Tie and Tease

[very shy guy]

her tours comming up, we had the modeling segment last night

And what a segment that was,any chance of a repeat Kate ?.

[WatWatWat]

Sensual deprivation. I get weeks sometimes months of that. So when i meet an escort i want the complete opposite of that. Whatever that is. Sensual overload maybe.

[very shy guy]

Sensual deprivation. I get weeks sometimes months of that. So when i meet an escort i want the complete opposite of that. Whatever that is. Sensual overload maybe.

Good man WWW,we think alike,then again being single means I do not have any interaction and do go weeks suffering sensual deprivation.

[Curvaceous Kate]

And what a segment that was,any chance of a repeat Kate ?.

lol no I think you have learned about the benefits of a steel boned corset now. My work there is done! haha

[UncleBob]

When you ask for tie and tease, what exactly do you expect?

I've tried it a couple times in the past and always felt a bit lacking in confidence. I was worried that my knots were rubbish and that I would not know what to do with the chap once he was tied up or what I was doing was not right. However, yesterday I had a regular with me and we are now very relaxed with each other and he said he fancied having some tie and tease fun. I told him I was rubbish at it, but I'd give it a go and proceeded to get out my guy ropes (I have a few bits and pieces).

I tied him up to my bed and he said that I tied him up better than he was used to. Apparently one of his girls (as he calls them) use stockings and it doesn't work too well. I then put a blind fold on him. Then I remembered the chat about hot and cold and got some hot water and some iced water and put some in my mouth and alternated hot and cold while giving hm a bj. I then poured some vodka into his mouth while kissing and generally tantalised him in this way until we reached completion.

I've been both a giver and a receiver on tying and teasing, so these are my tuppence. Onto the bed/sofa/whatever, a strong kiss, a restraint goes on firmly, a smile and a promise. Another kiss, another limb gets held in place. Delicious

Blindfolds - best used in moderation - and probably only when you're in the process of delivering strong sensation (pleasure or pain), and want to keep them guessing as to where a kiss or the flogger lands next Eye contact is wonderful, especially if you're the sort who likes to be mischievious and make unspoken promises

Leather restraints are possibly best from the point of both comfort and ease of use. (Hemp) rope is good, but you need to know how to do an appropriate knot (competent riggers are in demand in certain communities, and for deserved reasons). Velcro is ok, but not the sexiest thing in the world. Handcuffs have great visuals and sound when they're being put on, but can be uncomfortable sometimes.

It's certainly the time to push a little on sexual limits, as well. There is an implicit permission there in submitting to being restrained, I think, and if you have agreed words to signify 'slow down' and 'stop' then everything should be gravy

[Curvaceous Kate]

i think lucy meant in private section there love, it kinda makes it look all self promotion and the like up here,

but thats just me im an odd old type now

Telling people I'm crap at something and asking for their experience is not what I would consider to be self promotion.

I'm really pleased I started the thread, as I love using my blindfold and it is interesting to see that generally it doesn't seem to be that popular, so I would have been going right up the wrong alley with that idea. I'm already learning.

Thanks everyone for their input so far x

[very shy guy]

lol no I think you have learned about the benefits of a steel boned corset now. My work there is done! haha

Aww shucks,just when things were getting interesting too,your work is never done Kate lol,what about girdles lol.

[sammy22]

This is something I'd love to try. The idea of being brought closer and closer to climax without being able to jump over the line sounds amazing. I'd imagine the finish would be mindblowing when it eventually comes.

As for blindfolds, it's not something that immediately jumps out at me as appealing, but I I'm not going to knock it until I've given it go. Great thread by the way.

[harry10]

Have done it a few times and have always enjoyed it. The feeling of waiting to be touched, not knowing how or where is wonderful.

[Banjaxed]

Certainly something I'd like to try, but I haven't the foggiest about the dynamics of it, so good thread. It sounds simple enough, if a little unnerving to be defenceless and under someone's control to the point of being blindfolded or gagged or whatever other variation.