Who benefits most from seeing Escorts?

[mer]

i dont think the reccesion has anything to do with the price haggling thats going on!! there was always assholes and there will always be assholes there is no shortage of assholes in the world

im not licking any ass now or anything but i would never haggle the price even tho i dont have a job i save up and go when i can. cause i know if i haggle the phone would be hanged up straight away and if they did agree to the price haggling well you wud just know b4 you even go and visit the escort that it wud not be an enjoyble time it wud be like well i dont not nice anyway lol so my quistion is what is the point of price haggling is it just to annoy the escorts and get your kicks out of wasting there time or what ?? im pretty clueless..

and clients say the price is too steep well fuck me sideways get a life yous , i know more than half of yous all have a job and probaly a well paid job too and your just a tight fecker!!

like for fuck sake i am on 100 a week and i can go when i want!!! it just means i cant go very often !!

ffs if i see another person complaining about prices i will personally stick my willy in your arse lol

anway back on topic

i dont know who benifits really but when i always visit a lady i always leave with a smile on my face and always leave a happy camper!!

anyway peace out and happy st paddys day

[EnglishAlex]

i dont think the reccesion has anything to do with the price haggling thats going on!! there was always assholes and there will always be assholes there is no shortage of assholes in the world

I didn't know you were an escort Mer. With all due respect darlin many of us have worked before the recession and are working here and now while things are quite bleak. There are more people haggling I'm afraid. There'll always be assholes, yep. They multiply as recession hits and sets in. Before, you'd get the odd chancer but now there are more and more who try to pay a little less once they get to the appointment. The cheek of them, standing there telling me what they think I'm worth. It riles the bloody life out of me. It's not helped by the ladies selling their souls to the devil with 50euro appointments either.

im not licking any ass now or anything but i would never haggle the price even tho i dont have a job i save up and go when i can. cause i know if i haggle the phone would be hanged up straight away and if they did agree to the price haggling well you wud just know b4 you even go and visit the escort that it wud not be an enjoyble time it wud be like well i dont not nice

Of course you wouldn't, you're a little darlin and you have respect for the ladies. That's why I respect you You understand that haggling gets peoples' backs up and wouldn't add anything positive to the appointment and you're right. It's just not nice.

anyway lol so my quistion is what is the point of price haggling is it just to annoy the escorts and get your kicks out of wasting there time or what ?? im pretty clueless..

You're not clueless at all. You've answered your own questions

and clients say the price is too steep well fuck me sideways get a life yous , i know more than half of yous all have a job and probaly a well paid job too and your just a tight fecker!!

like for fuck sake i am on 100 a week and i can go when i want!!! it just means i cant go very often !!

They need to get a life. Dead right. Even people with well paid jobs are at it. They offer a reduced fee then pull out a wad of 50's to give you the correct advertised fee. Sometimes I have to tell them not to bother and to leave, in some cases I just couldn't be nice after such utter lack of respect shown to me. Some people are just plain and simply TIGHT. They don't want to pay for the luxuries in their lives and they go round as if the world owes them a living.

You save up for nice little luxuries you'd like in your life and the tight arse crowd should take note.

ffs if i see another person complaining about prices i will personally stick my willy in your arse lol

anway back on topic

You go and wash that potty mouth out now young Mer. I'll smack that arse of yours red raw!

Ooops, topic. I don't even know what it is but you know how I love a price thread lol. Sorry for abducting your thread Kate, it's Mers fault

Benefit: All involved should benefit one way or another, or something aint right.

[Banjaxed]

Well, speaking for myself, I'm single and am contemplating seeing an escort to get as opposed to the bother of a long-term relationship, and feel I might be more comfortable and confident after seeing an escort. My emphasis however is on finding a girl who an escort of her own free will, and who is comfortable with it.

As regards pricing, I'm not going to attempt to tell anyone the price that I think the should put on their bodies (Psychical, mental, or otherwise). They are the ones who are on the frontline, who are carrying the more substancial burden, not me. There are plenty of alternatives if price or anything else is an issue.

So I'd like to think that both parties would benefit to some extent, though I'd say it is the client that benefits the most, then the escort and the likes of E-I.

