Pimp my Wife

[doodlebug]

I try and look at this question objectively, and I guess being of slightly more years than most on this site I have a slightly different view. When you get to a certain stage in your life, not the naivety of youth as mentioned by Saoirse but above a certain age, the simple fact of the matter is any prospective partner you meet is going to have a past and there will be guys that she has slept with, so if you let jealousy eat you up then you are not going to have a marriage. So putting the insane jealousy of youth aside then it might not be so difficult to have a partner who worked as an escort. The fundamental question here is the eternal debate about love and sex, if you see the two as different things, as I do then you can rationalize the sex bit but will never be able to cure the love bit. I hope this make sense to somebody.

[mer]

I try and look at this question objectively, and I guess being of slightly more years than most on this site I have a slightly different view. When you get to a certain stage in your life, not the naivety of youth as mentioned by Saoirse but above a certain age, the simple fact of the matter is any prospective partner you meet is going to have a past and there will be guys that she has slept with, so if you let jealousy eat you up then you are not going to have a marriage. So putting the insane jealousy of youth aside then it might not be so difficult to have a partner who worked as an escort. The fundamental question here is the eternal debate about love and sex, if you see the two as different things, as I do then you can rationalize the sex bit but will never be able to cure the love bit. I hope this make sense to somebody.

im sure it can work doodles everybody has a different view on things but the thing is if your truly in love then you wudnt seek sex from strangers and yes love and sex are 2 different things but if you were in love you wouldnt seek pleasure from random strangers

hey thats just me im just voicing my opnion as its an internet forum im sure people will dissagree but hell i dont care lol

[mer]

just like to add that some of the punters here on the boards dont know what love is they come here and speak so badly about there wives or partners its actually quite depressing reading the things they say about them

[kazgar]

just like to add that some of the punters here on the boards dont know what love is they come here and speak so badly about there wives or partners its actually quite depressing reading the things they say about them

Oh no !! I do love my wife with all my heart BUT she has a medical condition which restricts our sexual activities, so every few months or so I go on a punt, now I will admit that she knows nothing about this as I know it would destroy her and us, but at the same time the fact that i am not constantly hounding her for sex is also a comfort for her.

Just because guys say things about their wives on here doesn't mean they don't love them, we just say the things we would never ever ever say to their faces.

top tip for a happy marriage is just 2 little words

Yes Dear

[mer]

Oh no !! I do love my wife with all my heart BUT she has a medical condition which restricts our sexual activities, so every few months or so I go on a punt, now I will admit that she knows nothing about this as I know it would destroy her and us, but at the same time the fact that i am not constantly hounding her for sex is also a comfort for her.

Just because guys say things about their wives on here doesn't mean they don't love them, we just say the things we would never ever ever say to their faces.

top tip for a happy marriage is just 2 little words

Yes Dear

so you think people calling there wifes "fat cows" beyind there back is ok?

nah its not. look i dont judge people im sure they all have there reasons for visting ladies thats a whole different matter altogether but to hear the things they say about them is just not right!

[egonzo]

I don't think we should make it a question of whether one would let his wife escort under extenuating financial circumstances. That would imply that escorting is just a forced choice on women. I don't believe most women here see it this way. It would seem to me that for most girls this is their choice and they actually like doing it.

What about if she is a talented courtesan, perhaps with a background as full time escort and still several lovers who pay her. This would definitely qualify the lady as a prostitute. Would you consider being married to her if she was lovely, stunning looking, sweet, understanding, presentable? Think about being her best friend and openly discussing her sex life. Would it be exciting?

I have had a very long marriage of this kind and it ended only because she decided to relocate to pursue her career. While it lasted, I was truly happy and had all the stimulation I could ask for. A true courtesan knows how to deal with men and in particular can make an understanding husband very very happy.

[Lincoln]

nah its just my dream man wud have the same charactics as my dad, it pretty much know girl can seek that

i want humour, life is nothing without laughter, madness so life is never dull, height so i dnt delovpe a hump form bending over looking down, but i want that love that i am for him and he for me

u know who i marry in fucking flash darra o brein, imagine our kids, the scarcastic little cunts they wud be

i wudnt want to be in love and doing this job to me that truly wud be hard, but as i said i never had that before so i do not know for sure

Dara O'Brian is our Stephen Fry I reckon!!

Well....not being married I suppose I can't contribute too much. All I would say is that I don't think our relationship could continue if she was in the job and I would feel I had let her down pretty abysmally if hadnt been able to support her sufficiently that she felt compelled to do this.

Of course its all well and good saying this stuff when yer relatively comfortable and have never known true poverty and privation....

[Lincoln]

I don't think we should make it a question of whether one would let his wife escort under extenuating financial circumstances. That would imply that escorting is just a forced choice on women. I don't believe most women here see it this way. It would seem to me that for most girls this is their choice and they actually like doing it.

What about if she is a talented courtesan, perhaps with a background as full time escort and still several lovers who pay her. This would definitely qualify the lady as a prostitute. Would you consider being married to her if she was lovely, stunning looking, sweet, understanding, presentable? Think about being her best friend and openly discussing her sex life. Would it be exciting?

I have had a very long marriage of this kind and it ended only because she decided to relocate to pursue her career. While it lasted, I was truly happy and had all the stimulation I could ask for. A true courtesan knows how to deal with men and in particular can make an understanding husband very very happy.

I don't think thats quite the point mate: It's just a general assumption that in the context of a married woman its purely financial support that COMPELS her decision to do this.

This has no bearing on any person in the pursuit of exploring their sexuality or sexual appetites and without a relationship to tie them down making a (hopefully!!!) good living out of escorting.

[Curious1975]

no chance..lol

[UKHeather]

I'm confused by this word "allow"