Stephanie (05-05-12)
I'll obviously know when we first meet if I'm physically attrachted to the lady.
After that it depends on how the rest of the appointment goes before I know whether I'd like to see them again.
I've been lucky enough to meet a few ladies over the years that I like and presumably they must be comfortable enough with me as they're still accepting my appointments.
A good chat and a laugh and feeling comfortable around them usually are the main factors.
There is nothing worse for the lying soul than the mirror of reality
Stephanie (05-05-12)
doodlebug (05-05-12)
I think the click factor becomes better the more you see a given lady.You develop a relationship with her, albeit a professional client-escort relationship.
There was one particular lady that I really hit is off with from our first encounter. I was so lost in chat with her that it took up the full hour!!!!!! Thankfully she didn't have a susbsequent appointment and I managed to stay for a second hour for some shenanigans.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
Stephanie (05-05-12)
As I organise appointments by pm, it is nice to have a bit of correspondance beforehand. Does give you an idea of the lady and whether you will get on. For me a good appointment turns into a great one when we have a good laugh as well as the more intimate moments.
Sometimes you can feel it from the off, or the first kiss, but for me the confirmation is in how the booking finishes. If you some how naturally find yourselves with bodies entwined and hugging as you come back down from the climax and find yourselves chatting about God knows what, like you have known each other all your lives, then I think it is fair to say you have clicked.
I love that moment
CHEMISTRY
All my appointments have been excellent but I must say that there have been a couple of ones that really stood out and I sincerely am not talking just sexually.
In life from time to time this happens and the "chemistry" is instantaneous. It makes for an unbelievable experience.
Have also felt this with a lady that I've not actually met yet but have had a few flirty pm's and a telephone conversation with.
Will be put to the test soon I hope..!!!!
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Stephanie (05-05-12)
It's hard to put your finger on it, it could be from the moment you start interacting via PMs, or on the phone. I've been lucky to have had positive experiences thanks to careful choices, booking in advance and resisting the urge for spur of the moment appointments, even when appointments have been cancelled unexpectedly. ( the down side of advance bookings ).
But the appointments that have really stood out, the ladies that I have gone back to, the repeat visits, have been the ones where this click factor has occurred.
- Where the physical side has been such that it seems so natural, spontaneous and comfortable.
- Where we've felt so relaxed in each other's company, there's no awkwardness.
- Where the one thing that is not on my mind is the money I've just spent or about to spend.
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Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories
Curvaceous Kate (05-05-12), harry10 (06-05-12), max california (06-05-12), Morpheus (05-05-12), Stephanie (05-05-12), theqm (06-05-12)
I think you just know the first time you meet some-one.
For me it's not just about the physical side of things, it's
about seeing the person as well. Being able to feel totally relaxed
in some-one's company, like you've known them for ages, is a great thing.
Personality, sense of humour & good conversation are what make
me see the same person time & again. I've had some meetings where
I could have honestly spend the entire time just talking.
Chemistry/click factor is hard to define, and when it happens it's a
truly amazing thing.
Stephanie (06-05-12)