Hitting it off x

[Stephanie]

Ah, so how often does it happen ? And how ? Soon as you walk in the door, or does it develop over the appointment ?

What are the qualities that make you feel that you 'click' ? (surely this may be different for everyone..)

Do you get somewhat attached to a girl that you 'hit it off' with ? Become a regular ?

Or is it too scary and you walk away ?

Or for the girls : refuse to see him again ?

I have a 'couple of' fantastic experiences, but I'd like to hear from you xx

[Chutney]

I have found it rare to 'click' with someone immediately. I like to get to know them on forums if possible and start to gain an insight over and above the obvious physical attraction. I don't think you can quantify what gives that feeling as its a combination of things and it seems to be different for each person you do 'click' with.
Yes, I would look to become a regular in that situation, I'm single so probably seek intimacy over and above the physical act, and that requires trust and familiarity.

[Stephanie]

I have found it rare to 'click' with someone immediately. I like to get to know them on forums if possible and start to gain an insight over and above the obvious physical attraction. I don't think you can quantify what gives that feeling as its a combination of things and it seems to be different for each person you do 'click' with.
Yes, I would look to become a regular in that situation, I'm single so probably seek intimacy over and above the physical act, and that requires trust and familiarity.

Have you never met anyone that as soon as you laid eyes on eachother, it was just 'right'?

[Chutney]

Have you never met anyone that as soon as you laid eyes on eachother, it was just 'right'?

I haven't unfortunately. Down to my nature, being reserved meeting someone in person for the first time.

[WatWatWat]

Sense of humour. The last escort i saw had it in bucket fulls. Had the best times with her. She said i was an escorts worse nightmare. Lol. All good.

[ksteve]

This one I feel is a very difficult one for clients to answer accurately. A client gauging whether he had a real and genuine 'click ' going with a lady in the paid sex arena must be notoriously unreliable. A 'click' cannot be confused with " we got on great ".

The ladies pride themselves on being professional, on being able to make you feel relaxed special, interesting, funny, maybe even sexually attractive. They are actresses, their job is to fool us in a way, to pretend, to give us a fantasy, the GFE and they thankfully are very good at it.

So against that backdrop, when is the client entitled to disregard all of this and to accurately feel or report that the experience he had, actually transcended this professionalism and that what he experienced was someting different, a true connection or chemistry, something very real ?

I believe I have attended many many appointments where I have got on really well the escort and this has often led to return visit, sometimes not. But I feel the only person who could accurately say whether we ' clicked' is the escort herself !

[Stephanie]

This one I feel is a very difficult one for clients to answer accurately. A client gauging whether he had a real and genuine 'click ' going with a lady in the paid sex arena must be notoriously unreliable. A 'click' cannot be confused with " we got on great ".

The ladies pride themselves on being professional, on being able to make you feel relaxed special, interesting, funny, maybe even sexually attractive. They are actresses, their job is to fool us in a way, to pretend, to give us a fantasy, the GFE and they thankfully are very good at it.

So against that backdrop, when is the client entitled to disregard all of this and to accurately feel or report that the experience he had, actually transcended this professionalism and that what he experienced was someting different, a true connection or chemistry, something very real ?

I believe I have attended many many appointments where I have got on really well the escort and this has often led to return visit, sometimes not. But I feel the only person who could accurately say whether we ' clicked' is the escort herself !

Last summer it so happened that I took a short notice appointment.. If my memory serves me right, at first I declined, then for some

reason accepted the booking. Shortly my guest arrived for a one hour visit, and he was in the door no more than 3 minutes

when he asked if he could stay for longer.. Our attraction and chemistry was so all encompassing, so instantanious, it was startling..

A whirlwind of passion and giving.. of restraint and surrender.. immediately felt right, felt natural, felt overwhelming..

Though completely satisfied, the experience left me hungering for more..

He came back the next day, then the following week for the first of several overnights.. I cannot say that our meetings got better

over the several visits, because from the first moment on it was 'it' . And it was more than just great sex. We chatted, shared some

food sitting around on my terrace, had some wine and talked literature, he turned me onto a new author, brought me breakfast..

so it wasn't just the animalistic sexual attraction.. We had some lovely times together, and now have some wonderful memories.

It rocked.

So that's the kind of 'hit it off' I meant


And yes, it was business. We never breached the rules of our arrangement.. And no, he hasn't reviewed me ..

[Curvaceous Kate]

I haven't unfortunately. Down to my nature, being reserved meeting someone in person for the first time.

There is nothing wrong with being reserved Chutney. I would imagine that once you do let the barriers down there is an awful lot more to enjoy. Perhaps not a bad thing to be led by your instincts more while with an Escort though, as you are restricted by time and you have nothing to gain by caution, beyond the initial introduction and deciding if you are getting what was advertised.

I would say if she is warm and inviting towards you and if the kiss feels right and stimulating, to let that kiss mark the rest of the booking and take you to the place that you want to be. From then on act like you are meeting your lover and treat her the way you would someone you care and feel passionate about and she will respond accordingly.

It might enter into the realms of fantasy, but we do want you to enjoy yourself, to leave feeling light in foot and have a smile on your face when you remember us, so there is no reason why you can't let go and enjoy the moment, other than your own boundaries.

[Apr]

Ah, so how often does it happen ? And how ? Soon as you walk in the door, or does it develop over the appointment ?

What are the qualities that make you feel that you 'click' ? (surely this may be different for everyone..)

Do you get somewhat attached to a girl that you 'hit it off' with ? Become a regular ?

Or is it too scary and you walk away ?

Or for the girls : refuse to see him again ?

I have a 'couple of' fantastic experiences, but I'd like to hear from you xx

For me it develops over the appointment.A sense of humour is important to me and learning about the ladies personality. It doesnt matter how good looking she is if she has a cold personality. Hard to judge those things instantly. Id only become a regular if I felt the lady was the best escort out there and that visiting another escort wouldnt be as good. I wouldnt get attached though as at the end of the day I know this is a service and you have know the boundaries.

[doodlebug]

I try my best to make the lady feel at ease and let her hit it off with me, after all its not everyday they get a gorgeous hunk like me walking through their door. I like to think I am a good communicator so I do my best to communicate regardless of language, there are always ways and means. Being honest, in my limited experience I have found that once the escort realises I am not a serial killer or whatever they tend to be easy to hit it off with. Hell I have even met a few ladies outside of work for coffee etc.