Who benefits most from seeing Escorts?

[theqm]

don't treat being pissed so lightly! its taken me several euros and most of the day to get this far

Good for you sir
Having a few Budweisers meself this fine evening.

[very shy guy]

[QUOTE=CurvaceousKate;730738]This is what I'm talking about!!!! Do some guys just enjoy it and that is far as it goes, or do others really benefit from it. Could it be the first smile that has set on their face for days, weeks or months? Could it be the difference between depression and soldiering on with light at the end of the tunnel for some people?

Just read this from you Kate and there are plenty more posts to read,duty called and I left my computer on,you sure we have never met Kate?,I know we have not but by gum you sure hit close to the bone,and yes you ladies are a hell of a lot better than any anti depressents,to even have a cuddle and a smile with another human being is one of the greatset feelings going,yes I know there are the wham,bam thank you mam types,for some its not all about sex,for some its the closest that they will be to another human being in a physical sense for a long while,and agree that you ladies are not giving credit due to you,a big thank you to all the special ladies for all that they do for us,physically and emotionaly
By the way to me you made perfect sense Kate.

[very shy guy]

I have lived a good life …. No complaints
Have done all (well mostly) the things I aspired to do and had set out to do when in my tender years.
Travelled, married, had kids and was fortunate enough to achieve in some areas what lots could only dream of.
Then came the middle years ……… Fuck ….!!!!!!!!
I was blessed with a beautiful wife who bore me my offspring …… the loves of my life without question. Somewhere down the road I drifted apart from my wife for reasons not to be posted here, but was content that someday, sometime, somehow, maybe, the spark would somehow re ignite the flame that were once there.
Then came the dreaded middle years. These were the years when without any way of prevention I started to loose very close relatives and friends………. THAT’S LIFE …!!!!!!
It has changed my perspective on life.
I don’t wish to sound selfish ……. But that’s probably the most apt way to describe what I now do.
I stumbled across E-I around this time last year and believe me it has benefited me greatly.
It has kept me sane.
It IS a world of illusion / delusion depending on how you handle it.
To me its pure and utter fantasy.
Have met, befriended and contacted Escorts & punters that have helped enormously in getting me out of a deep, deep hole. …………Some here that I would consider good friends.
So in Short……………….. I …….have benefited ENORMOUSLY from visiting Escorts here

Wolfie its great that you made it out of that hole,and may you never slide back there,and I think Kate is right that some never do make it out with tragic consequences for those around them,even posting on here is a big help to some,its a sad lonely life for some of us on here ,so much so we even put up with that smug cat.

[wolfie]

Wolfie its great that you made it out of that hole,and may you never slide back there,and I think Kate is right that some never do make it out with tragic consequences for those around them,even posting on here is a big help to some,its a sad lonely life for some of us on here ,so much so we even put up with that smug cat.

That's true vsg. It's a story that echo's through these boards I'm sure. There IS another side.
Have to say THAT cat puts a smile on my face more often than not though ..... lol

[the traveller]

Wanna second the sentiments expressed by vsg and Wolfie. I too was in a very dark place after the break up of a very long relationship(grown up kids long).Seeing beautiful ladies helped me to get past that time and restored my belief in the opposite sex and, more importantly, my self belief. Some of my encounters have been purely sexual. But the most enjoyable have been where the conversation after has been so much fun and laughter. Ladies you know who you are and I wanna give you all a big thank you, you helped me turn my life around.

[Skeletor]

This is what I'm talking about!!!! Do some guys just enjoy it and that is far as it goes, or do others really benefit from it. Could it be the first smile that has set on their face for days, weeks or months? Could it be the difference between depression and soldiering on with light at the end of the tunnel for some people?



Another good point. It is surprising how even something as small as even a hug can make all the difference and make someone feel 'human' again. Make them feel worthy and lift their mood.

In many ways I really do think that Escorts should be on the National Health. I reckon there would be far less suicides, people would get throug blips in their lives and the world would be a far happier place.

From my own experience I found that sex (as a single person) completely lifted my mood. I felt like a tight spring had been unwound and I could see more clearly what I needed to do to help myself. For the moments after a good session, I would feel euphoric and totally unburdened.

I can see this in some of the clients I have met. Some of them it's stress from being over worked, some from stress at home and some have made me want to cry, because I could tell by the way they clung hold of me that they just wanted to be loved and I was the nearest thing they could find at the time to give all that pent up emotion to. That admittedly can be quite disturbing, but if seeing me (or any escort) is able to take away a little of that pain, even for a moment, then it is worth every moment. (in my opinion).

I guess what I'm saying is that people benefit from seeing us in many differnent ways and some are perhaps more life changing than others. In a way it is a shame that it is not affordable to all, but I don't think seeing Escorts should be taken lightly and if it was any cheaper, I think there would be a whole host of problems with it, where men use us a a commodity or a quick fix and don't forget addiction! I think we do a far greater job than we are given credit for and as it does deal with emotions to some degree, it shouldn't be done on a whim and accessible to all. The rates keep things into perspective.

Does that make sense?

a lovely post which says so much about u as a person more than anything else contrary to popular opinion some men are not just visiting escorts to get laid, like so many people I sometimes would love to cuddle and feel that closeness to a woman when feeling lonely a temporary desire to fill a temporary need Theres nothing wrong with wanting such intimacy without sex it dont make u weak then again I like others dont feel I want to be in a relationship & escorts fill that voiD
Wanna be my cuddle buddy?

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think most punters benefit from seeing escorts.

Single guys i would say benefit the most, mainly because i am single and when i want to see escort all i have to do is pick up the phone and make the call, dont have to make excuses why i will be away for a couple of hours to the wife or partner.I see escorts because it is easier for me than being in a Relationship.I am selfish that way i know but i dont wnt a relationship right know at this stage in my life i just want the sex full stop.

That's why I started swinging. I don't think it is selfish at all, in fact the reverse. I don't swing any more, as I don't need to now

[JSJS]

Speaking as someone who has low self esteem, is very concious about how I look and has no confidence when talking to girls I feel I have probably benefited most from seeing some extremely kind and very beautiful escorts. I am always nervous but have now had the opportunity to spend time with some wonderful people who made me feel better about myself. Although I still suffer the same fears you can't imagine how good it was to have a nice time, not be judged, hear something good about yourself and get some genuinely helpful advice.

Hopefully I wasn't a complete pain for them but on reflection I am sure these are not easy appointments since I am a bit clueless and I know I am almost frozen with fear when we first meet. Some of the girls have been very kind with their advice and even sent some follow up messages and texts which means a lot to me and there is absolutely no obligation to do that.

Thank you to the wonderful girls I have met.

[Martin41]

It's not helped by the ladies selling their souls to the devil with 50euro appointments either.

Oh well, God bless the devil and competition. Lol

[very shy guy]

That's true vsg. It's a story that echo's through these boards I'm sure. There IS another side.
Have to say THAT cat puts a smile on my face more often than not though ..... lol

I hate to agree with you about the cat but he is a cheeky bugger that does along with quite a few others makes this a fun place,we have enough doom and gloom around us.