Curvaceous Kate (19-02-12), WatWatWat (19-02-12)
Well, I've posted this thread in 3 different forums and actually have had very similar replies in all 3 places. My conclusion to this problem (as I do see anything that might lesson the experience as a problem) is to clarify at the start of the booking, what I believe to have been said on the phone when they arrive face to face and then we can agree again or put things straight before the time starts. That way there are no misunderstandings, no one is going to take the proverbial and no chance of misinterpretations.
It seems a shame to me to stop being flexible where possible, just because of one or two bad experiences and as it has never happened to me (to this extent before) it has never been something to consider. However the wonderful thing about mistakes or problems is that you can learn from them and it's what you take from that experience that matters more than the experience itself. We never stop learning and anyone who thinks they don't need to learn anymore is sadly very wrong.
mer (19-02-12)
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Personally Kate i would look at this as a bad thing,
1. The client may be under time constraints and as such has only booked the 30 mins or 1 hour.
2. Escorting is a business like any other, ultimately you as the professional should be aware of time and control the situation.
You know the time you have and you know the expected outcome and should make it happen on time .
I do however respect the topic
Thanks Beautiful for a useful post
Curvaceous Kate (20-02-12)
I have limited experience, but I booked for an hour and brought extra just in case. As it happened, I was late and offered to extend. She was booked so I went on, but I would have been glad to have been asked to stay. I lost all track of time anyways, so was also happy to be kept right in terms of when to wrap up. I'm in it for the fun, she's in it for the money, so as long as we're communicating and respecting each other I think it's ok to ask about extending.
Thank you for your input too. I tend to disagree with the comment that I have highlighted though. Not all men are the same and want the same thing. For instance, some men have no interest in conversation at all, where as others it is the most important part of the booking. Some men for medical reasons can not cum or even get hard and their pleasure is in making the lady cum. Some men cum too quickly and don't want to be touched at all until the very last minute, where others are able and enjoy a lot of hard core penetration.
No two men are the same and no two men are looking for exactly the same outcome. This could be discussed beforehand and I find the men that are really worried or concerned by it do volunteer the information, so you do know what the expectation is and of course it is then easy to act upon, whereas others prefer not to say anything, as they want it to be as natural as possible and go with the flow.
Now... If I am in total control of the booking and I am doing this my way, then I can pretty much guarantee my client will have come at least once in their alloted time, but... when the client has an agenda and seems to have his own set routine that they want to follow (perhaps slightly OCD) it is not always possible to steer them and by offering to extend, it does not mean you are saying they have to pay or or p*** off, but either pay up or let's bring this to the end conclusion that you want. So no different to saying, we have only 5 minutes left, how would you like to end apart from they have already had their time and you are allowing them a little extra to conclude in 'her time'.
With reference to a chap who is resricted by time. These guys tend to already have the mindset of getting straight into the booking anyway, as they don't want to waste time. I can't imagine a man who was short on time faffing about chatting about watching ladies bottoms in the gardens by their work place when they could be getting their hands on the sexy bottom next to them, can you?