Is this acceptable........?

[Big-Paul]

With all due respect, Anon xx

In my very humble opinion it is the punter who is playing Russian Roulette with his own life if he is being

careless with his information/privacy.

It should NEVER happen that a wife should call back. It is YOUR responsibility for your own self to not allow

yourself to get into a situation like that. You/we are all adults. It is called personal responsibility -- for our own actions,

for our own choices. You cannot pass the buck and blame an escort if you get found out.

It is YOUR department to guard your own safety and happiness.


At the same time I'd emphasize that unsolicited texts/calls are way out of line, and unacceptable/unforgivable.

I think on balance people in general don't fully consider the consequences of the choices we make on a daily basis can have on ourselves and indeed those around us,it is without doubt every individuals own responsibility to look after their own security let them be single married or in a relationship and not put their trust in others to do it for them.Most escorts behave in a responsible manner when it comes to phoning or texting and understand the consequences that an unsolicited call of text could cause but as in any line of business there is always one who will cross the line,so why should a punter run the risk of the one less than scrupulous lady sending a text hours later or on spec by not protecting himself by having a separate sim or phone,its plain old fashioned common sense except common sense isn't that common apparently.
Married guys or guys in a relation ship are indeed playing Russian roulette not only with their own lives put that of their partners as well even more reason to take responsibility and manage their information in a responsible manner,same applies to single guys I know my self that there are people that I don't want to know what I do or who I see in private.
All that being said I personally think it is unacceptable for an escort to text a punter hours later I think there is a window of about 30 minutes or so but after that no

[olddantucker]

This is a situation as a punter you put yourself into !
So this you must take precautions against,

How about saving a persons name " say john **** " and save as a pretend work contact !
So this way IF you get an unwanted txt and is seeing by wrong Eyes you can say it was not ment for you!!

Just a thought !

[Rodney69]

It was for this reason I registered back when I did. I was fed up making phone calls, and then having to wait, wondering if I'd get a reply or not. Since registering my first contact is always via PM, usually a couple of days in advance.

When sending a text, I state that it is OK to txt back or ring once anytime. Then I can call back. Escorts that know me, know it is OK to contact me.

I do think Bacman that since you called and didn't leave any message at all, unless it was an escort you knew already and knew your circumstances, the very most they should have done was phone and let it ring once.

[Wildthang]

I don't doubt that there are plenty of unprofessional/indiscreet escorts out there xx

All the more reason for punters to be vigilant about their own privacy

Like any trade or skill ! People need to be educated/learn their trade.

New punters don't realise the world they are entering into and can make mistakes.... But an established escort should know better.

Also I love the way people say escorts are returning missed calls to be polite !!!!! Are they fuck.... They are returning missed calls simply to get a possible booking and at the end of the day it's exactly that, so to them it's win win .

[Lincoln]

I don't doubt that there are plenty of unprofessional/indiscreet escorts out there xx

All the more reason for punters to be vigilant about their own privacy

Seems to me that there is the VERY OCCASSIONAL indiscreet or ill-timed text from an escort to a punter. I don't think it warrants lots of allegations of unprofessionalism or oblique references to historical incidents. Girls working in the life no more want heat down on them or unwelcome scrutiny or attention and they won't go lookin for it. Married men need to chill out a little bit in this regard I think.

All parties just need to exercise a modicum of care when going about their business.

[Lincoln]

Like any trade or skill ! People need to be educated/learn their trade.

New punters don't realise the world they are entering into and can make mistakes.... But an established escort should know better.

Also I love the way people say escorts are returning missed calls to be polite !!!!! Are they fuck.... They are returning missed calls simply to get a possible booking and at the end of the day it's exactly that, so to them it's win win .

With all due respect lad punters are the first to whinge about cancelled appointments without warning etc.

Also why shouldnt a girl doing this job want to get paid?

IMHO those were pretty facile points.

[Big-Paul]

With all due respect lad punters are the first to whinge about cancelled appointments without warning etc.

Also why shouldnt a girl doing this job want to get paid?

IMHO those were pretty facile points.

It is indeed the nature of any business to strive to make a profit.

[jimbobbins]

With all due respect lad punters are the first to whinge about cancelled appointments without warning etc.

That's a fair point. If an escort realises four hours before an appointment that she won't be able to make it is she supposed to contact the client or not? Should she wait until 30 minutes before the appointment and warn him when he may already be on the way?

Jimbob

[Wildthang]

With all due respect lad punters are the first to whinge about cancelled appointments without warning etc.
Also why shouldnt a girl doing this job want to get paid?
IMHO those were pretty facile points.

I think they tend to whinge more in relation to the breakdown of a possible booking ! More so than the fact the lady wasn't polite and didn't answer the initial call.

No one said they shouldn't be paid.... You made reference to that?

[Lucy Chambers]

I think they tend to whinge more in relation to the breakdown of a possible booking ! More so than the fact the lady wasn't polite and didn't answer the initial call.

No one said they shouldn't be paid.... You made reference to that?

Wildy Widly, Wildy.

There you go with those generalisms again. Whats on your mind sweetie? None of it applies to me anyway because I never text, and I think we both know the likelihood of me caring about missing a booking but enlighten me, Whats rattled Wildys cage?