[very shy guy]

Not sure if there is a specific punter profile Kate? I'm sure we come in all shapes, sizes, ages, social backgrounds and with vaying needs and differing emotional bagage. But clearly you the ladies, will know this first hand.

Is there a type of client that benefits the most? Not sure about that. I think any of us clients are lucky to visit escorts, and benefit accordingly from the experience.

I am with Morpheus on this,we are luckly to be able to visit beautiful ladies and leave with a smile on our faces,as foe who benifits,both parties.

[Skeletor]

I was pondering just now while in the shower and thinking about the 'price wars thing'. I know we are going through tough times financially at the moment (we all are) and feel this is probably the reason for all the haggling and disgust with regards to fees, even though in general terms the rates are going down and radically!

So, is this because the people that benefit most are the stressed, or is it guys who are in sexless relationships or the single guys who don't want to encounter bunny boilers? Who exactly benefits from seeing Escorts the most?

I definitely beneffited as a single person coming out of a r/ship where my ex was so stingy with affection and demanded so much in return for having sexual relations further visits to escorts allowed me to maintain my sexual identity as a man and reduce the level of sexual frustration I coudnt compare the benefit I get compared to the benefit of a monetary gain an escort recieves

[Curvaceous Kate]

I am with Morpheus on this,we are luckly to be able to visit beautiful ladies and leave with a smile on our faces,as foe who benifits,both parties.

This is what I'm talking about!!!! Do some guys just enjoy it and that is far as it goes, or do others really benefit from it. Could it be the first smile that has set on their face for days, weeks or months? Could it be the difference between depression and soldiering on with light at the end of the tunnel for some people?

I definitely benefitted as a single person coming out of a r/ship where my ex was so stingy with affection and demanded so much in return for having sexual relations further visits to escorts allowed me to maintain my sexual identity as a man and reduce the level of sexual frustration I coudnt compare the benefit I get compared to the benefit of a monetary gain an escort recieves

Another good point. It is surprising how even something as small as even a hug can make all the difference and make someone feel 'human' again. Make them feel worthy and lift their mood.

In many ways I really do think that Escorts should be on the National Health. I reckon there would be far less suicides, people would get throug blips in their lives and the world would be a far happier place.

From my own experience I found that sex (as a single person) completely lifted my mood. I felt like a tight spring had been unwound and I could see more clearly what I needed to do to help myself. For the moments after a good session, I would feel euphoric and totally unburdened.

I can see this in some of the clients I have met. Some of them it's stress from being over worked, some from stress at home and some have made me want to cry, because I could tell by the way they clung hold of me that they just wanted to be loved and I was the nearest thing they could find at the time to give all that pent up emotion to. That admittedly can be quite disturbing, but if seeing me (or any escort) is able to take away a little of that pain, even for a moment, then it is worth every moment. (in my opinion).

I guess what I'm saying is that people benefit from seeing us in many differnent ways and some are perhaps more life changing than others. In a way it is a shame that it is not affordable to all, but I don't think seeing Escorts should be taken lightly and if it was any cheaper, I think there would be a whole host of problems with it, where men use us a a commodity or a quick fix and don't forget addiction! I think we do a far greater job than we are given credit for and as it does deal with emotions to some degree, it shouldn't be done on a whim and accessible to all. The rates keep things into perspective.

Does that make sense?

[wolfie]

I was pondering just now while in the shower and thinking about the 'price wars thing'. I know we are going through tough times financially at the moment (we all are) and feel this is probably the reason for all the haggling and disgust with regards to fees, even though in general terms the rates are going down and radically!

So, is this because the people that benefit most are the stressed, or is it guys who are in sexless relationships or the single guys who don't want to encounter bunny boilers? Who exactly benefits from seeing Escorts the most?

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[UKHeather]

Haggling has always happened. The only thing that's changed is the numbers.

[Banjaxed]

Haggling has always happened. The only thing that's changed is the numbers.

Stupid question, but are escorts ever open to haggling? For instance for the seemingly rare non-sexual appointments?

[UKHeather]

Stupid question, but are escorts ever open to haggling? For instance for the seemingly rare non-sexual appointments?

Some have a different rate for 'social' appointments.
Some will accept a lower fee than advertised.
Some will negotiate.
So, yes.
Not me though.