Is it worse to punt when you are single or married?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

[Wildthang]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

Dont see the rreson to punt if one is single. the advatage about punting while in a realationship is because it keeps things simple and strictly business.

If I was single i would never punt....... makes no sense.

[Notatwork]

Single........if you have to resort to paying for your hole wheb single you need a new game plan but if your single and you want a seriously good shag,duo,threeo,four O......WHATEVER.......THEN ITS COOL......also if your girlfriend is IRISH......welcome on board.....

[Morpheus]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

I am single, never married, and I see escorts. (Sounds like an AA meeting!)


I see escorts because I couldn't pull even if I wanted to.

And with the lovely ladies on this site, can you blame me for wanting to see escorts?

And I don't feel embarassed for doing it. (Although I certainly don't want my work, family etc.. finding out. But thats natural).

And I've never made excuses when going to see an escort. What's there to justify. Money and time well spent.

[benin]

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

my normal reply would be married (and im married) but it seems the wost thing to do is punt and post about it if your a mod.

[Prickly]

I am single, never married, and I see escorts. (Sounds like an AA meeting!)


I see escorts because I couldn't pull even if I wanted to.

And with the lovely ladies on this site, can you blame me for wanting to see escorts?

And I don't feel embarassed for doing it. (Although I certainly don't want my work, family etc.. finding out. But thats natural).

And I've never made excuses when going to see an escort. What's there to justify. Money and time well spent.

What he said...

[max california]

I'm single and I punt.
When I started I probably was a little bit like in the OP but I'm gone beyod that stage now.
I just find it less complicatedalthough if I start a relationship, I will try to quit.

[Notatwork]

I am single, never married, and I see escorts. (Sounds like an AA meeting!)


I see escorts because I couldn't pull even if I wanted to.

And with the lovely ladies on this site, can you blame me for wanting to see escorts?

And I don't feel embarassed for doing it. (Although I certainly don't want my work, family etc.. finding out. But thats natural).

And I've never made excuses when going to see an escort. What's there to justify. Money and time well spent.

Escorts is the last of your worries pal.......you know it too....sort it......

[doodlebug]

I started seeing escorts after the end of a relationship that affected me deeply. Seeing escorts allowed me to feel whole again. I am single and not embarrassed about being a client. While I suspect I could pull if i really wanted to, I don't do the pub and club scene so seeing escorts allows me to enjoy some intimate female company without a lot of hassle. When I am in a relationship again I won't see escorts for sex, not saying I won't see a few for their company as most of them are awesome people, OP included.

[beniktt]

I am single now was married now divorced. For me seeing an Escort is a situation of no agenda no ties just an hour of fun and fantasy. No complications in seeing someone for sex is ok for me. And when I feel the need I just pick up the phone and make the booking it's all very simple. I suppose depending on the age of the single person is where they may feel embarrassed but if us guys didn't have the urges to be with you fabulous Ladies here you wouldn't be here in the first place. Life is about having fun and this is just part of it.