Is it worse to punt when you are single or married?

**blue8671** · 22-01-12, 19:02

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Don't ask me why, but it seems to me that guys that punt when they are single seem to feel more embarrased about it than the ones that are married. You get the 'I could pull if I wanted to, I just don't want the hassle' conversation and they don't seem to be able to just enjoy themselves without explaining.

Guys, have any of you punted in both situations and which made you feel worse or did it not bother you either way? Does it feel more acceptable to be doing it due to 'fill a gap' in your marriage than be single and supposedly able to sow your wild oats when ever you want to yet still seeing an Escort?

Discuss...

Its perfectly simple when married guys like myself visit a escort it's a terrible betrayal of your partner and we have to be prepared to accept the consequences if our activites are discovered. For a single guy he can punt without having to worry about the effects on anyone else. I cannot see why they would be nervous as to be honest when you meet a escort for the first time everyone I assume has the same nerves.

And it would not matter if I was single or married there is no possible way I would ever have the chance to be intimate with such beautiful women if they were not escorts.

**Curvaceous Kate** · 22-01-12, 19:09

Originally Posted by blue8671

Its perfectly simple when married guys like myself visit a escort it's a terrible betrayal of your partner and we have to be prepared to accept the consequences if our activites are discovered. For a single guy he can punt without having to worry about the effects on anyone else. I cannot see why they would be nervous as to be honest when you meet a escort for the first time everyone I assume has the same nerves.

And it would not matter if I was single or married there is no possible way I would ever have the chance to be intimate with such beautiful women if they were not escorts.

You don't think that they also worry about family, friends, their reputation and future girlfriends?

You are actually not getting what I said either to be honest, as I was talking about guys feeling they have to explain to the escort that they don't have a problem getting ladies if they want to and feel like they have to justify why they are seeing her. It's not about the guilt thing, as much as justifying using an Escort instead of finding someone for free. A married man does not have to worry about this, because it is obvious he is not looking for free sex as this would look worse on him.

**mellors** · 22-01-12, 19:34

To be honest I'm not sure it is necessarily only to do with escorts. Like I say, I'm a guy in my 40s and alot of people cant get their heads round you being single. Friends even,ask, dont you get lonely (no) dont you miss being in a relationship (no) etc etc. I'm sure its the same for younger guys aswell, this sort of thinking that everybody has to have a partner and that you couldn't possibly be happy being single. So you do sometimes end up justifying yourself (I also get it from younger escorts aswell by the way)

**jay67** · 22-01-12, 19:45

what morph said

, well said, as usual too morph

jay67

**mer** · 22-01-12, 19:57

Originally Posted by mellors

To be honest I'm not sure it is necessarily only to do with escorts. Like I say, I'm a guy in my 40s and alot of people cant get their heads round you being single. Friends even,ask, dont you get lonely (no) dont you miss being in a relationship (no) etc etc. I'm sure its the same for younger guys aswell, this sort of thinking that everybody has to have a partner and that you couldn't possibly be happy being single. So you do sometimes end up justifying yourself (I also get it from younger escorts aswell by the way)

yep there all like that , they always say to me how come your still single lol would they ever just mind there own business pmsl

**jay67** · 22-01-12, 19:59

see saoirse's "nosey" thread

jay67

**Curvaceous Kate** · 22-01-12, 20:01

Originally Posted by mer

yep there all like that , they always say to me how come your still single lol would they ever just mind there own business pmsl

Don't be daft, we're women!!!!

**very shy guy** · 22-01-12, 20:12

For ffs WWW do not let benny catch you at his sheep,any funny looking lambs benny?,lol.

**mer** · 22-01-12, 20:26

Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate

Don't be daft, we're women!!!!

ahh im only pulling your leg hun

lol thought id bring a bit humour into this rather serious thread lol

**Forrest** · 22-01-12, 20:35

Morally, it is worse for someone in a relationship to visit escorts, as it is a breach of trust to their partner.

Single guys should have no reason to feel guilty, imo.

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