To Be or Not To Be (Erect)

[mrcumon]

i have a question for escort users out there.

Most of the times that i've been with escorts, when it is time to put on the condom, i am not fully erect.
Then when we get down to business, it's too limp.

My question is: when the lady does put the rubber sheath on, is it ok, to tell her to let me get fully erect first before it is put on? Is this common practice?

[client20150811]

Don't the girls usually ask what you would like? I'd speak up. Some guys seem to keep issues to themselves during appointments and then start complaining in reviews. Seems a bit unfair.

i have a question for escort users out there.

Most of the times that i've been with escorts, when it is time to put on the condom, i am not fully erect.
Then when we get down to business, it's too limp.

My question is: when the lady does put the rubber sheath on, is it ok, to tell her to let me get fully erect first before it is put on? Is this common practice?

[CoolJay]

Condom is a real wood killer for me,esp when the escort puts it on when im 30% and then trys to give me the 100% wood,it's really not going to happen,i dont feel anything from a bj with a comdom apart from pressure used by her mouth which isnt a nice feeling compared to no condom on, the good thing about me is tho im young and it only takes kissing to get me hard,but some escorts dont kiss so it's a problem for me sometimes.

I feel your pain

[MatureEbonyPru38F]

I assumed one only put the condom on when the cock was fully erect?

Although, if the client's time is running out and he is still isn't erect enough for a condom, what's the lady to do? Not attempt to put the condom on at all, because the client clearly isn't ready, then at the end of the paid for time, regretfully tell him his time is up? Then the guy leaves feeling like he was sent off on his way before anything happened.

But you can't polish the proverbial ...

The role of the condom as a passion killer is purely IN THE MIND. No where else. A guy gets that self fulfilling "Oh No" prophecy playing in his mind, and the wee fella obliges. For example, Cooljay refers to pressure used by her mouth. But that pressure would have been there anyway, because that's what happens when you suck ... it exerts pressure. And maybe some ladies suck a little harder when a condom is on, to be sure to by-pass the shutters the mind has imposed on the sensations. But how come a guy goes cross eyed with pleasure when a lady sucks as hard as she can without a condom, but then dismisses it as "pressure" when the same level of pressure is applied, but with a condom. Are we damned if we suck, and damned if we don't?

xxx

Pru

[mrcumon]

Thanks for the different answers. As for the condom itself, i don't mind wearing it and if an escort ever did not give me one, i'd ask for it anyway.

I think the reason for it myself is the lady wants the person out asap and when not fully erect, the act of intercourse will be difficult to do and then just move to the happy ending .

I am a bit shy so i think the next time it happens i will say, give me a minute until fully erect and then the condom may me placed on.

Thanks for answering my query. Anymore answers will be grateful also.