LaBelleThatcher (07-04-12)
I agree with you there, it is a stupid scenario, we go to see a lady, know in our hearts she is not what we were expecting but then the little brain kicks in, you think bollix, I only have an hour to spare which isn't enough time to walk away and find someone else so we say fuck it, inevitably our gut is right and then we blame the lady.
I much prefer to not review as how is a lady supposed to make us happy when we went ahead with the appointment for all the wrong reasons, shouldn't we take the blame. IMO if the lady isn't what you expected walk away, have a wank and leave an N/A review if there is serious deception involved and not if she just didn't tick the right box's for you in person. If you go ahead with an appointment when you are not happy when she opens the door then you have nobody to blame but yourself so keep you review to yourself..
Pinot (07-04-12)
WTAT (07-04-12)
I totally agree with you too...
I dunno why you guys don't have the little head amputated at times. If I booked a treat for me, got there and found out it was NOTHING like what it was supposed to be I would leave...ok, I am a bit of a moral coward so I would probably do a Paul Connelly and claim an emergency text from wife to be tactful...but still...
Banjaxed (07-04-12)
The truth is always better in these situations IMHO. Guys who do a runner with some obvious fake excuse are liable to scare escorts... Remember the escort doesn't know what's going on, could you be a reporter for example? So I think, tell the truth, simply tell the lady she is not what you expected for the following reason and so you'd like to leave it.
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very shy guy (07-04-12)
Of course you are right Pat, but I am pretty sure I couldn't look someone in the eyes and say that. I am terrible, as soon as it stops being political, as long as I don't lose temper I could "people please" for Ireland and bring home the gold, and NOT in a good way...maybe if I was a guy and had more testosterone?
How would someone know for surewhat happens between a client and an escort between closed doors?
Clients attitude vary with escorts, so even the bad ones can be nice sometimes and viceversa.
The nicest escort can have as well a bad day once in a while and viceversa.
So while I understand why sometimes we think some reviews are unfair, if we know one of the parties involved, the truth lies really only with the people directly involved. One can only presume based on personal experience. Previous reviews of both the reviewer and the escort could help sometimes to realise where the truth lies (like has the escort a constant trail of good reviews or is the reviewer leaving very often negatives).
The escort can give her own version of the truth on the negative review and if she comes across as genuine and honest, it won't be detrimental for her business. If anything, it's her chance to prove what a nice lady she is.
The reference system is an attempt to do that, a lady can check a users profile and see if other escorts have given him a reference, that way they can know he is not a raving axe murderer, not perfect but probably better than giving clients trust badges that are open to abuse.
Deven (07-04-12)