If you drive like a maniac you're more likely to crash. This is similar to making an ill informed choice regarding what sexual services you participate in. The same with smoking, if you smoke then of course you're more likely to die of cancer. Eating too much will end in obesity which carries all sorts of health risks which may lead to death too.Originally Posted by bill7
You cringe when you see bad drivers, I cringe when I see silly comments about how escorts know the risks and see them as minimal when the reality is very different.
Smoking, drinking, getting into fights are not the concern here, knowingly putting yourself and others at risk of contracting std's, is. It's the concern of every escort in the country as we all end up seeing the same clients.To Alex ( quote is to long ) Note : The list I put up is what you can catch from French Kissing !
Yes you are right it is about money , the whole job is about money , so may I put the ball back into your basket and ask why an intelligent and well informed women would offer a risky service , in your case French Kissing ?
Because you love strangers sticking their tong down your throut ? I doubt that !
Its about being competative , hence money !
I never challenge the choices others make , because its not my choice to make in the first place , wether I dont like what they do or would never do it myself !
All the services carry a risk ( broken or sliped off condom , beeing batted over the head by a nasty guy, meeting an escort whos only intention is to rob , literally , the guest of his money and even worse possibilities ), there is no way to stay 100% safe in this job !
So what we decide to do IS a personal choice and that counts for our guests as well , just because I offer certain services I dont force my guests to participate ( unless asked for) !
As long as the ladies are ok with what they offer who are we to judge them ?
I met girls in this job who vomited after every guest or after practicing a specific service !
Thats really terrible if one does force herself to do things she is mentally not coping with , just for money !
The whole world is full of risky things we decide to do anyway , knowingly !
Smoking , drinking , getting into fights , hell , in some areas of the world taking a stroll can be deadly !
I know its not really the same as STD/STI and I know where you coming from , but it all comes down to make an educated personal choice !
I am not defending my choice cause I dont have to do that for anybody , I am just pointing out the obviouse . not much in this job is riskfree and I decided for me what to do and what not !
You talk about being competitive. Tbh, if I felt like I had to compete with other ladies by offering more services and being cheap then I would give up the job. I'd never ever be swayed by what others are offering, as you said that's their choice. It most certainly is not mine.
Every job is about money, but I don't put any pressure on myself to earn a certain amount. I used to, but that was when I was young and naive. Now I'm more experienced and realise what's important in life. My health is my wealth. It's the same for all of us.
Lots in this job is risk free. Going out for dinner with a Gentleman for instance, or being taken to see a showMind you, you'll probably tell me I'm at risk of choking on my dinner and there could be a fire in the theater so I might die there or something......
We all run business's. I don't see how offering different services gives you a head start tbh. You're not considering the clients who have enough self respect not to risk their health in search of the perfect oral without a condom. They do exist, I promise you thatYou can be a great escort without doing all those risky things. But I suppose it's much like everything else, it depends how you see things and what your target market is.
I don't allow others to dictate how I do things either. But common sense dictates a whole lot for me.
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