Why do men

[Mousey]

Brilliant troll thread Heather!!!

[UKHeather]

Brilliant troll thread Heather!!!

It's not a troll thread. There have been lots of good replies on it!

[ladytron]

No Lucy, I don't think I'm ok. Perhaps I'm at a point just at this moment where I'm questioning a lot of things about myself and about my life, and not liking many aspects of it, and I think that my punting might be one of those things. I'm not sure what punting has done for me, other than to temporarliy push away the lonliness and distort my own view of the type of women I'm capable of meeting/getting.

And in a strange and contradictory way, I also think it may have warped my perspective on how other relationships in my life have been formed, maintained, and approached. It's like ALL the relationships in my life are or have become fleeting and temporary, not unlike a brief visit to an escort. Not to mention how 'bored' I suddenly find myself feeling after only a few months with many of the non-escorts I've dated in recent years. It's like only one woman will NEVER be enough for me. And having the mentality that if I can't 'score' the type of woman I'd like-- I can just 'pay for' one instead-- can't be a healthy mentality, not at all...


So did punting 'make' me this way, or did it simply expose who I already was underneath? Who's to say? I'm just questioning whether or not this is or should be for me anymore, as it sometimes feels like there's nothing 'real' to it, and this fantasy world has done nothing but delude me into believing things about the world and about myself that just aren't true...

I don't think punting distorts your view; you've distorted your own view. You control you and you need to take responsibility for the way you perceive the world if you wish to find happiness.

I agree: relationships, people and friends come and go but that’s just the way life is. If you’re lucky a couple of relationships will last a lifetime.

the essential difference between escorts and other women is that you can build a future with other women; with escorts there is no future >>> that's the underlying truth you have to deal with.

escorts can do things for you other women can't do and vice-versa but you cannot have both in one: you need to do away with that expectation right now, and then figure out what it is you truly want the most.

Hope you sort yourself out bro

[Lincoln]

frequent message boards dedicated to prostitution?

I really want to know why you are all here.

I know of no other professional service which attracts men who tells the professional how to do their job, what to charge, feels they have the right to criticise the way we do it, professes to know so much about a job they themselves have never done, and then wants to how how we feel about it all!

Why do women in this job inparticular, attract so many weirdos.

Well it certainly has attracted some thoughtful responses Heather but as ever I find find myself somewhat irked by the blanket criticism of ALL the male punters here that seems to be implied here: "I really want to know why you are all here" "..attract so many weirdos"

However I will assume that was quite unintentional.

For me: Since my punting has dried up to virtually nothing I come here now to continue to express my thoughts and I hope my humanity talking about a punting lifestyle that I have vast amounts of experience of.

I don't know if that is of any use to you or elucidates anything.

[UKHeather]

Well it certainly has attracted some thoughtful responses Heather but as ever I find find myself somewhat irked by the blanket criticism of ALL the male punters here that seems to be implied here: "I really want to know why you are all here" "..attract so many weirdos"

However I will assume that was quite unintentional.

For me: Since my punting has dried up to virtually nothing I come here now to continue to express my thoughts and I hope my humanity talking about a punting lifestyle that I have vast amounts of experience of.

I don't know if that is of any use to you or elucidates anything.

Hi Lincoln
When I stated 'why you are all here' I was addressing it to all men here on the boards, not as criticism but questioning their reasons for being here using the forum. Who else would I address it to but all the men here? Hope that makes sense.
Yes escorts do attract weirdos it would seem. I saw a study a little while go which gave crime statistic comparisons based on prostitutes and secretaries. For instance, a prostitute is 6 times more likely to be physically assaulted than a secretary.
There have been some thoughtful replies. It's interesting. Thanks for yours and thanks to everyone else.

[Lincoln]

Hi Lincoln
When I stated 'why you are all here' I was addressing it to all men here on the boards, not as criticism but questioning their reasons for being here using the forum. Who else would I address it to but all the men here? Hope that makes sense.
Yes escorts do attract weirdos it would seem. I saw a study a little while go which gave crime statistic comparisons based on prostitutes and secretaries. For instance, a prostitute is 6 times more likely to be physically assaulted than a secretary.
There have been some thoughtful replies. It's interesting. Thanks for yours and thanks to everyone else.

Hi, I hope I don't appear like a dog with a bone here. It was merely the juxtaposition of the address to all men posting here with the observation that women working as escorts attract a lot of weirdos.

As I said I am sure any implicit criticism was quite unintentional.

And I thank you for your thanks.

[UKHeather]

Hi, I hope I don't appear like a dog with a bone here. It was merely the juxtaposition of the address to all men posting here with the observation that women working as escorts attract a lot of weirdos.

As I said I am sure any implicit criticism was quite unintentional.

And I thank you for your thanks.

My articulation is not the best..
Thank you, for your thanks for my thanks.

[Incognito]

My articulation is not the best..
Thank you, for your thanks for my thanks.

No no no.............


Thank YOU

[Crispinphlox]

I didnt grow up w weirdo, but drifted towards. i appreciate the proffessionalism of the few i meet, never would it occur to me to tell anypne hpw pr wpt tp do, i hope they always know more bout the job than i do, i never fart in mixed company, always pay my full fare and, occasionally on saturdays, i sit in the garden and wonder

[Incognito]

I didnt grow up w weirdo, but drifted towards. i appreciate the proffessionalism of the few i meet, never would it occur to me to tell anypne hpw pr wpt tp do, i hope they always know more bout the job than i do, i never fart in mixed company, always pay my full fare and, occasionally on saturdays, i sit in the garden and wonder

Who's been messing with your keyboard and moved the letters whilst you were in the garden ?