Tie and Tease

[Curvaceous Kate]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?

I've tried it a couple times in the past and always felt a bit lacking in confidence. I was worried that my knots were rubbish and that I would not know what to do with the chap once he was tied up or what I was doing was not right. However, yesterday I had a regular with me and we are now very relaxed with each other and he said he fancied having some tie and tease fun. I told him I was rubbish at it, but I'd give it a go and proceeded to get out my guy ropes (I have a few bits and pieces).

I tied him up to my bed and he said that I tied him up better than he was used to. Apparently one of his girls (as he calls them) use stockings and it doesn't work too well. I then put a blind fold on him. Then I remembered the chat about hot and cold and got some hot water and some iced water and put some in my mouth and alternated hot and cold while giving hm a bj. I then poured some vodka into his mouth while kissing and generally tantalised him in this way until we reached completion.

Afterwards he said that he had never been tied up where he was not able to escape before and he was very impressed over all, so I started to wonder if I had been putting myself down too much all this time and perhaps should put it on the menu of things offered after all, but before I do I would really like to know what kind of things you do when you go for a tie and tease booking and what you enjoy best?

Sorry for probing, but this isn't the kind of job where you can follow a mentor and I really do want to learn from other people's experiences as much as I can. Call it the fussy Virgo in me, as I just want to get it right.

Experiences please boys and girls!

[ksteve]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?


Sorry for probing, but this isn't the kind of job where you can follow a mentor and I really do want to learn from other people's experiences as much as I can. Call it the fussy Virgo in me, as I just want to get it right.

Experiences please boys and girls!

Excellent post Kate !

I have often seen this advertised but I have no real idea of the nuts and bolts of what comprises this service. So interested to learn all about it.

[Chutney]

Only tried it the once, but it wasn't how I had imagined it. I found that I do need the eye contact and the feedback, otherwise I feel a little lost.

[ksteve]

Only tried it the once, but it wasn't how I had imagined it. I found that I do need the eye contact and the feedback, otherwise I feel a little lost.

So the guy is always blindfolded ? Sure then the escort could be watching Corrie with her earphones on at the same time !!

[Curvaceous Kate]

So the guy is always blindfolded ? Sure then the escort could be watching Corrie with her earphones on at the same time !!

lol you can't made that assessment from 2 accounts. I don't have a tv in my bedroom. I knew there was something missing. I will get one in time for the next episode of corrie lol.

[ksteve]

lol you can't made that assessment from 2 accounts. I don't have a tv in my bedroom. I knew there was something missing. I will get one in time for the next episode of corrie lol.

I thought the visuals in tie and tease would be extremely important part of the service -- sort of 'look but you cant have' type of thing. Visuals are very important for men cos of our lack of imagination. Having a BJ in the dark sounds very boring !!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I thought the visuals in tie and tease would be extremely important part of the service -- sort of 'look but you cant have' type of thing. Visuals are very important for men cos of our lack of imagination. Having a BJ in the dark sounds very boring !!

It's called sensual deprivation. When you take away one sense you increase another, so if you take away sight, everything else feels more sensitive and you have that sense of the unknown. Which reminds me, I should have also used the sense of smell, as well as taste and temperature.

There is also of course the fact that you are powerless. I was a little naughty at the end, as I continued massaging with my hand after he came for a few strokes and he called me a cow lol. Apparently it was very sensitive hehe.

[ksteve]

It's called sensual deprivation. When you take away one sense you increase another, so if you take away sight, everything else feels more sensitive and you have that sense of the unknown. Which reminds me, I should have also used the sense of smell, as well as taste and temperature.

There is also of course the fact that you are powerless. I was a little naughty at the end, as I continued massaging with my hand after he came for a few strokes and he called me a cow lol. Apparently it was very sensitive hehe.

Yes like where at some parties, the guy gets a BJ from another guy, thinking that it is astunner of an escort all along --- no thanks !! I think I'd prefer to be flogged to death instead by Shirley, at least I could look at her killing me.!

[Shirley Joy]

As my advert's intro says,the tie & tease purpose is to drive him crazy for a touch,for a kiss,making him to beg you to play with him,in my sessions the excitement level goes so far that any sexual contact,oral or intercourse,would last a few seconds..won't go into more details,but this is something that each and every guy shall experience at least once

Oh,almost forgot,the blindfold is optional,the eye contact is important, I use the mask for tie & torture rather for tie &tease

[Curvaceous Kate]

As my advert's intro says,the tie & tease purpose is to drive him crazy for a touch,for a kiss,making him to beg you to play with him,in my sessions the excitement level goes so far that any sexual contact,oral or intercourse,would last a few seconds..won't go into more details,but this is something that each and every guy shall experience at least once

Ah that doesn't help. I don't suppose you would mind pming me some suggestions? I would really appreciate it.