Aggie (27-02-12), DaithiMac (27-02-12), Lucy Chambers (27-02-12), saoirsemac (27-02-12)
DaithiMac (27-02-12)
Most interesting thread in a long time.....I dont really have any comment ....just wanted to say thx to all the ladies who responded to what is a very personal issue.....
David
Lucy Chambers (27-02-12), Morpheus (27-02-12), UKHeather (27-02-12)
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wow, u are proofing why this blog was wrote, this job is not all good u know! some of us can deal with and make our peace with it, others however cant and dont, she didnt ur remark is vile tbh,
i guess the truth often hurts, i share some of her feelings tbh and i aint the only one, however i do like what i do but chirst there is some plebs about
imho personal i believe she is been a victim, not but choice but life has sadly led her to this, not all of us will see ourself as that i believe the abuse she faced in the past ended up been continued in her escort career
but u have some nerve to say that about her, when in fact ye the punters are rather clueless about this life
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no more news thats all folks, it was a pleasure
Aggie (27-02-12), Anna23 (27-02-12), Curvaceous Kate (27-02-12), kelly curvybabe (27-02-12), DaithiMac (27-02-12), El Gordo (27-02-12), Rodney69 (28-02-12), Sexy Samantha British (27-02-12), UKHeather (27-02-12)
This thread has been making me think and it reminded me of a young Escort who I met last year. She is also involved in the BDSM scene and offers herself at a high rate offering submissive services. For some time she joined myself and a few others once a month holding party bookings and during one party she started to talk about the fact that she was in care for some of her childhood and abused.
As it was I was looking after a gentleman and as it was inappropriate and a bit of a mood killer I had to ask her to change the subject, but at the time I wondered if her involvement with BDSM was due to her start in life and her appeal towards older men. I do think the start we have in life is often a blue print to our future and be it right or wrong, we cling to what we know and understand.
Having said that, she never came across as a victim and appeared to be very much in control. She was and is a very intelligent young lady and had worked out how to use what she had to her benefit. Whether she was making the right choices for herself remains to be seen, but it was definitely her choice, as her boyfriend did not want her working and often tried to stop her.
I think Kate, that is exactly the point I was trying to make earlier. It would be interesting to see other professions and the numbers from care backgrounds that enter them or don't. I am thinking about group professions, poice force, army nursing etc. There can be no doubt that how we are brought up can have an effect on the choice of career we make and being abused or neglected can lead to certain choices. If we start as abused then we learn to rebel against it or to embrace it, it is the same with any trait. Therefore, again the question must be asked is DCG abused because she choose to be an escort and therefore abused in the profession (in her own mind certainly) or did she choose the profession because she was abused. I don't know the answer and I am lucky not to have to reflect on such influences on my own life, although like us all I carry my own baggage and it affects my choices.
I wish to make clear, that drawing conclusions regarding submissivity and escorting is out of order. I've been thinking about this topic a lot and the only conclusion that can be made is, that every case is different and has to be considered individually.
But, I know for sure that there are submissive people who would never do escorting and I also for sure know, that the VAST majority of escorts is NOT sexually submissive.
Please keep this in mind.
Thank you ladies.
It is heartenning to read such clear and unambiguous views expressed by such experienced escorts and well respected posters. I think it is so important that you and other ladies who hold the same beliefs make it clear to those who wish to destroy your chosen path, that your experiences are quite different in the main from those expressed by this unfortunate escort. We will also appreciate this as clients of escorts.
As someone who has visited escorts on numerous occasions ( and personally know others who do so also ), I just cannot identify with this notion of 'power trippers '. I hope and trust that the majority of clients feel the same way. I see the booking encounter as a meeting of equals, at the very least. If anything, I feel perhaps that the lady has the balance of power in the meeting and I have no problem whatsoever with that.
WRT reviews, my guess is that the vast majority of reviews are positive and written by guys anxious to show their appreciation for the wonderful time that he enjoyed with the escort concerned. Rather than being used as a power trip by some small men , trigger happy to get his hands on his keyboard at home to put down his escort, I would suggest that most reviewers do their best to accentuate the best aspects of the visit and not primarily in order to puff up their supposed egos.
There is little point in my commenting on this escort's blogs as I would need hours to do so properly. Judging from her past, I think her entry into escorting was doomed to fail from the very start. I wish her all the very best for the future and hope that she gets all the help and support that she so clearly needs and deserves.
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