I've always kept this my dirty little secret knowing that my friends and work colleagues would never understand. But to be actually reminded of how the outside world sees us punters, is depressing to say the least.[/QUOTE]
I don't think of it as a dirty little secret as wtf I'm single,too old to go and meet beautiful ladies in night clubs etc.and don't find ladies of my own age particularly attractive.What am I supposed to do?Live like a monk.I've told a lot of buddies and it don't worry them or me.There again, I'm not a church type person so don't carry that guilt around with me.