Tie and Tease

[Curvaceous Kate]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?

I've tried it a couple times in the past and always felt a bit lacking in confidence. I was worried that my knots were rubbish and that I would not know what to do with the chap once he was tied up or what I was doing was not right. However, yesterday I had a regular with me and we are now very relaxed with each other and he said he fancied having some tie and tease fun. I told him I was rubbish at it, but I'd give it a go and proceeded to get out my guy ropes (I have a few bits and pieces).

I tied him up to my bed and he said that I tied him up better than he was used to. Apparently one of his girls (as he calls them) use stockings and it doesn't work too well. I then put a blind fold on him. Then I remembered the chat about hot and cold and got some hot water and some iced water and put some in my mouth and alternated hot and cold while giving hm a bj. I then poured some vodka into his mouth while kissing and generally tantalised him in this way until we reached completion.

Afterwards he said that he had never been tied up where he was not able to escape before and he was very impressed over all, so I started to wonder if I had been putting myself down too much all this time and perhaps should put it on the menu of things offered after all, but before I do I would really like to know what kind of things you do when you go for a tie and tease booking and what you enjoy best?

Sorry for probing, but this isn't the kind of job where you can follow a mentor and I really do want to learn from other people's experiences as much as I can. Call it the fussy Virgo in me, as I just want to get it right.

Experiences please boys and girls!

[ksteve]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?


Sorry for probing, but this isn't the kind of job where you can follow a mentor and I really do want to learn from other people's experiences as much as I can. Call it the fussy Virgo in me, as I just want to get it right.

Experiences please boys and girls!

Excellent post Kate !

I have often seen this advertised but I have no real idea of the nuts and bolts of what comprises this service. So interested to learn all about it.

[Chutney]

Only tried it the once, but it wasn't how I had imagined it. I found that I do need the eye contact and the feedback, otherwise I feel a little lost.

[ksteve]

Only tried it the once, but it wasn't how I had imagined it. I found that I do need the eye contact and the feedback, otherwise I feel a little lost.

So the guy is always blindfolded ? Sure then the escort could be watching Corrie with her earphones on at the same time !!

[Curvaceous Kate]

So the guy is always blindfolded ? Sure then the escort could be watching Corrie with her earphones on at the same time !!

lol you can't made that assessment from 2 accounts. I don't have a tv in my bedroom. I knew there was something missing. I will get one in time for the next episode of corrie lol.

[ksteve]

lol you can't made that assessment from 2 accounts. I don't have a tv in my bedroom. I knew there was something missing. I will get one in time for the next episode of corrie lol.

I thought the visuals in tie and tease would be extremely important part of the service -- sort of 'look but you cant have' type of thing. Visuals are very important for men cos of our lack of imagination. Having a BJ in the dark sounds very boring !!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I thought the visuals in tie and tease would be extremely important part of the service -- sort of 'look but you cant have' type of thing. Visuals are very important for men cos of our lack of imagination. Having a BJ in the dark sounds very boring !!

It's called sensual deprivation. When you take away one sense you increase another, so if you take away sight, everything else feels more sensitive and you have that sense of the unknown. Which reminds me, I should have also used the sense of smell, as well as taste and temperature.

There is also of course the fact that you are powerless. I was a little naughty at the end, as I continued massaging with my hand after he came for a few strokes and he called me a cow lol. Apparently it was very sensitive hehe.

[UncleBob]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?

I've tried it a couple times in the past and always felt a bit lacking in confidence. I was worried that my knots were rubbish and that I would not know what to do with the chap once he was tied up or what I was doing was not right. However, yesterday I had a regular with me and we are now very relaxed with each other and he said he fancied having some tie and tease fun. I told him I was rubbish at it, but I'd give it a go and proceeded to get out my guy ropes (I have a few bits and pieces).

I tied him up to my bed and he said that I tied him up better than he was used to. Apparently one of his girls (as he calls them) use stockings and it doesn't work too well. I then put a blind fold on him. Then I remembered the chat about hot and cold and got some hot water and some iced water and put some in my mouth and alternated hot and cold while giving hm a bj. I then poured some vodka into his mouth while kissing and generally tantalised him in this way until we reached completion.

I've been both a giver and a receiver on tying and teasing, so these are my tuppence. Onto the bed/sofa/whatever, a strong kiss, a restraint goes on firmly, a smile and a promise. Another kiss, another limb gets held in place. Delicious

Blindfolds - best used in moderation - and probably only when you're in the process of delivering strong sensation (pleasure or pain), and want to keep them guessing as to where a kiss or the flogger lands next Eye contact is wonderful, especially if you're the sort who likes to be mischievious and make unspoken promises

Leather restraints are possibly best from the point of both comfort and ease of use. (Hemp) rope is good, but you need to know how to do an appropriate knot (competent riggers are in demand in certain communities, and for deserved reasons). Velcro is ok, but not the sexiest thing in the world. Handcuffs have great visuals and sound when they're being put on, but can be uncomfortable sometimes.

It's certainly the time to push a little on sexual limits, as well. There is an implicit permission there in submitting to being restrained, I think, and if you have agreed words to signify 'slow down' and 'stop' then everything should be gravy

[desperate]

That's a brilliant slogan Kate." wine and dine and 69" Much as I would love to take you out to dinner (and hope to) I prefer the old roll in the hay first..Now if I was a man of means I would have no hesitation in booking you for an overnight.Roll on July.

[mr gear]

Cant beat tie and tease..the x use to do it to me all the time...blindfold and feed me strawberries and pour
chocolate all over me and lick it off wow.bed sheets got destroyed though