Newbie. In a relationship. Need advice, experienced views and thought.

[Freshmilk]

Hi,

I'm new to the escorting scene. Well kind of Before I got with my fiancee I use to frequent a few lovely ladies from this site. Not because I had to but because it was handy. Choose a lady who looks amazing, offers the services I'm after and go too see her.

Now I'm with an amazing girl, who I do genuinely love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Our relationship is fantastic and we have a good sex life. The only problem is it's dawning on me that I will never get to be with another women sexually again and that's not something I'm too happy with. I have always being drawn towards mature women with a naughty side And there are a few of this site that I would love to be with.

But what does this say about me as a boyfriend? I have never cheated on my fiancee EVER and always prided myself on the fact I never have nor ever would. But now I'm so close to picking up the phone and ringing people for dirty, meaningless sex.

My question is how do the people who are in relationships do it? I'd imagine after the deed is done I would be overcome with a deep sense of guilt. Does anybody suffer such things?

Also people who engage in OWO do you ever worry about going home to your partner and heaven forbid giving her an STI. How selfish is it as a person to not only sleep with somebody on your partner but to engage in what could be risky behaviour that could have consequences for your partner?

For the girls, how often are you checked for STI's?

Thanks...FM!

[itstimenow]

if your in a serious relationship dont cheat.if you felt like cheating maybe you shouldnt of gottin yourself in to a serious relationship. you now are in control of two hearts dude and its not like you can just put one down and fuck off to a lady and then go back and pick the heart back up again. she has placed herself in your hands and you accepted ,if ya cant do the time dont do the crime bro

[UKHeather]

My thoughts are that the decision is yours alone. If your fiance expects fidelity and you are going to find it difficult to be faithful in your relationship then perhaps you shouldn't be in it. If you can't be faithful then let her go and find someone who can be.

[samlad]

Hi,

I'm new to the escorting scene. Well kind of Before I got with my fiancee I use to frequent a few lovely ladies from this site. Not because I had to but because it was handy. Choose a lady who looks amazing, offers the services I'm after and go too see her.

Now I'm with an amazing girl, who I do genuinely love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Our relationship is fantastic and we have a good sex life. The only problem is it's dawning on me that I will never get to be with another women sexually again and that's not something I'm too happy with. I have always being drawn towards mature women with a naughty side And there are a few of this site that I would love to be with.

But what does this say about me as a boyfriend? I have never cheated on my fiancee EVER and always prided myself on the fact I never have nor ever would. But now I'm so close to picking up the phone and ringing people for dirty, meaningless sex.

My question is how do the people who are in relationships do it? I'd imagine after the deed is done I would be overcome with a deep sense of guilt. Does anybody suffer such things?

Also people who engage in OWO do you ever worry about going home to your partner and heaven forbid giving her an STI. How selfish is it as a person to not only sleep with somebody on your partner but to engage in what could be risky behaviour that could have consequences for your partner?

For the girls, how often are you checked for STI's?

Thanks...FM!

If you get married, you'll only end up in the same boat as this fella:

[fiatpunter]

if your even thinking on visiting escorts which you cleary are by registering here

then you actually dont infact love her
i would call off the marrige

you should only be marrying someone who you love and that means thinking about them all the time, not even being able to look at another is this is not the case then you dont infact love the person

He probably does love her but he doesn't love her the way a woman believes he should love her.

Men find it easier to separate emotion and sex, many can love one woman and sleep with others because the two things aren't related.

Monogamy is unnatural, it is society's rule.

What is actually scarier about being married is only being in love with one person for the rest of your life. Falling in love is genuinely a wonderful thing.

[Quickdraw]

Just go and do it, I do it all the time, and I'm married, I still have a happy marriage, trust me, calling an escort and going down to an apartment somewhere in Dublin and satisfying yourself makes you feel great, you will honestly feel much better afterwards, there will be no guilt.

[UKHeather]

He probably does love her but he doesn't love her the way a woman believes he should love her.

Men find it easier to separate emotion and sex, many can love one woman and sleep with others because the two things aren't related.

Monogamy is unnatural, it is society's rule.

What is actually scarier about being married is only being in love with one person for the rest of your life. Falling in love is genuinely a wonderful thing.

I disagree about monogamy being unnatural and being society's rule. It is natural..for women!
Women want the father of their children to be monogamous, to stick around, to provide for her children and hers alone. That's nature for you.
If men can't do this for their wives and children they should stay single.

[UKHeather]

Just go and do it, I do it all the time, and I'm married, I still have a happy marriage, trust me, calling an escort and going down to an apartment somewhere in Dublin and satisfying yourself makes you feel great, you will honestly feel much better afterwards, there will be no guilt.

LOL Tell your wife that you have sex with prostitutes then come back and tell us you still have a happy marriage. That's if there is any internet signal in a cardboard box

[fiatpunter]

I disagree about monogamy being unnatural and being society's rule. It is natural..for women!
Women want the father of their children to be monogamous, to stick around, to provide for her children and hers alone. That's nature for you.
If men can't do this for their wives and children they should stay single.

what's that got to do with shagging other birds?

[Lucy Chambers]

Hi,

I'm new to the escorting scene. Well kind of Before I got with my fiancee I use to frequent a few lovely ladies from this site. Not because I had to but because it was handy. Choose a lady who looks amazing, offers the services I'm after and go too see her.

Now I'm with an amazing girl, who I do genuinely love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Our relationship is fantastic and we have a good sex life. The only problem is it's dawning on me that I will never get to be with another women sexually again and that's not something I'm too happy with. I have always being drawn towards mature women with a naughty side And there are a few of this site that I would love to be with.

But what does this say about me as a boyfriend? I have never cheated on my fiancee EVER and always prided myself on the fact I never have nor ever would. But now I'm so close to picking up the phone and ringing people for dirty, meaningless sex.

My question is how do the people who are in relationships do it? I'd imagine after the deed is done I would be overcome with a deep sense of guilt. Does anybody suffer such things?

Also people who engage in OWO do you ever worry about going home to your partner and heaven forbid giving her an STI. How selfish is it as a person to not only sleep with somebody on your partner but to engage in what could be risky behaviour that could have consequences for your partner?

For the girls, how often are you checked for STI's?

Thanks...FM!

If you are in love with someone it's probably not wise to start having any sex, paid or otherwise, with anyone else. Tends to spoil it. Also you will see people every day of your life you find attractive, there is a reason you chose your partner though. Unless you were just desperate, and jumped on the first wife material girlfriend you saw. So, unless you get off on risk, which will only get worse, maybe don't do it. Or, let the lady find someone else who will be at least initially monagamous and and you go off have as much fun as you can get

If you are in relationship its also unwise to practice any kind of unprotected sex, unless you feel able for the inevitable risk. As to how selfish someone maybe to do so, we all have our sins, its if you can live with yours or not that counts.

I'm screened often thank you. I hope you are too