Why is this illegal

[UKHeather]

In theory yes, but if they were trying to position themselves as a family friendly hotel for family leisure breaks, kids club etc., they might not be to pleased if their hotel gained a reputation for certain other activities. Like if Joe and Josephine Blogs and the two kids had their family room next door to Double D Dolly and she was going at with her clients rather loudly from sunrise until sunset, they might feel awkward trying to explain to the kids what was going on next door, particularly if they would too young to understand about the birds and the bees.

It's not just escorts and clients who have marathon sex sessions in hotels

[Curvaceous Kate]

In theory yes, but if they were trying to position themselves as a family friendly hotel for family leisure breaks, kids club etc., they might not be to pleased if their hotel gained a reputation for certain other activities. Like if Joe and Josephine Blogs and the two kids had their family room next door to Double D Dolly and she was going at with her clients rather loudly from sunrise until sunset, they might feel awkward trying to explain to the kids what was going on next door, particularly if they would too young to understand about the birds and the bees.

Read my lips Carlos lol. As long as they do not disturb the neighbours!!!! Anyone who is being a pain in the arse and an unreasonable time of night that prevents others from sleeping should be cautioned politely and if they persist asked to leave the next day. Considering an Escort worth her salt would be discrete and not want to draw attention to herself, she should be able to work within a hotel without having a beacon over her head saying 'I'm a prostitute!'.

We are like any other paying guest and as someone who is a frequenter of Escorts, I'm surprised you have not yet worked out that we are just normal people providing a service. (Well most of us).

[carlos marvado]

Read my lips Carlos lol. As long as they do not disturb the neighbours!!!! Anyone who is being a pain in the arse and an unreasonable time of night that prevents others from sleeping should be cautioned politely and if they persist asked to leave the next day. Considering an Escort worth her salt would be discrete and not want to draw attention to herself, she should be able to work within a hotel without having a beacon over her head saying 'I'm a prostitute!'.

We are like any other paying guest and as someone who is a frequenter of Escorts, I'm surprised you have not yet worked out that we are just normal people providing a service. (Well most of us).

Ah yes, I'm well aware that escorts are normal people, but even normal people can get very exuberant when in the throws of passion. I remember one lady in the UK got served with an ASBO some time back. Seemingly herself and the boyfriend/husband were at it at all hours of the day and night and the neighbours had difficulty getting to sleep with her dulcet tones.

I speak from personal experience here. I once babysat for a friend who is in the same line of work as your good self. She and another friend headed off to a club and brought two men back to the apartment at some ungodly hour. At that stage I went to one bedroom in the hope of getting a good nights sleep but lo and behold, one couple started shagging in the bedroom to the right of me while the other couple started shagging in the living room to the left of me........and these two ladies were of the vocal variety. It was like an orgy in stereo. Now I'm an open minded individual, but I was really looking forward to a good night's sleep on that occasion.

So ladies, when you're shagging away with great gusto, have some consideration.........it could be me in the room next door, and God knows, I need my beauty sleep.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Sounds to me like they were not working on that occasion and as such did not have their professional heads on, but were enjoying the experience for themselves.

I have to admit I can be vocal, so could be accused of being a little hypocritical, but that is why I don't take bookings after 9pm when I'm at a hotel. Hotels tend to be pretty empty during the day time, as most people are there to be in the location and not at the hotel, so it's not such a problem.

We do have brains though Carlos and we are capable of making these kind of choices, so we don't disturb the peace. Even then you have to be fairly careful, as the chamber maid will get suspicious if they see a succession of men coming in and out of your room.

[ksteve]

That's not a scenario which was being discussed is it?
Hotels where anybody stays regularly are open to giving a corporate rate.
Some hotels are escort friendly inasmuch as if you are quiet and discreet they leave you to it. Unfortunately, some ladies like to swan around and make their activities a little too obvious.

Well yes it is. There is defeninitely a body of opinion here that believes most hotels would welcome business from escorts. I used my extreme scenario merely to illustrate the point that I didnt believe that it would be policy of hotel management to encourage renting rooms to multiple escorts. They might be happy enough to 'turn a blind eye ' and facilitate the odd discreet lady but that is a very different proposition to deliberately providing an accomodative policy for prostitution. Many clients prefer not to visit escorts in hotels for the very reason that they fear hotel mamagement do not approve.
It actually would be interesting to get a read on this from the IHF, though I'd bet the enquiry would be politely ignored.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Well yes it is. There is defeninitely a body of opinion here that believes most hotels would welcome business from escorts. I used my extreme scenario merely to illustrate the point that I didnt believe that it would be policy of hotel management to encourage renting rooms to multiple escorts. They might be happy enough to 'turn a blind eye ' and facilitate the odd discreet lady but that is a very different proposition to deliberately providing an accomodative policy for prostitution. Many clients prefer not to visit escorts in hotels for the very reason that they fear hotel mamagement do not approve.
It actually would be interesting to get a read on this from the IHF, though I'd bet the enquiry would be politely ignored.

