Hitting it off x

[Stephanie]

Ah, so how often does it happen ? And how ? Soon as you walk in the door, or does it develop over the appointment ?

What are the qualities that make you feel that you 'click' ? (surely this may be different for everyone..)

Do you get somewhat attached to a girl that you 'hit it off' with ? Become a regular ?

Or is it too scary and you walk away ?

Or for the girls : refuse to see him again ?

I have a 'couple of' fantastic experiences, but I'd like to hear from you xx

[mellors]

Normally as soon as i walk through the door. Its quite hard to define. A sense of humour certainly helps , one girl took the piss out of me as soon as i walked in...i knew we were going to have a great time.
Its sort of like being at a party, some people you really get on with, some youre ok spending a short time with and some you're quite happy to ignore.
Those I get on really well with would be become regulars yeah.

[Chutney]

I have found it rare to 'click' with someone immediately. I like to get to know them on forums if possible and start to gain an insight over and above the obvious physical attraction. I don't think you can quantify what gives that feeling as its a combination of things and it seems to be different for each person you do 'click' with.
Yes, I would look to become a regular in that situation, I'm single so probably seek intimacy over and above the physical act, and that requires trust and familiarity.

[Stephanie]

I have hit it of with all the ladys i have seen bar one, having said that i would see her again.Sure its nice if we click but not a must for me.Had a fantastic experience with a thai lady, became a regular and seen her on her days of, not for sex just to show her the city.We really hit it of for a while and when we had sex there was no "what position do you want 1st" we just went with it which made for great sex.

Ladys from brazil are also very easy to hit if of with.One lady i see when she comes to my city is very easy to hit it of with and her reviews show that.Even though he english was not that great we still got on well, having said that "when she said after sex one time that she loved me" i put it down to her english not being great and advised her that while it was nice to say that she probably should not be saying stuff like that to a punter as its a easy way to get yourself a stalker.

Excellent advice ! She probably meant that she liked you, but language barrier played a role. Nevertheless, excellent advice .

I think such talk and such feelings should not be part of our engagements. You can be very fond of someone, but need to

understand the boundaries.

[Apr]

Ah, so how often does it happen ? And how ? Soon as you walk in the door, or does it develop over the appointment ?

What are the qualities that make you feel that you 'click' ? (surely this may be different for everyone..)

Do you get somewhat attached to a girl that you 'hit it off' with ? Become a regular ?

Or is it too scary and you walk away ?

Or for the girls : refuse to see him again ?

I have a 'couple of' fantastic experiences, but I'd like to hear from you xx

For me it develops over the appointment.A sense of humour is important to me and learning about the ladies personality. It doesnt matter how good looking she is if she has a cold personality. Hard to judge those things instantly. Id only become a regular if I felt the lady was the best escort out there and that visiting another escort wouldnt be as good. I wouldnt get attached though as at the end of the day I know this is a service and you have know the boundaries.

[doodlebug]

I try my best to make the lady feel at ease and let her hit it off with me, after all its not everyday they get a gorgeous hunk like me walking through their door. I like to think I am a good communicator so I do my best to communicate regardless of language, there are always ways and means. Being honest, in my limited experience I have found that once the escort realises I am not a serial killer or whatever they tend to be easy to hit it off with. Hell I have even met a few ladies outside of work for coffee etc.

[Stephanie]

Normally as soon as i walk through the door. Its quite hard to define. A sense of humour certainly helps , one girl took the piss out of me as soon as i walked in...i knew we were going to have a great time.
Its sort of like being at a party, some people you really get on with, some youre ok spending a short time with and some you're quite happy to ignore.
Those I get on really well with would be become regulars yeah.

Kismet lol xx

[client20150811]

I mostly hit it off with girls who are happy to chat, share a joke etc. Having said that, there's one girl I've visited a few times who speaks virtually no English and we are very comfortable with each other. I don't enjoy businesslike or bossy girls, unless it's part of a fantasy set up.

[Patt113]

Hitting it off ...
I think it's quite important to be careful about hitting it off anything; maybe a more subtle approach would cause less tenderness afterwards,

[maximus]

Well well well, if I knew the answer I would bottle it and make a fortune!
It’s a bit like walking into a crowded room and hitting it off with someone you have never met before, is it chemistry, instinct or just good fortune! Either way it is rare, but very pleasant.

I know I / we have clicked when the “fun” becomes intuitive. Do I / would I run away? No – I’m old enough and have lived enough to enjoy it for what it is, but it does provide me with food for thought.

I suppose if I “clicked” in the “real world”, my actions and reactions might be different!