Losing my virginity to an escort

[themuffinman]

Hey so here's the deal, I'm an 18 year old guy about to start college, and I'm still a virgin. In fact I've barely even kissed a girl.

It's not that I'm a social outcast or unattractive, just that I am completely and utterly afraid to be physical with a girl I like. No matter how confident I am or how much a girl is into me, I can never go in for a kiss. It is simply an unknown realm to me. I am far too self-conscious about how sloppy and inexperienced I will seem.

Trust me when I say that I have been stuck in this rut for ever and don't see myself getting out- no matter how drunk I am.

All my mates have popped their cherries, and while I don't buy into the whole macho rite of passage crap that surrounds losing your virginity, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me ( the fact I'm horny as fuck 24/7 doesn't help lol).

But before anyone starts to get the wrong idea I am not looking to lose my virginity just so I can tick it off my to do list. Instead I really think that it might have long term effects by making me more confident around girls I like- I will find it easier to be physically intimate with them having had the whole ‘sex thing’ demystified.

In my mind this could be greatly beneficial for my self esteem. I view this as a stepping stone that will help me later on. Personally the whole doing it with a special person thing isn't an issue. I consider this as practice for that "right person" who may or may not come by in in the next 100 years, or may even come by 100 times.

Anyhow, sorry for the essay but does this sound like a good idea? Will escorts see me as an 18 year old virgin? Who would you recommend?

[iamnewtothis]

Hey so here's the deal, I'm an 18 year old guy about to start college, and I'm still a virgin. In fact I've barely even kissed a girl.

It's not that I'm a social outcast or unattractive, just that I am completely and utterly afraid to be physical with a girl I like. No matter how confident I am or how much a girl is into me, I can never go in for a kiss. It is simply an unknown realm to me. I am far too self-conscious about how sloppy and inexperienced I will seem.

Trust me when I say that I have been stuck in this rut for ever and don't see myself getting out- no matter how drunk I am.

All my mates have popped their cherries, and while I don't buy into the whole macho rite of passage crap that surrounds losing your virginity, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me ( the fact I'm horny as fuck 24/7 doesn't help lol).

But before anyone starts to get the wrong idea I am not looking to lose my virginity just so I can tick it off my to do list. Instead I really think that it might have long term effects by making me more confident around girls I like- I will find it easier to be physically intimate with them having had the whole ‘sex thing’ demystified.

In my mind this could be greatly beneficial for my self esteem. I view this as a stepping stone that will help me later on. Personally the whole doing it with a special person thing isn't an issue. I consider this as practice for that "right person" who may or may not come by in in the next 100 years, or may even come by 100 times.

Anyhow, sorry for the essay but does this sound like a good idea? Will escorts see me as an 18 year old virgin? Who would you recommend?

This isnt the first and won't be the last post like this fella, alot of people post about losing virginity etc. There are 100's of exceptional ladies here who will see you and take care of you regardless of your nervousness or self confidence, just make sure they know your situation beforehand so they can prepare accordingly for you.
I think if you choose the right lady here your first time will be a stepping stone for alot more self esteem and alot more confidence around girls.

[mer]

well you are 18 so you are classed as an adult and there plenty of 18-20 year old escorts so choose wisely!!

now remember this are you sure this is the road that you want to go down, cause remeber you can only loose it once its something to think about

FFS your only 18 and your worrying about been a virgin there is lots of people that age actually more than you think that are still virgins remember the people that talk and boast about sex are the ones that rarely get it well that is in the real world anyway on here its a whole new story haha

so just think about your only young yet and are you sure you want to go down this road

anyway i wish you all the best in the world cause i know the feeling cause i was the same at your age, when you think about something for so long you get so nervous about doing it and always chicken off and run away from the first lady that approches you lol

luck dude you have your whole life ahead of you and it is your own choice how you loose it im not here to judge its just are you sure that you want to go down this road

peace out!!

