Losing my virginity to an escort

[doodlebug]

If you are genuine in your post then two observations....
1. You are still young and many people still have their virginity at 18 so don't fret, as to being horny 24/7 there are ways of curing that, which don't include running into losing your virginity to an escort.
2. I recommend you don't lose your virginity to an escort, not because they aren't the most beautiful and accommodating women you will ever meet, but exactly because of that. If your first full sexual experience is with an escort you will have expectations that will make every other experience a disappointment and you may find yourself in a position that only paid for sex will be gratifying, so don't go down that path.

As for being a sloppy kisser and afraid to go in for a kiss, don't fret it the worst that can happen is that she will refuse and you move on, if however she doesn't you might just be the best kisser she ever met, or if she has feelings for you she will advise you of how she likes to be kissed.

only my tuppence worth.

[HalfPint]

Go for it.U Would not be the 1st and you will not be the last to do it 1st with a escort.I myself did not, But if you feel it is something you would like to do go for it.Just remember a punt is for the time you pay for, not for life.

Its the oldest job in the world and often years ago a father would bring his son to the local house to become a man. more in the west but more so here where it is still a bit taboo.

Nowadays with the amount of escorts local and from further a field i am sure you will find the lady to suit you.Would not like to recommend anyone for a 1st time, but make sure you go for a lady with good reviews and verified pics

[mills68]

I found reviews very helpful and for your first time go with a girl with lots of reviews. Message her and explain your situation - that way you feel like you know each other a bit before you meet. Don't be nervous - whatever you decide to do - enjoy it.

[andreea92]

just do it already ...you`l see by the time this thread passes you be long over it
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[HalfPint]

just do it already ...you`l see by the time this thread passes you be long over it
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There u go mate andrea92 is giving u the go ahead lol just joking.
My i say you look very hot in your profile pic andrea, the glases really suit you

[hd7055]

Doubt this is a genuine thread but am posting a reply as this seems to be a recurring topic ...

If you would like great sex with a gorgeous girl, who will not in any way judge you book an appointment with an Escort. But, if you do so, you need to seriously lower your expectations of 'normal' sex.

[themuffinman]

I have plenty of experience at the whole lowering expectations thing haha! Seriously though, taking it easy and starting off with kissing and all the sensual jazz is a good shout.. Cheers for the advice

[kazgar]

virgin at 18, don't make me laugh, I was still a virgin until i was 22, exact same problems m8, shy insecure, still am believe it or not , but once yo meet someone right for you it'll happen

but if you do go with the escort route follow all the above advice

[Steve88]

I have just turned 24 and am still a virgin. I am now searching for an escort to finally lose it with.I find it literally impossible to get physical with a girl, never able to go for the kiss even when girls approach me. I find myself sabotaging interactions with girls who express an interest due to this. I know exactly what you mean with "I am far too self-conscious about how sloppy and inexperienced I will seem", the benefit of an escort in making us more feel more comfortable even with kissing and touching will be huge.

I recognize that losing my virginity to an escort will not be a magic pill for my sexual anxiety, but I do believe it will give me a boost in confidence when trying to go sexual with girls I like. I think you seem to know what you are doing, I have just finished college so missed out on years of opportunities to meet and mess around with girls. Getting this sorted out now is a great idea, The longer you leave this issue unresolved the bigger the chance it will evolve in to a more serious problem like depression.

It is easy for people to tell you are too young to worry about this, or that it will sort itself out in time, but in if your anxiety is far above what would be considered normal, then that advice is useless

[Doozer]

Can you not do it the traditonal way and both of ye get so locked that none of ye will be able to preform anwayand just get it over and done with.

As the guys here have said sex with an escort could give you an unrealistic impression about women and sex (where alchohol wont lol)

But its your life and if its what you want to do then no one will stop you