Why do men

[UKHeather]

frequent message boards dedicated to prostitution?

I really want to know why you are all here.

I know of no other professional service which attracts men who tells the professional how to do their job, what to charge, feels they have the right to criticise the way we do it, professes to know so much about a job they themselves have never done, and then wants to how how we feel about it all!

Why do women in this job inparticular, attract so many weirdos.

[peru]

Dear Heather,we are not all like as you describe{do not think i am a weirdo!]

[Cable87]

I wouldn't really know Heather; I guess I'm just another one of those 'weirdos' too. I used to think that I wasn't, that I could somehow be 'more understanding' of things than the next guy, that I could somehow gain insight into the lives of some of the ladies here-- but just recently I think I've really discovered that I'm not in any way special, and that I'm no different than any of the other weirdos out there. I'm just another lonely guy who needs to pay women to be nice to him, nevermind anything else. Sad and pathetic, I know, but I guess that's what and who I am.

[UKHeather]

Dear Heather,we are not all like as you describe{do not think i am a weirdo!]

I didn't say all men were..
If that were the case I wouldn't have lasted one week in the job.

[UKHeather]

I wouldn't really know Heather; I guess I'm just another one of those 'weirdos' too. I used to think that I wasn't, that I could somehow be 'more understanding' of things than the next guy, that I could somehow gain insight into the lives of some of the ladies here-- but just recently I think I've really discovered that I'm not in any way special, and that I'm no different than any of the other weirdos out there. I'm just another lonely guy who needs to pay women to be nice to him, nevermind anything else. Sad and pathetic, I know, but I guess that's what and who I am.

Hiya
It's more of a question about the boards than seeing escorts. Not that I have ever noticed you making posts griping about prices or prying into escorts lives.
Do you feel you gain or give from being here? Both? Neither?

[peru]

Neither,with your career it is just a sad fact that you will attract insensitive,thoughtless,brainless morons.I can't imagine the crap you have to put up with.

[Cable87]

Hiya
It's more of a question about the boards than seeing escorts. Not that I have ever noticed you making posts griping about prices or prying into escorts lives.
Do you feel you gain or give from being here? Both? Neither?

Well, you're right about me not contributing to the bitching that happens on the 'price threads'; I remember the 'good old days' when you couldn't find a girl out there charging less than €150 for 30 minutes. So you'll never hear complaints about prices from me!

As for the 'prying', I guess I've kept that reserved for my face-to-face meetings, if I've engaged in it at all. I guess you'd have to ask the ladies I've seen if they felt I ever asked them something they felt was too personal or inappropriate. I'd like to think that I haven't, but I suppose that's not for me to say, and in the end, I very well might have.

And that's where I am at the moment, I'm not really sure what I've given to or gained from being a part of the boards. And the more I think about it, I'm not all that sure what I've gained from punting, other than the brief thrill of temporarily being with the type of women that probably wouldn't give me the time of day under normal circumstances. I think all I've managed to do is fool myself into believing I'm a lot more than I really am, and fooled myself into thinking that any of those women I've met were in any way sincere to me. I'm just back to where I was as a teenager. But that's just something I have t live with.

[UKHeather]

And that's where I am at the moment, I'm not really sure what I've given to or gained from being a part of the boards. And the more I think about it, I'm not all that sure what I've gained from punting, other than the brief thrill of temporarily being with the type of women that probably wouldn't give me the time of day under normal circumstances. I think all I've managed to do is fool myself into believing I'm a lot more than I really am, and fooled myself into thinking that any of those women I've met were in any way sincere to me. I'm just back to where I was as a teenager. But that's just something I have t live with.

This part is quite sad to read. I do want to add though.. that fooling yourself into believing you are something you aren't is not a bad thing. Looking at it from another perspective, what is this except gaining confidence!
Mostly, you will find that unless someone is a completely cold faced businesswoman then escorts are generally warm, kind people. I would guess that if someone has appeared to be sincere towards you then she probably was.
I feel that aside from all the negatives of this job, I have met some good people and gained lots.

[hd7055]

UKH

I know of no other professional service which attracts men who tells the professional how to do their job, what to charge, feels they have the right to criticise the way we do it, professes to know so much about a job they themselves have never done

Every professional has to deal with this kind of s**t from time to time.

Hd.

[Cable87]

This part is quite sad to read. I do want to add though.. that fooling yourself into believing you are something you aren't is not a bad thing. Looking at it from another perspective, what is this except gaining confidence!
Mostly, you will find that unless someone is a completely cold faced businesswoman then escorts are generally warm, kind people. I would guess that if someone has appeared to be sincere towards you then she probably was.
I feel that aside from all the negatives of this job, I have met some good people and gained lots.

I'm not sure how fooling myself into thinking I'm something else or something more than I am can be seen as a good thing; if anything, it's simply exposed me as being delusional. And I can't say that any REAL confidence has been gained there, especially if it was all built of delusions of grandeur and 'purchased' as a part of the service, which it is, I truly believe.

I've said on other threads in the past that being treated nicely by escorts is and should be an expected part of the service, because afterall, I can get treated badly by women in any public setting, anywhere in the world, for FREE. And even if many of the escorts out there are 'nice people' in their heart-of-hearts, I can't help but feel that much (if not all) of the sincerity associated with the interaction is false, because one way or the other, that kindness was paid for, right along with the rest of it. I'd hardly get to be the beneficiary of that 'sincerity' or 'kindness' if I wasn't a paying customer.

I guess I'm just feeling a bit of regret and like the 'bubble' has been burst, the fantasy has been exposed for being exactly what it is, and I'm just not feeling good about that...