So I finally did it, and I'm full of regret! FML

[WatWatWat]

Yes. I also think that he should tell his workmates, his priest and parents tomorrow morning. Make a clean breast and all that.

Exactly. This is no place for lying, deceitful people. Why put off till tomorrow what you can do now. Get cracking fresh milk. Testify, repent, cleanse your soul.

[Jaygoodtimes]

Yea that's right I was! What's wrong with that? I did go through with it so I don't see the point your making??

How the f**k can you not see the point he's making? its blatently obvious what his point is

[doodlebug]

Yes. I also think that he should tell his workmates, his priest and parents tomorrow morning. Make a clean breast and all that.

I have heard they are one and the same!!

[Rocker123]

Presuming that the original post is legit I would say that the experience of visiting a lady working as an escort has taught you that you don't want to cheat on your girlfirend. If you feel guilt then turn that into a positive and go an appreciate the girlfriend that you care about. Give her all your attention and if you learned any new ways of giving pleasure to your girlfriend for your visit, then make it up to her in bed. Dont beat yourself up. Its not the mistakes we make that matter, its what we learn from those mistakes. Now stop reading this and go blow your girlfriends mind with some great lovin'. But, if she asks you where you learned to do "that" , lie! and take the credit.

[celticden]

think you should be grateful your in a loving relationship mate i never and probally never will experience that

[Jaygoodtimes]

think you should be grateful your in a loving relationship mate i never and probally never will experience that

Well thats what I think too but keep the faith bud ha

[Luna Nueva]

think you should be grateful your in a loving relationship mate i never and probally never will experience that

Well thats what I think too but keep the faith bud ha

Guys why so much pessimism ?!?!?! Cheer up!!! Celticden you are a wonderful person, good looking, with a great personality! Jaygoodtimes I never met you but i am sure you both deserve, and will find the right person. In the mean time have fun, cuz you will miss all that caught in a relation, as freshmilk does

[Jaygoodtimes]

Guys why so much pessimism ?!?!?! Cheer up!!! Celticden you are a wonderful person, good looking, with a great personality! Jaygoodtimes I never met you but i am sure you both deserve, and will find the right person. In the mean time have fun, cuz you will miss all that caught in a relation, as freshmilk does

Sweet words luna I will find someone im sure but as you said I plan on having fun for a while yet

[HalfPint]

So I did it!

I went and paid a girl a visit after a long think AND.... I completely regret it! Worse decision I have ever made! I feel horrible! Genuinely upset that I could do this to such a beautiful women and potentially destroy such a wonderful thing we have together!

I honestly don't know how anybody can do this on a regular basis and then go home to there loving wife/fiancée/ girlfriend or partner. The ultimate betrayal!

I'm finding it hard to think straight. I'm completely paranoid that somebody seen me, that I was caught on CCTV, that the girl had hidden cameras in her room, I caught every STI known to man that there was some little weazel hiding in the wardrobe recording everything.

I was debating on ending my relationship. My partner deserves so much more than this! She would never do anything like this to me and I had never done anything on her. If I was to tell her it would destroy her but she deserves better than me!

How, how, how do people do this?

What will I do? Will my guilt pass?? Will I finish it with her? Help me before I drive myself insane!!

Cheers Johns,
FM

If I was u i would not visit a escort again, unless u are single.Just By what u are saying.
You will not have caught anthing by seeing a escort but it seems that your mind is more in trouble.If U Have a girlfriend and have a happy sex life, escorts are not for u by the sounds of things.Chalk it up mate and move on.

[HalfPint]

think you should be grateful your in a loving relationship mate i never and probally never will experience that

u never know that mate untill it happens to u.2 summers ago i started a new job, and i was lucky enough to find a girl who not only got me but wanted me to be intimate with me all the time.Sure we had fun in and outside work but after a long period together we realized we where not meant to be together.There is a time and a place for escorts and i could not be with one while being in a Relationship.Examaple, this one girl i was with for the summer, we where having sex at lest 4 times maybe six times a day.So why would i want to punt if i was getting that?