods instead of watching and learning and perhaps copying their idea/business model? Maybe the more creative ladies would even support you in it and together we could create a more collaborative environment rather than one filled with jealousy and competitiveness which are the very reasons for this industry being in the shit it is now.

[Jezebel Cattori]

Where are the jealousy threads? i can't say I get jealous of someone else's success. I may have moments of grumpiness at myself if I have a slow day but it happens so I shrug it off. You get out of it what you put in so I suppose the jealous people are just not trying as hard?

[ksteve]

When you see that someone else is more successful, why do you prefer to moan about it and run to the mods instead of watching and learning and perhaps copying their idea/business model? Maybe the more creative ladies would even support you in it and together we could create a more collaborative environment rather than one filled with jealousy and competitiveness which are the very reasons for this industry being in the shit it is now.

I cant help myself, I think I am falling in love.

[Anna23]

Where are the jealousy threads? i can't say I get jealous of someone else's success. I may have moments of grumpiness at myself if I have a slow day but it happens so I shrug it off. You get out of it what you put in so I suppose the jealous people are just not trying as hard?

It happens mostly behind the scenes via PM's to mods. These ladies don't come to you directly if they have an issue with something you post.

[Jezebel Cattori]

Oooooh, like what? I have not seen anything posted that could be complained about. Maybe I'm just being naive?

[ksteve]

It happens mostly behind the scenes via PM's to mods. These ladies don't come to you directly if they have an issue with something you post.

You should apply for membership of ' the club ' too . I'm afraid I wont be the right person to propose you though !

[Anna23]

You should apply for membership of ' the club ' too . I'm afraid I wont be the right person to propose you though !

I dont do clubs and cliques, it smell too much of herd mentality to me. I do my own business and thats what everybody should be doing.

[Anna23]

Oooooh, like what? I have not seen anything posted that could be complained about. Maybe I'm just being naive?

Try to become bit more popular prominent or confident on the boards and you will feel on your own skin what I'm talking about.