Newbie. In a relationship. Need advice, experienced views and thought.

[Jackdaniel]

I think your a reporter!!!!

[Julius Caesar]

I think your a reporter!!!!

Fuck I gave him my email... kissmyassforfree@eircom.net

[Jackdaniel]

Fuck I gave him my email... kissmyassforfree@eircom.net

keeps bouncing back Jules!!

[Julius Caesar]

keeps bouncing back Jules!!

Ara sure his wife will keep bouncing back ... Lol ...fuck it drunk after watching the arsenal game... Right I'm off to see my sexy woman .. Bring it on baby

[Jackdaniel]

Ara sure his wife will keep bouncing back ... Lol ...fuck it drunk after watching the arsenal game... Right I'm off to see my sexy woman .. Bring it on baby

Enjoy Dude!

[Lucy Chambers]

no disrespect but u cannot be sure that u are not carrying a STI if u are screened 'often' people who have sex with multiple partners irrespective of whether your an escort or not carry a huge risk of spreading infections furthermore more dangerous is the type of sexual services performed on each other the practice of OWO offered by escorts is in my estimation a very dangerous practice

You are only as good as your last test anyway. I do have sex with multiple partners, which is why I take care of my own sexual health. I dont tend to force anyone to do anything old bean.

You can only actually be screened every three months for the big three anyway, they rest is taken care of with throat swabs. With all due respect, If you dont want to take a risk, then don't see escorts who offer OWO.

[wolfie]

. With all due respect, If you dont want to take a risk, then don't see escorts who offer OWO.

Simple as ..........

[Zan]

Hi,

I'm new to the escorting scene. Well kind of Before I got with my fiancee I use to frequent a few lovely ladies from this site. Not because I had to but because it was handy. Choose a lady who looks amazing, offers the services I'm after and go too see her.

Now I'm with an amazing girl, who I do genuinely love and want to spend the rest of my life with. Our relationship is fantastic and we have a good sex life. The only problem is it's dawning on me that I will never get to be with another women sexually again and that's not something I'm too happy with. I have always being drawn towards mature women with a naughty side And there are a few of this site that I would love to be with.

But what does this say about me as a boyfriend? I have never cheated on my fiancee EVER and always prided myself on the fact I never have nor ever would. But now I'm so close to picking up the phone and ringing people for dirty, meaningless sex.

My question is how do the people who are in relationships do it? I'd imagine after the deed is done I would be overcome with a deep sense of guilt. Does anybody suffer such things?

Also people who engage in OWO do you ever worry about going home to your partner and heaven forbid giving her an STI. How selfish is it as a person to not only sleep with somebody on your partner but to engage in what could be risky behaviour that could have consequences for your partner?l

For the girls, how often are you checked for STI's?

Thanks...FM!

I know where your coming from. I went through a really though year by loosing 2 members of my family within a few weeks of each other. My relationship wasn't great at the time. I was at the rock bottom Thinking of throwing in the towel. Going to leave the my partner didn't know what to do with myself. I saw a few escorts last year and to tell you the truth it was the best thing I did. It opened my eyes.A few weeks ago I realised I could have really hurt the people I care about, that was a wake up call for me. The guilt was nearly unbareable but i kept it to myself.thank God because there would be no forgiveness.Since then myself and my partner have never being so close.
After my long winded story My point being, if your happy in your relationship and dont think you could handle the guilt (which I think is very hard) DON'T CHEAT.

[Freshmilk]

I know where your coming from. I went through a really though year by loosing 2 members of my family within a few weeks of each other. My relationship wasn't great at the time. I was at the rock bottom Thinking of throwing in the towel. Going to leave the my partner didn't know what to do with myself. I saw a few escorts last year and to tell you the truth it was the best thing I did. It opened my eyes.A few weeks ago I realised I could have really hurt the people I care about, that was a wake up call for me. The guilt was nearly unbareable but i kept it to myself.thank God because there would be no forgiveness.Since then myself and my partner have never being so close.
After my long winded story My point being, if your happy in your relationship and dont think you could handle the guilt (which I think is very hard) DON'T CHEAT.

This is my worry! My own personal view is I couldn't cope with the guilt! It goes against everything I believed and I do really love her. Just at times fancy something different!

I think your a reporter!!!!

Well sorry to disapoint but I'm not!

the above advice is the best you will get..she deserves better than that is not worth the risk furthermore if your found out & should be so lucky & your partner decides to stay with u will never get back to the love u both once had for each other, trust is a very hard thing to regain once it has been lost

I agree. Also once I did it once it would be always easier the next time!

OK here's my tupence worth I was married started seeing escorts loved it the best time ever but i was unhappy in my relationship now im in a good relationship and i couldn't be bothered seeing escorts cos im happily satisfied and i see sexy women every day. My point is if your happy sexually you wont do it if your not you will cos curiosity kidded the cat

I was satisfied and tbh I still am. I just loved older casual sex with mature sexy women! My gf is the same age!

Well as a regular visitor to ei and visitor to the lovely ladies up untill i met my beautiful missus 2 years ago, i have been faithful. although i like to log in once in a while and check out the new girls and see how the regulars are getting on i've never been tempted back to my old ways. i know if i do slip up and visit a young lady it will take something away from our relationship that i can't put back weather she found out or not, the fact that i know would be enough. but hey thats just my 2 cents.

Again I don't think I could forgive myself. The guilt would be unreal I would imagine? It's just, and I'm going to be blunt here, I would love an hour of wild sex with a more mature sexy women!

Thanks all for your advice and input in anyway!

[1hand2balls]

I was in a similar dilemma myself not long ago and in the end took the plunge and haven't looked back to be honest! A lots been said above about not really loving someone etc if you're thinking of cheating but let's face it the services offered by the escorts are all built around the physical side of a relationship and in particular the lovely ladies here do things without being explicit that my wife most certainly would not entertain!

You only live once and I don't want to feel like I'm being rationed into what I can or can't have sexually and in my opinion most relationships have a fair amount of this, maybe not at the start but certainly as time goes on. I say get out there and have fun and most importantly don't dwell on it as lifes too short to be continually making sacrifices!