women

[UKHeather]

I have a sign hanging in my kitchen which says - Don't try to understand me. Just love me.
Sums women up really

[TiffanyTees]

does anybody understand women? cus i sure as hell dont haha obviously the women here are beautiful and uncomplicated cus you know what the story is but in the real world jes

Women can cause world war 3 and 4............lol
Well we are like a delicate rose nurter it and you will have a fabulous bloom. PISS on it and it will wilt.......x

Me personally I am so uncomplicated if you cant cook or cant shag you are out on ya ear

love Tiff xxx

[Cable87]

A conversion with my ex-girlfriend on the bus:

Me:...so i can't see you tomorrow night i have to get up early.
Her: oh sure just tell me to go away just like that
Me: well you can stay over if you like but i'm going to sleep early.
Her: what difference does it make, last time you fell asleep at my house and we didn't even cuddle
Me: you were staying up to do an assignment and i was really tired from work, i couldn't stay awake until you finished to cuddle in bed.
Her: but when i came over to you to cuddle you said you didn't want to cuddle
Me: I never said that.
Her: okay, you didn't say that but you still didn't want to cuddle. What's the point in staying with you at all, i'm going straight home.
Me: Listen, sometimes i'm exhausted, you can't always expect me to stay awake to cuddle.
Her: starts crying and leaning her head against the bus window it's like you don't even care about me, why are we even together...
Me: listen, i'm getting tired of this ffs, now your just being difficult!
Her: Is it too much to ask for?
....and the conversion pretty much goes around in circles ending in make-up sex the next day. A couple of months later she broke up with me because i didn't spend enough time with her.

The one thing I learnt from the arguments and the relationship was when women complain about something petty, i.e. a cuddle, there usually is an underlying serious issue, i.e. me not spending enough time with her. Women speak a different language to men and communicate very differently; they have things like intuition so they pick-up on things that we don't.

Now having said that, i think we generally understimate the complexity of men; often painted as dogs who think with their dick. I believe that men are just as sensative as women but as soon as we express our deeper emotions to women, our emotions are often trivialised, particularly anger and so we close off again. And i have had women attack me using my deepest fears against me that i shared with them during intimate conversations; that's disgusting and disgraceful.

men and women are equally complicated, albeit in very different ways...

Well said ladytron, and thanks for sharing that personal story. I'd say most of us lads have been there (I know I certainly have), and can completely identify with how you feel about it. It sometimes seems like there's no real way to communicate effectively with the opposite sex...

[maninwhite]

Don't know what you all are on about, sure women are great craic! Very pretty too

[Luna Nueva]

A conversion with my ex-girlfriend on the bus:

Me:...so i can't see you tomorrow night i have to get up early.
Her: oh sure just tell me to go away just like that
Me: well you can stay over if you like but i'm going to sleep early.
Her: what difference does it make, last time you fell asleep at my house and we didn't even cuddle
Me: you were staying up to do an assignment and i was really tired from work, i couldn't stay awake until you finished to cuddle in bed.
Her: but when i came over to you to cuddle you said you didn't want to cuddle
Me: I never said that.
Her: okay, you didn't say that but you still didn't want to cuddle. What's the point in staying with you at all, i'm going straight home.
Me: Listen, sometimes i'm exhausted, you can't always expect me to stay awake to cuddle.
Her: starts crying and leaning her head against the bus window it's like you don't even care about me, why are we even together...
Me: listen, i'm getting tired of this ffs, now your just being difficult!
Her: Is it too much to ask for?
....and the conversion pretty much goes around in circles ending in make-up sex the next day. A couple of months later she broke up with me because i didn't spend enough time with her.

The one thing I learnt from the arguments and the relationship was when women complain about something petty, i.e. a cuddle, there usually is an underlying serious issue, i.e. me not spending enough time with her. Women speak a different language to men and communicate very differently; they have things like intuition so they pick-up on things that we don't.

Now having said that, i think we generally understimate the complexity of men; often painted as dogs who think with their dick. I believe that men are just as sensative as women but as soon as we express our deeper emotions to women, our emotions are often trivialised, particularly anger and so we close off again. And i have had women attack me using my deepest fears against me that i shared with them during intimate conversations; that's disgusting and disgraceful.

men and women are equally complicated, albeit in very different ways...

Ladytrone thank for sharing that.. Probably the only thing that makes the difference between us genders, is that we, woman, are listening the sound of our inner voice, INTUITION, while man would not pay attention to that, or maybe they don't even have it. The best way to have an easy life with someone (man/woman) is to take them as they are, not paying attention to all the details, in the end we are all human, we have feelings. But your ex-girlfriend was really capricious, I could not have beside me someone to tell me why we don't cuddle, while i am sleepy .. because I CAN'T i am sleepy. Of course... not every night, because she might think that she's boring, or you don't care ...if every single night you are sleepy. It's the equivalent when a woman says that she has a headache when you want sex... if it happens everyday it means she doesn't like having sex with you.

[WatWatWat]

Women. 9 months waiting to get out of one. The rest of your life tryin to get back in.

[Luna Nueva]

Women. 9 months waiting to get out of one. The rest of your life tryin to get back in.

we are just special, so difficult, but everyone wants us

[celticden]

think I was drunk or hungover or both when I posted it but I might read that book "the game" again and the others suggested I was more getting at and seen it every time why do girls go for dickheads? guys who as soon as she turns her head he will be grabing the arse of some other girl and some see it and he always gets away with it ?

[Hagane00]

I have a sign hanging in my kitchen which says - Don't try to understand me. Just love me.
Sums women up really

I will try to keep that in mind

[celticden]

don't think even women understand it haha