Why do men

[Stephanie]

pay for sex in any event its not free in marriage really at the end of the day and can be very expensive in the long run

no the whole escorting thing exposes the weaknesses in both sexes she for material possessions he for sexual gratification

i do actually believe in love but its not to be found here

I think --generally-- may it be in marriage or other relationships/arrangements women's aim is security..

financial security or otherwise..

[Curvaceous Kate]

never did get cashback from an escort ............... even though she said she enjoyed the sex

but i do see a marketing opportunity for those girls that cum during an appointment and offer a refund

lol I was thinking of charging extra as they drain me. What do you think? No? Bugger! lol

[Stephanie]

lol I was thinking of charging extra as they drain me. What do you think? No? Bugger! lol

LOL x

I wouldn't want to charge extra, as I rather enjoy it and wouldn't want to discourage the practice, but jeez, you're right..

it IS draining lol. I do sleep very well at night

[Banjaxed]

pay for sex in any event its not free in marriage really at the end of the day and can be very expensive in the long run

no the whole escorting thing exposes the weaknesses in both sexes she for material possessions he for sexual gratification

i do actually believe in love but its not to be found here

All it means is a consentual way to fulfill your fantasys and maybe learn something

[very shy guy]

Ahem. Until we kiss you, you are frogs..

Or langers or even twats Heather,lol.

[Julius Caesar]

Cos men are dogs looking for that mate in heat

[Stephanie]

I recently read a bit from the philsopher, Arthur Schoppenheur who wrote a lot on love. To summarise, he believed love was simple a trick of nature to get us to uphold the "will of the species" and reproduce. Attraction is simply us looking for a mate who we believe does not have the same shortcomings that we have, and we make our offspring better. The partner we fall in love with may only be the person we want to reproduced with, not the one we truly want to spend our lives with. This usually operates subconciously too, so we're not even fully aware of when it's in play and often end up married to the wrong people.

Not exactly riveting or new, but that's exactly where I believe the whole "sex: need or want" argument arrives at. It becomes a physical need at some points, certainly for men I think. Is paying for sex disrespectful to women, I would like to think not if it's conducted in the right way. As to whether it's unhealty or not in the long term, I personally believe that it is not healthy in the long term.

Banjaxed x

I just re-read your post. Excellent.

Biochemistry and pheromones etc play a huge part in partner selection.. It is all based on immune system compatibilities and genetic

imperfections. You do not want a mate whose immune sysytem is identical to yours = you'd want to combine two different

immune systems, threrefore affording your offspring a stronger chance of survival, same with genetic imperfections.

You know how certain people just don't smell good to you ? It's not that they are unclean, it is just that their body's natural

odor/aroma is not pleasing to you. That's your senses/pheromones doing the pre-selection of a potential mate..

A good, simple summary you put up, interesting to read it from a philosopher's point of view ..

[Banjaxed]

Banjaxed x

I just re-read your post. Excellent.

Biochemistry and pheromones etc play a huge part in partner selection.. It is all based on immune system compatibilities and genetic

imperfections. You do not want a mate whose immune sysytem is identical to yours = you'd want to combine two different

immune systems, threrefore affording your offspring a stronger chance of survival, same with genetic imperfections.

You know how certain people just don't smell good to you ? It's not that they are unclean, it is just that their body's natural

odor/aroma is not pleasing to you. That's your senses/pheromones doing the pre-selection of a potential mate..

A good, simple summary you put up, interesting to read it from a philosopher's point of view ..

My post was only a very condensed version of his works, I should emphasize, and there is a bit more in terms of the whole area of attraction which is linked to your earlier post about the ability to provide physical and financial security.

The most interesting thing is the reassurance Schopenhauer offered to those of us who get rejected - he believed that rejection was nothing more than the subconscious acting of these biological imperatives, meaning a person isn't necessarily rejecting you personally but it's a rejection of a lack of compatibility on a biological level. Although it's difficult to see what consolation if any that offers to you when your dream man or woman turns you down.

[bhoywonder]

i sarted coming here for the women first and then started reading the forums. could never keep up with what was going on as things moved fairly fast. tbh i could never fiigure out how people had so much time to post, guys who were eventually made mods, who were clocking up thousands of posts - definitely some sort of addiction. anyway back in the day it was very entertaining reading, with some very frisky exchanges. like someone else said if you go back a few years it was a completely different board. still you get the odd good thread appearing every now and then (like this one), so is still worth popping round every now and then. interesting aswell to see what is written on other forums bout here but you have to wonder about the idea of another forum that has been set up as a meeting place for banned users from here. can no one, even those banned, move on from here??

[El Gordo]

frequent message boards dedicated to prostitution?

I really want to know why you are all here.

I know of no other professional service which attracts men who tells the professional how to do their job, what to charge, feels they have the right to criticise the way we do it, professes to know so much about a job they themselves have never done, and then wants to how how we feel about it all!

Why do women in this job inparticular, attract so many weirdos.

Contrary to popular belief, there are really very few men on escort message boards. There are just a lot of profiles.


Why do I come here? Because I have some friends here. Fewer than I did, which is why I'm not here so often now, but still some.