Originally Posted by
Stephanie
See, that's what I was talking about
. That's what I was asking in my op. That's what I meant by 'hitting it off' , and
that's where my question came from : To the guys -- do you become a regular, or walk away..
And for the girls -- do you carry on or stop seeing him.. And you answered me, Kate. You had to stop for your own good.
My friend also stopped visiting me after several meetings, as it was becoming too much for him..
Ahhh...as usual I have have misread the thread! Or rather misread the terminology.
To me "hitting it off" or "clicking" means getting on really well with someone, and not just in a sexual sense. A lady that should we have met under different circumstances - we could have been quite happy hanging out together.
But I see you are asking about chemistry - falling for someone. That takes awhile for that to happen to me. It's never happened to me at first sight (in real life or with escorts). That's just my personality.
There was on particular lady (an escort) that had been tugging at my heart strings. But I hadn't really realised this. I had just started seeing escorts, and was smitten with her in whole lot of different ways. However, like most escorts she left and moved on after awhile. So that was thankfully the end of it. It was only when she left that the emotions I felt, made me realise that I should be more careful in the future.
Since then I've tried to space out appointments between the girls I revisit and not visit any one lady too much or exclusively.
Last edited by Morpheus; 07-05-12 at 00:45.
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