Definitely your perspective. I could never have sex with someone I don't like. Can you explain "they consider the act of sex with power" ?
Definitely your perspective. I could never have sex with someone I don't like. Can you explain "they consider the act of sex with power" ?
Miramar (15-04-12)
ok let's first put this in context, I'm primarily talking about one night stands or client and escorts. Not relationships.
I think it is about detachment. I think there is a need to keep detached and I've actually chatted to various guys over the last couple of years and it's gone from wanting to book to, 'I can't book you because I like you too much'. They come to realise I guess that I am the type of person that they might like to have a relationship with and because that is not on offer then they back off. The goal posts have been moved so to speak. I've also had regulars who got overwhelmed by how they felt about me and had to stop seeing me, which was a shame, as I enjoyed their company.
Where as, if I had not got into conversation with them and talked about things in common etc, they may have 'liked' me, but they don't know me and that is fine, the bookings go ahead with no problem.
With regards to sex with someone you don't like goes. There is a very fine line between love and hate and where there is hate, there is passion. So yes, some men may hate certain aspects of a lady, but still fancy her and the power comes from the fact that despite not liking her he is still able to F*** her. She might piss him off at times, but he can still book her. Of course he would have to be respectful etc, but still, he knows and she doesn't unless he tells her who he is.
Like everything it's not good to generalise and I'm sure there are many guys out there that can keep the boudaries in place and are able to like their reg without losing sight of what is happening etc. I do have a few client friends like that, but there are not many that can do that, as things get blurred. We are after all dealing with intimacy and that can have a huge impact on the way we feel.
max california (15-04-12)
It's a good question. I'll break it into two though. In my non working capacity at least since I started Escorting I have chosen to abstain from sex and do not have relationships or date. I would not date someone that I did not feel I liked and I am not a fan of one night stands, so no I wouldn't. Women are more emotionally charged than men as a rule though, again I realise this is not always the case.
Through my work most of the time I do not know the client well enough to have an opinion. I have no point of reference, as they don't tend to have a profile with anything other than a profile name and location on it. In this respect I am meeting with a blank page and I will only know if I like the person by the way they behave when they are with me. I tend to look on the positive from the off and assume I will like them and treat them like a friend, but of course sometimes you don't click and by the end of the booking I may realise that I don't particularly like them, but the saving grace with that is that I don't have to see them again.
If some one calls me for a booking and they they are rude, abrupt or are making assumptions about me that I don't like then I will decline the booking, because I don't think I will like them.
I hope that answers your question.
Last edited by CurvaceousKate; 15-04-12 at 13:36.
yes totally i know loads of ladies that act like bitches and would love to screw them they really turn me on and i feel like a challange to score them and then try and tame the beast that is inside
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Curvaceous Kate (16-04-12)
I love bithcy women. The bitchier the better. I love a woman thats demanding and controling, who knows whats she expects from a guy and is not afraid to demand it from him.
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