Anyone ever taken an escort out of Escort work?

[Julius Caesar]

This is just my opinion.

Anyone that says a relationship with an escort and client cannot ever work is an idiot or at the very least very cold hearted.

Now while escorts are doing there job for money yes they are still humans, still normal women and can develop feelings. Most of the time an escort will ignore and dismiss those feelings for the sake of professionalism but sometimes she won't or can't.

I feel some people here are far to cynical. Escort/Client relationships have happened, will keep happening and can work.

The subject of whether an escort should/will quit her job is another story all together. I believe ever man who goes into a relationship with an escort should do so knowing that there is the strong chance an escort will not quit her job. Most escorts see there job as nothing but that- work. It is not personal just professional. If as a man you cannot begin to imagine your girlfriend working as an escort you are better off not going there.

A woman is not just attached to her job- it is about her independence and by asking her to quit that is asking a lot. Remember a lot of escorts have goals and aims and this job is about reaching them. By asking her to quit her job is like asking her to give up her goal be it a house, car or anything. That is a lot to do for a relationship that may go no where.

Lastly I'll say this. Whilst I do believe escorts and clients can occasionally develop feelings for each other. We are human after all. I resent the idea that there are men out there targeting escorts for friendships and relationships. It has been said before and I'll repeat. This isn't a dating site. Drinks for free?? That will generally offend. Do not go into this scene looking for a partner as you'll more than likely just end up with a lot of angry escorts.

Amber x

Well said Amber there nothing like an escort saying it as it is

[TomEA]

Wow, that is some number of replies and thank you all for your patience & understanding with a first time poster. The responses to far while divided have been very informative & it's great to see both sides of the argument!!

Let me just clarify a couple of things from my situation:

1. I'm 32 years old.
2. As a previous poster has stated, sometimes meeting an escort and paying for sex is so much easier than going to the pub on the off chance of meeting a girl, who you might find attractive or not, and who might sleep with you (I'm speaking from a purely male perspective). An escort is much more straight forward.
3. I understand it's a job for an escort but each escort has their own reasons for escorting.


Anyway enough diatribe, we come gone crux of the matter -

An escort I started to see (not reviewed by me, I don't like to leave reviews unless pushed) regularly has told me she cares a lot about me. Both sides of his would be it's a set up/ maybe she means it. So she explains to me why she's escorting - pays the bills while she is studying during the day (again true/false - mature student 25+, not a teenager etc). She says when she qualifies, no more escorting. So we've been out on dates, cinema/zoo/pub etc. And all has been great. She has now started to talk about a future for us after she qualifies (again it's not like it's Pretty Woman here).

I'm now at the stage of wondering is this real? Is she being honest or am I being taken for a ride (doesn't feel like it, but again a good escort knows how to make a man happy!!) I have all the usual doubts, would she give it up,could I ever wrap my bead around what she's doing when she's "at work" and then the one where she meets my friends and we've to explain how we've met etc (that'd be some tall tale).

Anyway sorry for sounding like a problem on Ray D'Arcy but again all comments welcome by reply or dm!!!

Personally mate, if think she is being serious. GO FOR IT. If you like each other, there is no reason it can't work...if not you will always wonder what if.

If you have problems with her work on the other hand, and don't think you could wrap your head around it, I would say do not go for it, you will save both yourself and her a lot of trouble and strife.

At the end of the day....Only you two can decide if its worth it. Sit down with her, have a proper chat about it

[MrNiceGuy2010]

Thank you. Time will tell.. Im willing to take the chance even if it turns into an epic fail in the future. You just gatta take a leap of faith sometimes..

thats it, if the shit fits wear it

[TomEA]

thats it, if the shit fits wear it

Knew you were into scat!! lol

[MrNiceGuy2010]

Knew you were into scat!! lol

ha ha i'm the scat man, nah just joking.Remember that song, fucking hell, scat man was right cause it was shite lol.That sort of music was bad for the soul

[Jeff21]

In my 10 years of appointments there are only 2-3 that i would have a personal relationship with, and yes we all know that escorts want u in then out asap but its always good for the ones that keep intouch, when u log in and get an unexpected "hi how are u" and not looking to make an appointment, just a friendly catch up. thats what is lacking today, after sales service ! :-)

[Morpheus]

This is just my opinion.


Lastly I'll say this. Whilst I do believe escorts and clients can occasionally develop feelings for each other. We are human after all. I resent the idea that there are men out there targeting escorts for friendships and relationships. It has been said before and I'll repeat. This isn't a dating site. Drinks for free?? That will generally offend. Do not go into this scene looking for a partner as you'll more than likely just end up with a lot of angry escorts.

Amber x

FFS!!!! After wasting my time on this site for over a year, I finally find out this isn't a dating site!!!!!

Bollocks to that!!!

I should have known something was fishy! I spend money on the ladies on this site and end up having great sex!

With other dating sites I spend money on the ladies but don't get any sex!!!

[Morpheus]

falling in love is not something that you can plan

This is just my opinion.

I feel some people here are far to cynical. Escort/Client relationships have happened, will keep happening and can work.

Amber x

I think that's the truth of it.

While both escorts and clients alike may have no intention of starting relationships, these things do happen.

And while it is good to be cautious and compartmentalize - people can and do fall in love in any situation.

I'll bet there is a whole lot of loving going on, that the majority of us are oblivious to! Fair play to those who have found love on this site, whether it be temporary or result in somehting more permanent.

I'm just fecking jealous!!!

[Fitzy]

Never have and never will fall for an escort well I tell a little white lie there is one lady we have a laugh and click well that's about it
if I want love I just go out into the real world and find it all this is just a fantasy and nothing more but a nice fantasy lads you can't buy love anyone thinks different is a clown and should be treated accordingly

[JohnRambo]

[QUOTE=EbonyAmber;682430]

I don’t care what anyone says it will always be about money and if you think she’s there because she loves you or something you’re in for some very bad times, and when the final penny is squeezed from your pocket it will all be over and you won’t see her for dust, she’ll simply.......................................................................... .............................

John Rambo.

It is sad that you are clearly so so cynical to believe that because a woman is an escort she cannot love for anything more than money. It saddens me but also angers me. Attitudes like that are depressing and infuriating.

You have basically said that all escorts are gold diggers who only love rich men and will throw you away when you are poor. How dare you. Maybe you had a bad experience or heard of one but you have no right to tar all escorting women with the same brush.

Yes some women are gold diggers- but they are civvi women too. To be honest as an escort I'd be less likely to be a gold digger as I probably make more money than most men.

I hope someday your attitude will change.

Hey Amber I just wanted to say I SINCERELY apologise if I offended you or anyone else as it was never my intention to do so, it was just my opinion as it comes from a real experience I’ve been there, got the T-shirt, and the scars to prove it, once again I apologise if I offended you.