Is this acceptable........?

**longtipp** · 02-02-12, 22:55

All this talk about a text message ruining a marraige, if you are married and visiting escorts regularly, your marraige is already ruined. This is about getting caught.You cannot blame an escort for contacting you on the number you provided. As a punter you have to take responsibility for your own anonymity. I welcome an escort contacting me whenever she gets a chance, sadly it happens very rarely.

**Stephanie** · 02-02-12, 22:57

Originally Posted by anon361

As a married guy I can speculate with an amount of accuracy the damage an unsolicited text or call could do to a marriage given the right set of circumstances, so yes, I do think it's reckless of a lady to contact clients after an acceptable length of time, IMO 30mins max and she is playing Russian Roulette with peoples lives.

One might get away with an off the cuff excuse if questioned about who was calling or texting at a certain time to an unsuspecting wife but to a suspicious wife or one that is already checking up on her husband it could be very very damaging, no matter how discreet a lady might be when she answers her phone, should a wife call the number and a lady answers is she really going to believe nothing is going on when she has already escalated her suspicions to calling numbers back?

With all due respect, Anon xx

In my very humble opinion it is the punter who is playing Russian Roulette with his own life if he is being

careless with his information/privacy.

It should NEVER happen that a wife should call back. It is YOUR responsibility for your own self to not allow

yourself to get into a situation like that. You/we are all adults. It is called personal responsibility -- for our own actions,

for our own choices. You cannot pass the buck and blame an escort if you get found out.

It is YOUR department to guard your own safety and happiness.

At the same time I'd emphasize that unsolicited texts/calls are way out of line, and unacceptable/unforgivable.

**anon361** · 02-02-12, 22:59

Originally Posted by longtipp

All this talk about a text message ruining a marraige, if you are married and visiting escorts regularly, your marraige is already ruined. This is about getting caught.You cannot blame an escort for contacting you on the number you provided. As a punter you have to take responsibility for your own anonymity. I welcome an escort contacting me whenever she gets a chance, sadly it happens very rarely.

Would that be rarer than you review

Lets leave your uneducated opinions about marriage until you have experience about what your talking about because as a single guy you have none...

**Wildthang** · 02-02-12, 23:02

Originally Posted by Stephanie

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...=punting+phone

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...t=71965&page=2

My responsibility is to be a polite, punctual, courteous, and enthusiastic discreet companion

.

Your responsibility is to not fall in lust/love and to guard your privacy (punting phone/sim) !!!

I do my part. Do you do yours ?

xx

There's that word "descreet" again . Alot of people use it but don't actually put it into practice!!! Also in the escort/punters world isn't it the escort that is classed as the professional ?

P.s History has proved tht escorts can and are unprofessional .

**longtipp** · 02-02-12, 23:06

Originally Posted by anon361

Would that be rarer than you review

Lets leave your uneducated opinions about marriage until you have experience about what your talking about because as a single guy you have none...

You have me on the reviews, but the majority of my punts were before joining here (dammed recession). But if I thought it was ok to have sex with other women while married I'd have got married long ago.

**anon361** · 02-02-12, 23:08

Originally Posted by Stephanie

With all due respect, Anon xx

In my very humble opinion it is the punter who is playing Russian Roulette with his own life if he is being

careless with his information/privacy.

It should NEVER happen that a wife should call back. It is YOUR responsibility for your own self to not allow

yourself to get into a situation like that. You/we are all adults. It is called personal responsibility -- for our own actions,

for our own choices. You cannot pass the buck and blame an escort if you get found out.

It is YOUR department to guard your own safety and happiness.

At the same time I'd emphasize that unsolicited texts/calls are way out of line, and unacceptable/unforgivable.

and with all due respect Stephanie that's a careless attitude, is it not better for both parties to look out for each other, is it acceptable for me to turn up and start banging on your door unannounced and assume that you are in an escort friendly location, discretion works both ways, if it were the case that we each should look after our own well being then my scenario would be acceptable and the ladies fault for not selecting a more discreet location..

**anon361** · 02-02-12, 23:12

Originally Posted by longtipp

You have me on the reviews, but the majority of my punts were before joining here (dammed recession). But if I thought it was OK to have sex with other women while married I'd have got married long ago.

You are entitled to your opinion but not your condemning tone until you are aware of all the facts, not all marriages are in ruin just because the husband sleeps with escorts, the argument could be made some are even happier because of it but that's for another thread..

**Stephanie** · 02-02-12, 23:15

Originally Posted by anon361

and with all due respect Stephanie that's a careless attitude, is it not better for both parties to look out for each other, is it acceptable for me to turn up and start banging on your door unannounced and assume that you are in an escort friendly location, discretion works both ways, if it were the case that we each should look after our own well being then my scenario would be acceptable and the ladies fault for not selecting a more discreet location..

Anon xx,

I am not suggesting that either of us should be recless with the other

I am simply saying that if you have anything to lose, than please be careful and take care of your privacy xx

(Which very smartly, you do : punting SIM that you use only for limited time etc

)

**longtipp** · 02-02-12, 23:18

Originally Posted by anon361

You are entitled to your opinion but not your condemning tone until you are aware of all the facts, not all marriages are in ruin just because the husband sleeps with escorts, the argument could be made some are even happier because of it but that's for another thread..

What I mean to condem is blaming the escort for replying. Regarding unfaithfulness I'd have to throw the first stone. I havn't yet met the woman that I'd give up all others for.

**Stephanie** · 02-02-12, 23:19

Originally Posted by Wildthang

There's that word "descreet" again . Alot of people use it but don't actually put it into practice!!! Also in the escort/punters world isn't it the escort that is classed as the professional ?

P.s History has proved tht escorts can and are unprofessional .

I don't doubt that there are plenty of unprofessional/indiscreet escorts out there xx

All the more reason for punters to be vigilant about their own privacy

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