[2timesin30]

Hey so here's the deal, I'm an 18 year old guy about to start college, and I'm still a virgin. In fact I've barely even kissed a girl.

It's not that I'm a social outcast or unattractive, just that I am completely and utterly afraid to be physical with a girl I like. No matter how confident I am or how much a girl is into me, I can never go in for a kiss. It is simply an unknown realm to me. I am far too self-conscious about how sloppy and inexperienced I will seem.

Trust me when I say that I have been stuck in this rut for ever and don't see myself getting out- no matter how drunk I am.

All my mates have popped their cherries, and while I don't buy into the whole macho rite of passage crap that surrounds losing your virginity, I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me ( the fact I'm horny as fuck 24/7 doesn't help lol).

But before anyone starts to get the wrong idea I am not looking to lose my virginity just so I can tick it off my to do list. Instead I really think that it might have long term effects by making me more confident around girls I like- I will find it easier to be physically intimate with them having had the whole ‘sex thing’ demystified.

In my mind this could be greatly beneficial for my self esteem. I view this as a stepping stone that will help me later on. Personally the whole doing it with a special person thing isn't an issue. I consider this as practice for that "right person" who may or may not come by in in the next 100 years, or may even come by 100 times.

Anyhow, sorry for the essay but does this sound like a good idea? Will escorts see me as an 18 year old virgin? Who would you recommend?

go see Mandy she's in dublin at the moment. she's probably the most kind natured, sweetest, gentlest girls i've ever met. explain your situation to her and i promise you she'll look after you. oh and as an added bonus she is absolutely gorgeous!!

[Lincoln]

I dunno mate, do you want to be talked in to it or something???

Horny 24/7?? See a girl you like?? Just go up and talk to her. Just be yourself.

Or not. Its up to yourself lad. Nothing to be gettin stressed about. You should be enjoyin your life thats all I know....

[mexicanmagic]

You have come to the right place,would not be fair to reccomend one girl over another,pick one you like near you and Im sure
all will be fine,just go for it and enjoy!!!.

[themuffinman]

Thanks for the heads up lads. Tbh I think my mind is already made up, I’m just curious as to what others might think. What’s the story with the reviews? Should you take them with a pinch of salt or what?

[ladytron]

sex is not as big a deal as you might think but if you really are not sure you want to lose your virginity to an escort, a good idea might be to visit one anyway and ask her to teach you how to kiss, touch, use your hands and get some OWO so that you will be used to having a woman touch you down there. Who knows, maybe you will find that you are comfortable enough to go all the way with her.

the fact that you are a virgin does not make you any less of a man. There are a lot more virigins even in their 20s than you think, male and female; I'm sure a few of your mates are still virgins and are lying through their teeth. I knew a guy who seemingly had amazing success with women, every night out chatting up women and boasted he scored over a 100 women and we believed him. Found out through his girlfriend he had only been with 4 women and was a lousy lay. Really don't believe everything you hear and percieve. If your friends ever give you sh*t about being a virgin, just ask them "what difference does it make whether or not i'm a virgin?" no matter how they react deep down they will respect you because none of them would have the balls to admit they are a virgin.

I have been critisized by women for my french kissing, sexual performance and physical appearance; it rolls right of my back. you have to let go of the fear to perform, to be perfect; that's just your ego talking.

One more thing, if you do decide to go all the way with an escort, remember that most women can't perform at the same level so lower your sexual expectations when you do meet a woman in your day to day life.

[joe688]

It's not that I'm a social outcast or unattractive, just that I am completely and utterly afraid to be physical with a girl I like

I was exactly like this. I had a fear of intimacy and would regularly freeze up with women. Based on my experience, I would say go for it. Visiting an escort will probably make you much more comfortable with women in general.

For me, it helped me to realise that sex is great but also not such a big deal as I was making it out to be in my head. I'm not saying that visiting an escort will make you super-confident but it should help you with your anxiety about being physical with girls. Good luck and enjoy it

[muster]

so many piss takers here ffs,18 an a virgin heard it all