I don't really understand ksteve. I mean by saying this you are yet again singling us out. Hotels provide accomodation for anyone who needs it. Business men, people on holiday, people commuting, people just tired etc Surely an Escort using a room should be no different to any of these? As long as they book a room for use of 2 people and pay like everyone else and respect the property it should not have any impact at all. It should not even be a case of showing a blind eye and to be frank, I would not want to go to a hotel that actively encourages Escorts, as I don't want to be in an overly saturated population, otherwise I would be working in a brothel or parlour, which I do not.

This to me is the problem. Why can't people just accept Escorting as a normal job, with normal people doing the job in normal situations? Even if it was legal I would assume discretion is needed, as no one likes to have sex thrown in their face at inappropriate times and likely many men using Escorts while still married etc. It would still be done behind closed doors and in private and I still think it would be a job that not everyone could do, because it will still be a job that is very intimate and requires a lot of self control and professionalism.

That's my tuppence worth at any rate.

[ksteve]

I don't really understand ksteve. I mean by saying this you are yet again singling us out. Hotels provide accomodation for anyone who needs it. Business men, people on holiday, people commuting, people just tired etc Surely an Escort using a room should be no different to any of these? As long as they book a room for use of 2 people and pay like everyone else and respect the property it should not have any impact at all. It should not even be a case of showing a blind eye and to be frank, I would not want to go to a hotel that actively encourages Escorts, as I don't want to be in an overly saturated population, otherwise I would be working in a brothel or parlour, which I do not.

This to me is the problem. Why can't people just accept Escorting as a normal job, with normal people doing the job in normal situations? Even if it was legal I would assume discretion is needed, as no one likes to have sex thrown in their face at inappropriate times and likely many men using Escorts while still married etc. It would still be done behind closed doors and in private and I still think it would be a job that not everyone could do, because it will still be a job that is very intimate and requires a lot of self control and professionalism.

That's my tuppence worth at any rate.

Hi Kate.

me " singling you out " --- " again " ?? I dont know where you get this from ?

Personally, I have no difficulty whatsoever with the idea of visiting an escort in a hotel. I have even done a few recently !

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hi Kate.

me " singling you out " --- " again " ?? I dont know where you get this from ?

Personally, I have no difficulty whatsoever with the idea of visiting an escort in a hotel. I have even done a few recently !

Grrrr it's just as well I like you young Steve!!!! You know what I mean, you are talking about Escorts like they are different to any other clientelle who use the hotels, but we're not.

You woudn't have the conversation of... 'I can't imagine hotels encouraging farmers to their hotels, as they all smell of manure!' or 'I can't imagine hotels encouraging couples to their hotels, as they might row all night and keep up the neighbours!'.

See what I'm getting at? Anyone can be a bad client, or a bad guest or a bad employee, but don't assume due to the job that Escorts conduct their business any differently to anyone else when they stay at a hotel. On the surface they are no different, they blend in (or the ones that care do). If we become too obvious then we are not able to work, so why would we want to be obvious? Remember, the hotel room is not free, we have made an investment and like any other business person, we want to protect our investment and that also includes the reputation of the place we work at.

[ksteve]

Grrrr it's just as well I like you young Steve!!!! You know what I mean, you are talking about Escorts like they are different to any other clientelle who use the hotels, but we're not.

You woudn't have the conversation of... 'I can't imagine hotels encouraging farmers to their hotels, as they all smell of manure!' or 'I can't imagine hotels encouraging couples to their hotels, as they might row all night and keep up the neighbours!'.

See what I'm getting at? Anyone can be a bad client, or a bad guest or a bad employee, but don't assume due to the job that Escorts conduct their business any differently to anyone else when they stay at a hotel. On the surface they are no different, they blend in (or the ones that care do). If we become too obvious then we are not able to work, so why would we want to be obvious? Remember, the hotel room is not free, we have made an investment and like any other business person, we want to protect our investment and that also includes the reputation of the place we work at.

Now I really like you !

Jeez, I was accused the other day of 'despising ' street prostitutes ( complete rubbish btw ! ) , now it feels like people think I look down on escorts who stay in hotels -- WTF is going on ???

I LOVE INDEPENDENT ESCORTS WHO STAY IN HOTELS -- LOVE THEM AND BOOK THEM !! ( I accept I know nothing about street prostitutes , I never approached one. Mea culpa !!) .

[LaBelleThatcher]

You know what I mean, you are talking about Escorts like they are different to any other clientelle who use the hotels, but we're not.

Sadly, that factor, in itself, is confirmation of the fact that "there is always one".

On the whole though, escorts are good business for all these big, impersonal, hotels that are half empty most of the time.

A woman in control of the room almost always means less work for housekeeping for starters!

I did notice, in recent years, that a lot of hotels have started to charge a single price for the room rather than how many people occupy it (in the past they were always finicky that, even if a room had two double beds in it, the only people who set foot in it should be those who checked in...but that changed dramatically, I think, at least partly, because of tighter drink driving laws that changed the nature of much of the hotel market.

I think "trip advisor" can be invaluable...a quick glance will often tell you something about the character of an hotel (and, of course the quality of the management, which, after a really bad, non-escort related, scare, is a significant factor!).