Newbie. In a relationship. Need advice, experienced views and thought.

[Skeletor]

If you are in love with someone it's probably not wise to start having any sex, paid or otherwise, with anyone else. Tends to spoil it. Also you will see people every day of your life you find attractive, there is a reason you chose your partner though. Unless you were just desperate, and jumped on the first wife material girlfriend you saw. So, unless you get off on risk, which will only get worse, maybe don't do it. Or, let the lady find someone else who will be at least initially monagamous and and you go off have as much fun as you can get

If you are in relationship its also unwise to practice any kind of unprotected sex, unless you feel able for the inevitable risk. As to how selfish someone maybe to do so, we all have our sins, its if you can live with yours or not that counts.

I'm screened often thank you. I hope you are too

no disrespect but u cannot be sure that u are not carrying a STI if u are screened 'often' people who have sex with multiple partners irrespective of whether your an escort or not carry a huge risk of spreading infections furthermore more dangerous is the type of sexual services performed on each other the practice of OWO offered by escorts is in my estimation a very dangerous practice

[Cable87]

Im guessing you are in a relationship right now Cable

Well Lucy, with regard to that particular query, like the U.S. Military, I'm going to have to invoke the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy!!

[client030314]

LOL Tell your wife that you have sex with prostitutes then come back and tell us you still have a happy marriage. That's if there is any internet signal in a cardboard box

You seem to have very strong opinions about this Heather. Have you, or indeed any of the Ladies on EI ever turned away a client because he (or she) was married?

[Cable87]

You seem to have very strong opinions about this Heather. Have you, or indeed any of the Ladies on EI ever turned away a client because he (or she) was married?

Good and interesting question Leather, I'd like to see some of the answers from the ladies on this! But I have to imagine that if any (let alone ALL) escorts started on principle or as a general rule to turn away married men, their business would quickly slow down to a trickle! Perhaps there have been a few specific cases with special circumstances where this has happened, an if so I'd love to hear them as well!

[Julius Caesar]

OK here's my tupence worth I was married started seeing escorts loved it the best time ever but i was unhappy in my relationship now im in a good relationship and i couldn't be bothered seeing escorts cos im happily satisfied and i see sexy women every day. My point is if your happy sexually you wont do it if your not you will cos curiosity kidded the cat

[MR JOLLY]

Well as a regular visitor to ei and visitor to the lovely ladies up untill i met my beautiful missus 2 years ago, i have been faithful. although i like to log in once in a while and check out the new girls and see how the regulars are getting on i've never been tempted back to my old ways. i know if i do slip up and visit a young lady it will take something away from our relationship that i can't put back weather she found out or not, the fact that i know would be enough. but hey thats just my 2 cents.

[UKHeather]

wouldnt suprise me if he gets off on it

i once had a client come and nearly break down in tears about his wife cheating on him
then i started taking about her touching all these men and he blew the load, turns out the sob sory was just an act he wanted to fantazise about his wife fucking lots of men in there bed

Cuckolds are dirty buggers.

[UKHeather]

You seem to have very strong opinions about this Heather. Have you, or indeed any of the Ladies on EI ever turned away a client because he (or she) was married?

Of course not...But I would turn away a husband of my own who had sex outside of the marriage.

[mellors]

Sort of begs the question, why are you getting married if your fiancee isnt ticking all the boxes ? Seems a bit pointless to me.

[Julius Caesar]

Sort of begs the question, why are you getting married if your fiancee isnt ticking all the boxes ? Seems a bit pointless to me.

Yea the divorse will cost a fortune